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The Motivation To Succeed Series
Contributed by Glenn Pease on Apr 6, 2021 (message contributor)
Summary: Paul is so negative here that we know their must be another paradox involved, for he is a positive thinker. We can only conclude that somehow a negative approach is sometimes the most positive method of influence.
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Successful people almost always attribute their success, in large
measure, to the influence and inspiration of some other person. Henry
Ford tells of how he was in a period of uncertainty about building his
gas engine. He was discouraged about it, and was letting the idea go
dead in him. It was at this point that he met Thomas Edison at a
convention in New York City. Edison got him to explain his idea, and
draw his plan on a menu card. When Ford finished, Edison banged his
fist on the table and said, "Young man, that's the thing; you have it!
Keep at it!" This word of encouragement from the world's greatest
inventive genius is just what Ford needed. He wrote, "That bang on
the table that night was worth world's to me." He went back from
that convention and built his engine. He had it in him to do it, but it
may never have gotten done without that encouragement from Edison.
Ralph Waldo Emerson spoke wisdom when he said, "Our chief
want in life is somebody who shall make us do what we can." Paul was
striving to be that person to the Corinthian Christians. He was trying
to be that external stimulus that motivates people to be all they can be.
In part one of our study of success we stressed the basic truth that the
arena where the battle for success is fought is within. We must never
lose sight of this truth. Dr. Maxwell Maltz, the celebrated plastic
surgeon and psychologist, and author of Psycho-Cybernetics, wrote,
"Your mind is the battleground in which you win or lose....it is a
battleground in which you lose the war against negative feelings or in
which you win this essential battle and go on to face life with
success-type approaches."
Because this is a vital part of the story of successful living, Paul
emphasizes, "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus."
A vital part is not the whole, however. The heart is vital, but it is not
the whole of the body. The battle is within, but it is also a fact that a
successful battle within depends upon influences from without. It is
almost impossible to be successful alone. We need the positive
influences of others to bring out the best in us.
Victor Goertzel and his wife read over 5,000 volumes of biography
to produce their book Cradles Of Eminence. They examine the
childhood and home life of 400 of the most famous men and women of
the 20th century. They concluded that if you want to be successful you
have got to be influenced by the right people. In the majority of cases
these successful people were influenced by one or both parents who
had a strong drive toward intellectual or creative achievement. The
external influence of someone is what motivated them to will to win
within.
Joseph Brunten Jr., who was born and educated in Pittsburgh, tells
of the influence that motivated him to climb to Chief Scout Executive
of Boy Scouts of America. He was on a hike with a scout troop as a
boy, and they had gone a long way and were tired. When the scout
master said to rest they all flopped on the grass. Then the scout
master said, "Look about you. What do you see?" All in chorus they
shouted, "Grass!" He ordered each patrol to lash 4 sticks together in
a crude frame about a foot square, and place it on the ground. This
was to be their world for the next hour. The boys were puzzled, but
they began to observe. In minutes they realized there was more than
just grass. There was a world of great variety with different plants,
spiders, mites, earthworm mounds, and even a bit of fluff off a rabbit's
tail. There were rock particles, pebbles, and minerals.
Joseph never forgot that experience, and he writes, "In one hour I
received one of the most important lessons I have ever had in my life.
I learned to observe instead of just to see. I learned to look below the
surface instead of to judge by appearance." The scout master
happened to be his father, and this lesson on seeing was a motivating
factor in his success.
Success through seeing is common for successful people, for they
usually see more than others. William T. Brady, one of America's
most successful executives, told of the little girl who was taken for a
cruise around Manhatten Island on a clear day. Suddenly she
exclaimed, "Daddy, I can look farther than my eyes can see." Brady
who knows what success is all about said that is the key- to look
farther than our eyes can see. The person who can help us do that is a