The Virtuous Woman

THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Proverbs 31:10 (KJV)

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies."

Supporting Texts: 1 Peter 3:3-4, Titus 2:3-5, Ephesians 5:33, Proverbs 12:4, Matthew 6:33

INTRODUCTION:

Proverbs 31 offers a timeless portrait of the virtuous woman, a model of wisdom, strength, and grace. This woman is not defined by external beauty or worldly achievements, but by her fear of the Lord and her unwavering commitment to her family and community. As we look at this chapter, we see that the virtuous woman is someone who exudes character, diligence, and selflessness. Her life is a reflection of godliness, and her worth is immeasurable. In our modern world, where the definition of beauty often revolves around superficial standards, Proverbs 31 provides a more profound and lasting definition of true worth.

The woman described in Proverbs 31 is not an unattainable ideal but a model to be aspired to. She is hardworking, wise, compassionate, and her actions reflect a heart that loves the Lord. This chapter speaks to women of all ages, calling them to embrace godly virtues in every area of life. For men, it provides a guide to recognize and appreciate these virtues in the women around them. The virtuous woman is not just a personal example but a gift to her family, church, and society at large.

In this sermon, we will examine the characteristics of the virtuous woman as outlined in Proverbs 31, drawing out the principles that every woman—and indeed every believer—can live by. It is important to note that this passage also speaks to men, teaching them how to value and respect the women in their lives. Let us learn from the wisdom in these verses and seek to embody the qualities of a virtuous woman, or support and encourage those who do.

1. A VIRTUOUS WOMAN FEARS THE LORD

a) Reverence and Awe for God.

The foundation of a virtuous woman is her reverence for God. She acknowledges Him as the source of her strength and wisdom. Her fear of the Lord shapes her decisions and actions, leading her to live a life that is pleasing to Him.

b) The Fear of the Lord is the Beginning of Wisdom.

Proverbs 31:30 highlights that charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. This reverence leads her to make wise choices in her personal life, marriage, and her community.

c) Strength Derived from God’s Grace.

The virtuous woman knows that her strength does not come from her own abilities but from God’s grace. She relies on Him for guidance and sustenance, trusting in His faithfulness.

d) Worship and Devotion Guide Her Actions.

Her relationship with God shapes her character and leads her to be a woman of integrity and compassion. She makes prayer and worship a priority in her life.

Biblical Example: Deborah, the judge of Israel, exemplified the fear of the Lord as she led the people in a time of crisis (Judges 4:4-9).

2. A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS HARDWORKING AND DILIGENT

a) She Works with Her Hands.

Proverbs 31:13-19 speaks of a woman who is industrious, using her talents and resources to bless her family and community. She is not idle but actively seeks to provide and serve.

b) She Provides for Her Family.

The virtuous woman ensures that her household is well-cared for, both spiritually and materially. Her diligence is evident in how she manages her home, providing for her family’s needs with wisdom and efficiency.

c) Her Work is a Testimony of Her Character.

The way she approaches her work reflects her inner character. Whether she is caring for her family or managing her business affairs, she does everything with excellence and integrity.

d) She Balances Work and Rest.

While she is hardworking, she also knows the importance of rest and spiritual renewal. She understands that balance is key to sustaining her energy and focus.

Biblical Example: The Proverbs 31 woman is likened to a merchant's ship, bringing her food from afar (Proverbs 31:14). Her business acumen and determination mirror the success of a woman who builds and strengthens her family.

3. A VIRTUOUS WOMAN IS KIND AND COMPASSIONATE

a) She Shows Mercy to the Poor.

Proverbs 31:20 describes how the virtuous woman extends her hand to the poor, showing compassion to those in need. She understands that true beauty comes from giving, not receiving.

b) She is Generous in Spirit.

Her generosity is not just in material things but also in her time, love, and care. She serves others selflessly, demonstrating the love of Christ in all her actions.

c) She Speaks with Wisdom.

Proverbs 31:26 tells us that she opens her mouth with wisdom and teaches kindness. She uses her words to encourage, uplift, and guide others.