When I told my wife we would be studying Adam and learning what it means to be a real man, she asked me, "What will the women in the church be doing?"
I didn’t have an answer for her, but I have an answer for all the women this morning. You’ve worked hard this week. You deserve to rest. For the next 30 minutes, you have my permission to dose off. You can plan out your afternoon or think about what to cook for dinner. There is absolutely nothing for you this morning.
I’m just kidding. Practically everything we will learn about men will apply to women. The Bible tells us that men and women are created equally but differently. An email I received compares men and women in this way:
"Women are compassionate, and loving, and caring. They will stop at nothing to get what they think is best for their children. They know how to comfort a sick friend. Women bring joy and laughter to the world. Women are easily brought to tears by injustice."
"Men, well, they are good at moving heavy things and killing spiders."
Our images of men, real men, have changed with time. There was time, when real men didn’t cry, or so we were encouraged to believe. Today, we are told that real men are sensitive, compassionate, in touch with their feelings and do cry.
The American cliché, "Real men don’t eat quiche," has been altered to "Real men not only eat quiche, but they also cook quiche."
But what does the Bible say about real men? After all, the Bible is God’s Word. The Creator ought to know what He created and what He intended His creation to be like.
For the next 30 minutes, I’m going to read portions of the creation account from the Bible. Then I will make two observations, one about the origin of man and the other about the image of man. After that, I will close with three ways real men relate to God.
Let me begin with the reading of Genesis 1:26-29; 2:7-9; 15-25, and then 3:1-12, 17-21.
If this account of creation is new to you, I encourage you to re-read these three chapters in Genesis. I imagine you have many questions. You’re welcome to email me with your questions, and I will reply after I come back from vacation.
For now, let me make the two observations related to Adam, the first man.
The first observation is that Adam, the first man, was created by God and not evolved from an ape or ape-like creature.
Some Christians want to believe the Bible and the theory of macro-evolution. (The Bible affirms micro-evolution, the differences – color, sizes, texture, etc.- within each type of animals caused by pressure from without or genetic changes from within.) So they blend the two together by saying God created the world and the basic elements, but God allowed evolution to be the process of creating higher beings, including human beings. Yet, the record in Genesis precludes macro-evolution.
Biochemist, Dr. Duane Gish, notes, "Evolution is the most wasteful, inefficient and cruel method that could ever be devised to create living things ... mutations (the process of evolution) leads almost always to bad outcomes: crippling, sickness, disfigurements and deaths. Good mutations are rare and they still need to compete with enormous odds to survive." A good and compassionate God would not use evolution as a process of creating living things.
Yet, in the United States, in Asia and in many other countries, people are taught the theory of evolution as fact. People are taught that men evolved from apes or ape-like creatures.
But if men truly evolved from apes and ape-like creatures, we should be able to find many fossils that have both ape-like and human-like features. The theory of evolution requires such transitional forms. Let’s take a look at what is found up to this point in time.
These are the popular fossil representatives we see in school textbooks, museums and zoos.
In 1860, during the lifetime of Charles Darwin, the fossil of a man who didn’t walk completely erect was found. This fossil was called the Neanderthal Man. Eventually, further analysis of certain Neanderthal Man showed the fossils were not from primitive ape-man, but possibly skeletons of modern men with signs of arthritis and rickets, a condition due to lack of vitamin D. Neanderthal Man was a man and not a transitional form.
In 1912, an ape-like jaw and a human skull were found close together, and scientists named this fossil the Piltdown Man. By 1950, scientists did more observation, and they found that the human skull and ape jawbone of the Piltdown Man were treated with chemical to look old. Furthermore, the teeth on the ape jawbone were mechanically filed to look like human teeth. Piltdown Man is not a transitional form.
In 1922, scientists created the Nebraska Man when they found one tooth. Nebraska Man is not a transitional form.
About 60 years ago, a fossilized jaw and a few teeth were found in India, and scientists named this fossil, Ramapithecus. Since that time, scientists have agreed that Ramapithecus is not a transitional form.
And there is Java Man, discovered by Dr. Eugene Dubois. Dr. Dubois eventually declared the fossil of Java Man to be an ape-like creature and scientists no longer consider Java Man as a transitional form.
Then there is the Cro-Magnon Man, which was later identified as a modern European man. Finally, there is the Peking Man fossils, which were lost in 1941.
