Seven Women One Man

Isaiah 4:1  And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

In the passage, Israel was under the judgment of God and many men were killed. This caused economic chaos as well as a lack of men. Thus the desperation of initiating polygamy by the women. Being single was not desired or honored. Women desired children. They were willing to provide material needs for themselves, but they needed the social standing as a wife and mother.

Due to the shortage of men seeking marriage there are quite a few “left over women” in China and elsewhere. There are women over 25 with no husband or children. There are roughly 128 million of them in China with Japan and South Korea also having a large amount of unmarried women. I have seen where two Chinese women were asking to be the wives of a man as well as three Chinese sisters offering themselves as a set. There was a game show where nine women were competing for one man, somewhat like the Bachelor TV show here. One of the “leftover women” from that show gets to be on the Bachelorette show. Another video with two sisters said they could not be separated and were looking for one man to love them both.

Women are foregoing the need for a dowry and have offered a dowry or a car or house to the man. Of course, some have aggrandized personas with one demanding a million dollar dowry, but most are desperate asking for a low or no dowry.

In the Western world radical feminism has created women who do not want to be traditional wives and yet they want traditional men. Indeed, very few women want anything to do with traditional marriage roles. They have created a list of delusional demands for men that maybe.001% of men could fulfill, but that small percentage of men would not find these ladies desirable for marriage. They would be seen as potential flings and nothing more. One very obese lady said her biggest ick about men was if they did not work out. A bit of a double standard there.

Women have said that 80% of men are ugly and the actual average salary of $70K is inadequate as a salary of $200-500K per year is acceptable with the dream being $200K per month. While some of the ladies did have high salaries, most do not make the average of $70K so why does the man need so much income? A very large, loud, and obnoxious woman said her man had to make at least $500K. Even if she got in shape, her attitude and tone would keep her single.

This has created an atmosphere where most men 18-25 are not dating and are not seeing the value of marriage as women only see them as a wallet. Most divorces are initiated by women. 90% if they are college educated. They take half of the men’s assets and deny access to any children while demanding child support. With a 50% divorce rate men are seeing marriage as a high risk, low yield investment. Sadly, the divorce rate of Christians is also 50%

Older men are looking for younger women who have less baggage and are still fertile. Women who waited until they got their career goals are finding dating at thirty to fifty years old is virtually impossible especially if they kept the same standards they had when they were in their twenties. Fifty and above is like trying to find a unicorn. Even Christian women have been infected by radical Feminism in a time when fewer men are attending church so their options are even more limited.

Long ago, I found that most good men are married by forty and then they start having MIs or in some other way start dying off. Men at forty who have never been married usually have no interest in marriage for whatever reason. Over forty, you have the chronic unemployed or underemployed, the addict/alcoholic, multiple divorces, former inmates, mentally ill and gay men. This makes a very small dating market.

Each divorce puts another woman in a shrinking pool of men. Indeed, one study I saw said single women are now targeting married men with good jobs that might be unhappy in their marriage. If not, the seeker may be able to make him think he is unhappy and then throw in some sex hoping he will divorce his wife and marry them. That probably works far more often than we would like to think. Men, be aware and ladies if you want him make yourself the woman he would rather die for than leave.