The Mark of a Methodist
John 13:31-35
I think it’s safe to say that this is the simplest, clearest and most difficult command of all.
Perhaps more than any other single passage in the New Testament, this one should cause us to rise up out of our seats, run out of this building and never come back.
(pause)
“Love one another.”
On one level, that’s no sweat.
Think nice thoughts, do an occasional good deed, and center your life around the tenets of Hallmark.
Love.
We know how to do that because we are generally nice people, right?
But wait a minute.
Jesus doesn’t stop there.
He also says, “As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
That’s the part that many of us run from.
We might think love is a pretty good idea, but Jesus doesn’t say to love just any old way.
Jesus commands us to love Jesus’ Way.
Just like Jesus did.
Just like a Cross!
Loving Jesus’ way is not safe or comfortable.
But this is a non-negotiable command for all those who wish to follow Jesus.
But do we really want to love this way?
It can be a real dilemma.
One Christian has written: “It is decidedly impractical to love as Jesus loves.
It’s amazing to me that we church people aren’t mad at Jesus more than we are.
For His teachings challenge much of what we hold dear.
If you listen to Jesus closely, be prepared to be bothered.”
To love as Jesus loves is to love, not based on our opinions or prejudices or feelings of justice or at any given time.
It is unconditional; it includes everyone and excludes no one.
And it goes all the way.
One person writes: “The phone rang some time ago.
It was a friend whose daughter had been murdered in a nearby state—incredibly painful and tragic.
On a hike once, this friend told me that he eventually wanted to visit his daughter’s killer.
Well, that day arrived.
That’s why he was calling.
He and his wife had been to the sentencing.
‘You know,’ he said on the phone, ‘We talked to him and offered him our forgiveness.’
There was silence for a while.
Somehow, I wasn’t expecting this.
‘And you know,’ he went on, ‘it looks like we’ll be visiting him from time to time.
We went down there thinking there would be some sort of closure to the trip, an end to all this pain, and here it seems God is opening up a new chapter in our lives.’”
Seeking to love as Jesus loves is at the core of getting to know and discovering Who the real God is.
Jesus’ love is all about the other person.
It overflows into humble service, not in order to show off, but because this is its natural form.
While on this earth, Jesus’ love brought Him into some amazing places and situations.
It took Him to a wedding where He turned water into wine…
…and it also took Him to the dark places of outer society where the lepers lived.
It caused Him to raise a dead girl back to life…
…calm a storm…
…heal the demon possessed…
…weep for a dead friend…
…face the institutions of His day with unwavering confidence and truth…
…teach the masses about the love of God…
…rescue a woman about to be stoned…
…feed the hungry…
…heal the blind; make friends with prostitutes and tax collectors…
…include everyone and exclude no one…
…have immeasurable patience with a band of disciples who never seemed to “get it”…
…live radically to the core…
…and go all the way to the Cross for the sins of the world.
As followers of Jesus, where are we called to go; who are we called to love and what does that look like?
In his book, Soul Graffiti: Making a Life in the Way of Jesus, author Mark Scandrette writes about a time when, on a bus ride home from work, he befriended an elderly man who seemed lonely and in need of a friend.
The man lived in a rusty old school bus in that was parked in a vacant lot.
When Mark told the man he was a follower of Jesus, the man became very angry and yelled, “Get out of my bus!”
But instead of giving up on the man, Mark, along with some members of his church, began visiting the man several times a week, bringing him groceries, helping to cut his hair and clip his toe nails…
…and gradually, the guy started to trust their friendship and open up to them.
Mark writes that one December, the man confided in him: “I’m going to kill myself on New Year’s Eve.”
As he tried to talk him out of it, telling him that God loves him, the man replied bitterly, “Nobody ever cared about me.”
Mark continues, “At Christmas we decided to throw a party for him, including his favorite foods and a birthday cake.
I told him I was going to bring my family along.
There was a full moon on that December evening when I knocked on the door of his bus.
He came to the door with a thin young woman, who we knew worked as a prostitute and lived in a trailer on the street nearby.
She joined us along with one of her ‘clients.’”
Mark continues, “We ate by candlelight serenaded by music from a transistor radio.
The man declared that the food—a collection of dishes he requested—was delicious.
After dinner my wife Lisa put candles on the cake.
‘Let’s sing Happy Birthday to someone who hasn’t celebrated their birthday in a while,’ Mark suggested.
“Who could we sing Happy Birthday to?”
Mark continues, “Just then, beaming, our three-year-old son Noah blurted, ‘It’s Christmas. Let’s sing Happy Birthday to Jesus!”
Mark writes, “I panicked.
The name of Jesus was the worst thing I could imagine mentioning in front of this man, and I waited to see how he would react.
Slowly, with a big toothless grin, the man said, ‘Yes, let’s sing happy birthday to Jesus!’”
Mark continues: “Under a clear and starry night the eight of us sang together—Lisa, me, a streetwalker and her john, a man who had never experienced love, and three small blond children with red cheeks.
As helped the man back into his bus, he turned to me and said, ‘This was the best night of my life.
Thank you.’”
John Wesley, the Founder of Methodism once wrote: “Love cannot be hidden any more than light, and least of all when it shines forth in action.
When you exercise yourself in the labor of love, you may as well try and hide a city as to trying to hide a Christian.”
“By this everyone will know you are my disciples,” says Jesus, “if you love one another.”
Love is the key to life and the only way to find joy and happiness.
It is true freedom.
“As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
Jesus has given us the immeasurable privilege of living like Him.
This is the mark of a Christian.
This is the mark of a Methodist Christian.
Do people know you are a disciple of Christ by how you love?
Where is God calling you to go?
Who is God calling you to reach with God’s love?
Where are you not loving as Jesus loves?
Who are you not loving as Jesus loves?
Don’t miss out on it.
Don’t allow anything to get in the way of it.
Make it the most important part of your life…
…check that; make it your ENTIRE LIFE!
A long time ago, as He hung on a cross, Jesus the Lamb of God prayed for the very people who were killing Him.
“Father forgive them for they don’t know what they are doing.”
“Love one another,” Jesus said.
Just like that!
Will you pray with me?
