Words that Build Up: Transformed by Truth Ephesians 4:29
Introduction:
Today, we turn our hearts and minds to Ephesians 4:29, a verse that challenges us to consider the power of our words. Let's read it together from the New Living Translation:
Ephesians 4:29 (NLT): "Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them."
In this verse, Paul instructs us on the importance of our speech and its impact on others. Our sermon today will focus on three key points: The Power of Words, The Purpose of Words, and The Practice of Edifying Speech.
1. The Power of Words
Paul's letter to the Ephesians addresses how believers should live in light of their new identity in Christ. Ephesians 4 focuses on unity and maturity in the body of Christ, emphasising the importance of our conduct, including our speech.
The Greek word for "foul" is "sapros," which means rotten or corrupt. Paul contrasts this with speech that is good and helpful, highlighting the significant impact our words can have.
Proverbs 18:21 (NLT): "The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences."
This verse underscores the life-giving or destructive power of our words.
James 3:5-6 (NLT): "In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire. And the tongue is a flame of fire."
James vividly describes the tongue's potential for both good and harm.
Our words carry immense power. We must be mindful of how we speak, understanding that our words can either build up or tear down. Let us choose to speak life and encouragement.
Consider a small rudder that steers a massive ship. Similarly, our tongues, though small, can set the direction of our lives and influence others significantly. Let us steer towards kindness and encouragement.
2. The Purpose of Words
Paul emphasises that our speech should be good and helpful, with the purpose of building up those who hear.
The Greek word for "helpful" is "oikodome," which means building up or edification. This suggests that our words should contribute positively to the growth and well-being of others.
Colossians 4:6 (NLT): "Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone."
Paul urges us to speak with grace, aiming to benefit and attract others to Christ.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NLT): "So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing."
Encouragement and edification are central to our interactions as believers.
We should aim for our conversations to be constructive, providing support and encouragement. This requires intentionality and a heart aligned with God's purposes.
Think of a skilled builder who carefully selects materials and places each brick with precision. Our words should be like those bricks, carefully chosen to strengthen and support those around us.
3. The Practice of Edifying Speech
Paul calls us to be deliberate in our speech, ensuring that it serves to encourage those who hear.
The phrase "so that your words will be an encouragement" is translated from the Greek word "charis," meaning grace or favour. This conveys that our speech should be filled with grace, imparting positive and uplifting messages.
Proverbs 15:4 (NLT): "Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit."
Gentle, kind words can bring life and healing, contrasting with deceitful speech that harms.
Matthew 12:36-37 (NLT): "And I tell you this, you must give an account on judgment day for every idle word you speak. The words you say will either acquit you or condemn you."
Jesus reminds us of the accountability we have for our words and their eternal significance.
To practice edifying speech, we must cultivate a heart filled with God's love and truth. Regularly meditating on Scripture, praying for wisdom, and seeking the Holy Spirit's guidance will help us speak words that uplift and encourage.
Imagine a gardener tending to a garden, carefully nurturing each plant to ensure it flourishes. Our words are like seeds planted in the hearts of others. Let us sow seeds of kindness, love, and encouragement.
Conclusion and Call to Action:
In conclusion, dear friends, let us remember the power, purpose, and practice of edifying speech. Our words have the potential to transform lives, reflecting the love and grace of Christ.
Call to Action:
Reflect on your daily conversations. Are your words building up or tearing down? Commit to speaking words of life, encouragement, and grace. Seek God's help in transforming your speech to align with His will.
Let us pray: "Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of speech. Help us to use our words to build up and encourage others. Transform our hearts and minds so that our speech reflects Your love and truth. Empower us by Your Spirit to speak life and grace. In Jesus' name, Amen."
May God bless you as you go forth, speaking words that edify and encourage, transforming lives with the truth of His Word.
