Stop Blaming And Accusing Others Series

We all have unique personalities. We are all different from each other but sometimes we come across negative destructive people as well, who loves to play blame shifting Game. They might have been disguised as families, as colleagues as friends etc.. These negative Narcissistic people are good gossipers, they are envious about other people’s success, always pessimistic, they have no ambitions, always complaining, falsely accusing others, blame shifting, lying on others etc. They're continuously searching for another person to fault for their way of behaving, or anything that in their life isn't turning out well for them, seldom to never conceding issue for the show or the aggravation they cause everyone around them.

They are egomaniac people who need mindfulness, regardless of the amount we attempt to help or clear up for them, they'll not acknowledge their liability. They'll simply find another person to fault or blame so that they can gain a false sense of superiority. “They are the most Self-absorbed individuals that are not keen on our clarifications. In this way they'll not acknowledge liability regarding their own way of behaving. They don't think rules apply to them. This negative behavior is also common among abusers. It occurs when an abuser does something wrong but then tries to turn it around on the other person and make it seem like they've done something wrong. They will not take responsibility for their own choices, instead they turn around and blame someone else.

If you have had a narcissist abuser in your life, then you likely have seen they never place the blame on themselves nor they take responsibility on their own actions, bad attitudes or for their evil behaviors. It is always someone else. Pathological personality disorder people lack their conscience because of their narcist pride, they don’t value any boundaries, they don’t accept failures for their own mistakes. Blaming others is an escape mechanism, which these narcist abusers are expert in it, which helps them to avoid the consequences. They are not interested in your explanations never admitting fault for the drama or the pain they cause to those around them. They’re interested in your reactions, over-emphasize, exaggerate, the fact in order to get pity and attention from others, so they can use those reactions to blame you for everything. Blame-shifting, accusing others with lies can have a significant impact on relationships since it can be so damaging and hurtful to others.

Rev 21:8 says but as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”

Ephesians 4:29 says Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

This becomes a pattern of dysfunctional behavior among them. They always like to play games of Blame, shame, manipulate and fabricate circumstances and pretend to be the victim. They love to try to move fault to others by completely ignoring the part of the situation in which he or she is at fault. The person might even refuse to speak to you or give a silent treatment or listen to the truth and they always want to justify why someone else is at fault. Never blame other people for your personal choices. Always approach problems in your life with a Godly Look, which can turn out better or worse because of your own choice and none else.

These people love to blame on others for their problems, for their personal choices, for their sinful behavior and attitudes and trying to prove that they are “victims.” Ignoring any personal accountability and responsibility for anything. They can even go to any extent of False swearing by the Name of God, or Swearing on Bible or Swearing in their loved one’s name. James 5:12 says but above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

These people struggle with pride, lack of conscience, they have both superiority and inferiority complex issues, false humility or even display criminal behavior without remorse. They lack the ability to take responsibility for their own emotions and actions. They twist the reality and live in deception and confusion. We know that Satan is a father of lies, a cunning liar, accuser of brethren, and will confuse us with deception (John 8:44). Jesus tells us, those people do not have God as their Father but rather another father “the father of lies.” Who is the devil, also known as Satan.

Jesus says, “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies” (John 8:44).