A Case For Selflessness In A Selfie World Series

Introduction:

A. We are in a new sermon series that we started last week called “Serving Like Jesus.”

1. Last week, we explored the fact that God wants us to be conformed into the likeness of Jesus, and because Jesus was a servant, that is an important way that we must be like Him.

B. Today, I want us to make a case for selflessness in a selfie world.

1. Selfishness and self-centeredness are nothing new, but technology and social media have given us a whole new way to be self-absorbed.

2. Let’s look at a few interesting selfie pictures (scroll through the pictures and make comments).

3. How many “selfies” do you have on your cellphone?

4. What do you think the ratio is of selfies to other pictures on your cellphone?

a. A high or low ratio of selfies to the other pictures might teach you something about

yourself.

C. So, let me ask a personal question: Are you a selfish or a selfless person?

1. You may not want to answer that question, but it is important that we come to grips with the answer.

2. For many of us, an honest answer would be: “Some of both.”

3. Hopefully, none of us would say that we are completely selfish, but few, if any of us, can say that we are completely selfless.

4. Let me suggest a word of caution: this is one of those character traits that is hard to evaluate in ourselves – this is often a blind spot for us – it’s hard to see ourselves clearly and accurately.

5. Someone said, “Selfishness is the great unknown sin. No selfish person ever thought himself to be selfish.”

6. Tragically, you or I may be terribly selfish and we may not even be aware of it.

7. Many times we need someone else to help us see the truth about ourselves.

D. Allow me to get personal for a moment.

1. With regard to this matter of selfishness, my mother was very helpful to me early in my life.

2. She was able to help me see how selfish I was becoming and she committed herself to helping me change.

3. One day after I acted very selfishly, I remember my mother saying: “Over my dead body will I allow you to grow up to be that selfish.”

4. Early in our married life, Diana helped me see some of my selfish tendencies that still needed to be brought under control.

5. So, with the help of these two precious women, and through the power of the Holy Spirit, I am thankful to be able to say that I am much better in this area of my life than I would have been.

6. That’s not to say that I am selfless, but that is my goal, and I am closer to it than I used to be.

E. Even the famous preacher and author, Charles Swindoll, has battled the selfish tendency in his own life.

1. He tells a story about a time when he and his son, Curt, took a few days off together and shot the rapids at a river in Oregon.

2. They went with several of the men from their church (there were about 15 in the group).

3. While they were receiving instructions from the canoeing guide, Charles began to take a closer look at the canoes -some were old and worn, but a few were new.

4. Charles wanted to get the new ones for he and his son.

5. So, he whispered in the ear of his son, “Curt, start moving to the left.” “Why?” his son asked. “Just do what I say, son. The two canoes on the end are new. Let’s get’em.”

6. Swindoll’s son co-operated, and they were able to get the new canoes for themeselves.

7. Swindoll said that he handled it so smoothly that nobody noticed it.

8. And then as they were breaking up into groups, he made sure he and his son ended up with old pro as their guide, rather than a couple of rookies.

9. Later, what Swindoll had done hit him hard: he had acted selfishly and to make matters worse, he was teaching his son to be selfish too!

F. I don’t think I have to explain to you why this is such an important subject.

1. Selfishness is a very destructive characteristic.

2. It not only can destroy our relationships with others, but it can also destroy our relationship with God.

3. So, here’s my main point today: Without a selfless spirit, we cannot become like Christ, or be effective in Christ.

4. We cannot be a servant of Jesus and serve like Jesus unless we develop a selfless attitude.

I. THE EXPECTATION

A. For starters, we must realize that a selfless spirit is what God expects us to develop.