In short, none of these fossils can support the evolution of apes to men. They were either fossils of apes or fossils of men. Many are disproved as transitional forms.
Oswald Chambers wrote, "If the Bible agreed with modern science, the Bible would soon be out of date." The Bible is the trustworthy Word of God. And the Bible tells us that God created mankind.
The second observation is related to the first, and that is Adam, the first man, was not only created by God, but he was created in God’s image.
God made mankind superior over all other living creatures. We are given the authority to rule them. Furthermore, we are made in the image of God.
Unfortunately, we don’t know for sure how we are like God before the disobedience of Adam and Eve. Since none of us have seen God, and the Bible’s description of mankind is primarily after the disobedience of Adam and Eve, we can only make some studied guesses at what being made in the image of God means.
I believe that we were created as physical being like all other animals. But we are made in the image of God in that we were also living spirits, which enable us to relate intimately with God, who is Spirit. But when Adam and Eve disobeyed God, our spirit died, and we were left with our physical body.
We read in Genesis 2:17, "But you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."
And Genesis 3:7 tells us the immediate difference after Adam and Eve ate the fruit, "Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked." With the death of their spirits, all Adam and Eve could see were their physical bodies.
Since the time of Adam and Eve, all of mankind are born physically only. We can only be born spiritually later in life by the work of God’s Spirit.
Jesus said in John 3:5-6, "I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit [of God] gives birth to spirit.
John 7:38-39 tells us, "Whoever believes in [Jesus], as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him. By this he meant the Spirit." Unless you receive the Spirit of God through trust in Jesus Christ, you are only a physical being, without your living spirit to relate to God.
The title of this message is, "Real Men Relate to God." Real men have the image of God restored in them, so they can relate to God. And the Bible tells us our spirit can only be made alive by God’s Spirit through believe in Jesus.
With the remaining time, we’ll look at three ways real men (and women) relate to God.
First, real men are accountable to God. We read this in Genesis 1:28, 2:15-17 and 3:6.
God gave Adam authority and freedom to manage the creation. The only rule God gave to Adam was that he would not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Yet, Adam disobeyed, and he became less of a real man.
Each day that we live without regard for God, we become less of what God intended for us. How we handle our relationships with others and how we handle our possessions in life matters to God. God is the Creator and Owner of all. We are His managers. Managers are accountable to the Owner.
Real men recognize God is in charge, and in the end, we will answer to God. If you want to be a real man or woman, live your life knowing that you will eventually answer to God. We will answer for every thought we think, every word we speak and every action we take or omit.
Second, real men admit failure to God. We read this in Genesis 3:6-12.
God asked Adam, "Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?"
Adam replied, "The woman you put here with me - she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it."
Adam was the first to play the blame game. He didn’t admit that he did wrong. He tried to shift the blame onto Eve. When Adam didn’t admit failure to God, he became less of a real man.
Real men admit failure, mistake and willful disobedience to God. If you want to be a real man or a real woman, confess your wrongs to God first.
Third, real men accept help from God. We read this in Genesis 3:21.
God helped Adam, and Adam accepted help from God. God killed and shed the blood of animals to cover the guilt and shame of his failure. It wasn’t that Adam and Eve could see through the fig leaves, so they needed animal skin. God gave them animal skins to show the cost of forgiveness.
Hebrews 9:22 tells us, "In fact, the law requires that nearly everything be cleansed with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness."
The shedding of animal blood was a foreshadow of the complete and final forgiveness for mankind’s sin through the shedding of Christ’s blood. Jesus Christ said in Matthew 26:28, "This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins."
Real men accept help from God. If you want to be a real man, allow God to help you. Receive the blood of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins.
Let me close with the following poem, titled "Where is God?" (This is a poem about a person who looks for God scientifically but does not find God until he finds Jesus.)
"To His presence I am blind. . . .
I have scanned each star and sun,
Traced the certain course they run;
I have weighed them in my scale,
And can tell when each will fail;
From the caverns of the night,
I have brought new worlds to light;
I have measured earth and sky,
Read each zone with steady eye;
But no sight of God appears,
In the glory of the spheres."
But the heart spoke wistfully,
"Have you looked at Calvary?"
If you don’t know God, it’s because you’ve not considered Calvary. Calvary was the place where Jesus was crucified for the forgiveness of our sins. On Calvary, God offered the only solution for restoring men to real men. And yes, for restoring women to real women, also.
