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Wired For Love Quiz Series
Contributed by Miles Mc Pherson on Nov 28, 2017 (message contributor)
Summary: A sermon including a "quiz" for love and relationships.
Gatekeeper. They're relationship is a what? And a what? So they can create a safe haven, say safe have, say safe haven, say safe haven, say safe haven and in the safe haven I answered 2 questions.
I learn in a safe haven that I am lovable. That I am what? And that love is available. Say love is, say available. So in a safe haven I learn that I am what? And love is a? And love is? Very good, very good.
So in every relationship there's a gatekeeper, say gatekeeper, and say ah, very good. The man represents n the relationship the man represents Christ, the husband I should say. The wife represents church. The man represents who? And the woman represents who? The man represents who? The wife represents who? You all are learning to understand caveman.
When my son was young, he's 23 tomorrow actually, 23 years old and he's our youngest. Ah he speaks, he speaks less now but he used to speak caveman when he was young. How many of you all have a son that speaks caveman? Let me explain: yeheyeheehahaha. So you, you all learned caveman watch. The man represents who? The represents who? See you understand caveman.
Marriage is a blood covenant. Marriage is what kind of covenant? Marriage is a what kind of covenant? Why? Because when Christ and His church are united it's a blood covenant. The only way you can become part of Christ is through His bloodshed on the cross. When a man and a woman get married technically they're supposed to both be virgins, technically the woman is sealed shut with a blood membrane called the hymen and when the man and the woman have sex and consummate the marriage the woman bleeds so the groom and the bride Christ and the church are united through blood. So marriage is a what kind of covenant? What kind of covenant? What kind of covenant?
Ah sex is a one flesh union. God says - I'm gonna make 2 people to become 1. God created sex so 2 people can become 1 and when you become 1 with your spouse there is a physical imprint on your brain of your spouse's smell, look, sounds, all the memories you have of your spouse is imprinted on your brain. All by the way anyone you are intimate with on your left brain. Your right brain has all the emotions and what God does is that He enabled the brain to where your neurons fire at the same time, feeling emotions and facts of the relationship they wired together. Neurons that fire together wired together. Say fire, say wire. Neurons that what together? They do what together?
And what God wants to do is God says - I'm gonna connect the emotions that, any emotions and feelings associated with this person in your life to the fact that that person and I'm going to connect them together because sex is about pleasure and bonding. Sex is about pleasure and bonding. Say pleasure, say bond. So God wants to wire your brain where you have, you are connected to 1 person.
My wife and I have been together 31 years. We've been married 27. Amen! And there are so many memories of every part of her physical body, every part of her voice, every part of her emotions, all our experiences, imprinted on my brain and not only, not only the physical but the emotions and the memories that are associated with those experiences and God wanted that way so we can be 1 with each other. So she is part of me and I am part of her and that's the way God intended it that we would be 1.