Strength In Relationships (Version 2: October 31, 2021 Used As An All Saints Day Sermon)

STRENGTH IN RELATIONSHIPS

Text: Ruth 1:1 – 18

Ruth 1:1-18  In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land, and a certain man of Bethlehem in Judah went to live in the country of Moab, he and his wife and two sons.  (2)  The name of the man was Elimelech and the name of his wife Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Chilion; they were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah. They went into the country of Moab and remained there.  (3)  But Elimelech, the husband of Naomi, died, and she was left with her two sons.  (4)  These took Moabite wives; the name of the one was Orpah and the name of the other Ruth. When they had lived there about ten years,  (5)  both Mahlon and Chilion also died, so that the woman was left without her two sons and her husband.  (6)  Then she started to return with her daughters-in-law from the country of Moab, for she had heard in the country of Moab that the LORD had considered his people and given them food.  (7)  So she set out from the place where she had been living, she and her two daughters-in-law, and they went on their way to go back to the land of Judah.  (8)  But Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, "Go back each of you to your mother's house. May the LORD deal kindly with you, as you have dealt with the dead and with me.  (9)  The LORD grant that you may find security, each of you in the house of your husband." Then she kissed them, and they wept aloud.  (10)  They said to her, "No, we will return with you to your people."  (11)  But Naomi said, "Turn back, my daughters, why will you go with me? Do I still have sons in my womb that they may become your husbands?  (12)  Turn back, my daughters, go your way, for I am too old to have a husband. Even if I thought there was hope for me, even if I should have a husband tonight and bear sons,  (13)  would you then wait until they were grown? Would you then refrain from marrying? No, my daughters, it has been far more bitter for me than for you, because the hand of the LORD has turned against me."  (14)  Then they wept aloud again. Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.  (15)  So she said, "See, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law."  (16)  But Ruth said, "Do not press me to leave you or to turn back from following you! Where you go, I will go; where you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my people, and your God my God.  (17)  Where you die, I will die—there will I be buried. May the LORD do thus and so to me, and more as well, if even death parts me from you!"  (18)  When Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more to her (NRSV).

In the OT Joseph helped Egypt to be prepared for famine. Naomi and her family were not prepared for all the hardships and death as she and her daughters in law all became widows.

The times in which we live are enough to create concern because of how we on on the threshold of multiple factors that could lead to a famine. There are warning signs everywhere.

?The empty shelves at store; the help wanted signs everywhere;

?the lack of supplies because of shipping issues;

? the rising prices at stores and at the pump;

?the hunger for fellowship created by Covid 19 restrictions;

? the grief caused by loved ones lost to Covid.

Everyone who has ever lost a one can relate to the empty spaces once filled by our loved ones. Naomi, Ruth and Orpah could all relate because of their empty spaces as widows.

We focus on All Saints Day today even though today is Halloween which historically comes from what was once known as All Hallow’s Eve. https://edsitement.neh.gov/closer-readings/origins-halloween-and-day-dead. Before Christianity came on the scene people feared death. In many ways, Naomi and Ruth’s story fits very well with All Saints Day. On All Saints Day we focus on Christian loved ones who have preceded us to heaven where they have joined the church Triumphant.

What would have happened if Naomi and Ruth would have gone their separate ways because they were widows? What happens when we withdraw, throw our hands up and quit? What will happen if we stop meeting together to encourage one another? Can bad habits happen if we “neglect to meet to together to worship and encourage one another”? Hebrews 10:25 helps us to understand how isolation and withdrawal harm and discourage us. Hence the old adage “United we stand, divide we fall”!