Leading With Wisdom

Leading with Wisdom

Nelson Mandela, an icon of leadership, stands as a beacon of inspiration in the annals of history. His remarkable journey from tribal beginnings to global acclaim offers valuable insights into the art of leadership. Unlike many leaders whose legacy is shrouded in varying opinions, Mandela is universally hailed as a paragon of greatness. But what set him apart, and what can we learn from his wisdom?

Mandela's story begins in the heart of tribal leadership. As the son of a tribal chief, he learned invaluable lessons that would shape his leadership style for years to come. When asked how he became such a great leader, Mandela recalled a simple yet profound practice he observed during tribal meetings with his father.

In these gatherings, two key principles stood out. First, the elders always sat in a circle, signifying equality and unity among the participants. Second, Mandela's father, the tribal chief, held a remarkable position—he was always the last to speak.

In a world that often extols the virtue of speaking first and loudest, Mandela's lesson emphasizes the power of restraint and careful listening. He once said, "You will be told your whole life that you need to learn to listen. I would say that you need to learn to be the last to speak."

This wisdom finds relevance not only in tribal councils but also in modern boardrooms, where leadership decisions shape the destinies of organizations and societies alike. Even leaders who consider themselves adept often err by entering a room and immediately presenting their opinions, only to add, "But I'm interested in your thoughts. Let's go around the room."

Yet, as Mandela understood, it is often too late. Speaking first inhibits the free flow of ideas and can inadvertently silence others. The true skill lies in holding one's opinions in check until every voice has had its say. This approach serves a dual purpose: it grants everyone the feeling that they have been heard and ensures that leaders benefit from the collective wisdom of their team before rendering their judgment.

Biblical References:

1. "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." - James 1:19 (ESV)

2. "In a multitude of counselors, there is safety." - Proverbs 11:14 (ESV)

3. "The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things." - Proverbs 15:28 (ESV)

4. "But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere." - James 3:17 (ESV)