FUTURE TENSE
“Live like you were Dying”
Philippians 1:20-26
Tim McGraw sings a song where he says that one of the things he would do when bad news came along was go skydiving. I did it. Crossed it off my bucket list. The song was inspired by an incident in Tim McGraw’s life. His father, Tug MacGraw, was hospitalized with a brain tumor in March 2003. He found out that day that he had cancer and was given three weeks to live-he actually survived nine months. Tim MacGraw recorded this song in memory of his father. It is by far one of my favorite songs in country music because when we hear it, it causes most of us to stop and consider a very important question.
How would you live your life if you knew that you were dying? If you have never noticed before we have several banners that speak t this poste here in the church. If you knew you only had a short period of time to live how would you live?...... How would you make decisions….. How would you treat other people? The apostle Paul who was in jail wrote a letter to the church in Philippi and said Philippians 1:20-26.
Physically something happens; something that changes inside of us, when we are confronted with the possibility of death. Whether it be our own or someone we care deeply about. It causes us to stop and examine our priorities, it causes us to give more thought to our conversations and often we feel compelled to make things right with as many people as possible. The Jews had 613 commandments to live by. They memorized them but even for the most devout Jew, this was an impossible task to go by this. The Pharisees who were all legalists came to Jesus one day and asked him, teacher what is the greatest commandment in the law? Jesus replied, Matthew 22: 37-40. Jesus made it clear that above all of the law there was nothing more important than showing God’s love to everyone. You and I must learn to love others as deeply as possible. Throughout the Gospels, Jesus gave the disciples a clear example to follow in this area. And this is the way he put it, “I have set for you an example that you should do as I have done to you.” Let me ask you, on a scale of 1-10, how do you rate in this area? If the love of Jesus rated as a 10, what would your number be?
• Jesus said if someone curses at you... Give them a blessing.
• If someone hates you, love them, do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you.
• When you encounter the sick, he showed compassion and made them well.
• When no one would have anything to do with those who had leprosy, Jesus spent time with them and healed them.
Now in the South where I was raised people would often just say, the words “bless her heart” or “bless his heart” and it suddenly made everything okay. They would say things like…
• She’s as ugly as a mud fence, bless her heart.
• He is as dumb as a bag of bricks, bless his heart
Jesus constantly stood up for the underdog, the hurting, the disadvantaged and John tells us that whoever claims to know Christ must live as Jesus lived. Jesus is our benchmark. Jesus sets the standard for all of us. You may have noticed something... It is easy to love someone who is kind to you; it is easy to love someone who loves you, someone who does kind things for you and speaks kind words to you-but for those who don’t---- for those who never have a good word to say to you, always criticizing everything you do, to those who we might even classify an enemy... It is not easy to love them. Yet that is exactly the person Jesus is referring to.
So here is some advice from scripture.
1. Paul also tells us that at every opportunity we must learn to overcome evil with good. Let me ask you, when you are gone from this place one day, what are the words you really hope you will be remembered for? Because we will be remembered for the words we have spoken. If you don’t believe me, think about this... Think of the most hateful, harsh words that have ever been spoken to you...That didn’t take long did it? Most of you right now are not only remembering the words, you are remembering the person who said them and exactly where you were at the time. The Scripture challenges us to not only love those whom it is easy to love but also love the person you simply cannot stand. And not only love them, but love them deeply. You and I must learn to love others as deeply as possible.
Listen to what Jesus said in Luke 6:27-32
Then Paul and James speak frequently about the tongue and the great damage we can cause by the words we speak. Paul gives us an incredible challenge in Ephesians 4 as he says this, some more advice….”do not let any unwholesome word/talk come out of your mouths but only what is helpful for building others up.” In other words if it’s not encouraging, don’t say it. If you don’t have something good to say, don’t say it all.
2. Fact/advice. If we learn to live like we’re dying then we will speak to others as though these words may be the last words we ever speak. They will be the words we will be remembered by. And it would certainly not be words we would ever regret. Just think about how a few words can change a situation. One word ill spoken can set off a chain of events having a domino effect that can even destroy a marriage. They can destroy the workplace. Can even destroy a church. James said the tongue is like a fire and reminds us that even a small spark can set an entire forest on fire. He said it corrupts the whole person. Out of the same mouth comes praise and cursing. Then he says my brothers this should not be. Yet it happens. Some of us have more of a problem in this area than others. As believers we have a responsibility to speak words of kindness, in our homes, in our work, in our church... In every area of life. These words you speak will be your testimony.
This is how people were will remember you. If you knew you would die soon, how would you speak to others?
3. We must give forgiveness to those we have denied forgiveness. You know who those people are. They are the ones who have hurt you deeply and have never apologized and probably have even forgotten about it by now. They are the ones who say things or do things, they apologize and then they keep doing them. They are the ones who for one reason or another-they just don’t like you. And in those cases, what we do is we deny them forgiveness. Let me ask you, what if Jesus had done that to everyone who hurt him? He is our example not the world. Keep in mind that Jesus said “if you do not forgive others their sins, your father will not forgive your sins.” When we refuse, we deny forgiveness to someone there are several things that begin to happen inside of us. But most of all bitterness begins to develop. According to scripture this is what can happen …….Hebrews 12:15 New Living Translation. “Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many.” You see there is always a reason we deny forgiveness to someone. It is because we want to hurt them. We want to get back at them. We are angry and that bitterness starts to develop and the Bible says it is like a spring of water….. It springs up and causes trouble. And by the way at times it will only cause trouble for you. Most of the time the individual who has offended you has already forgotten about it but all this time you are bitter, filled with stress, and develop ulcers and all kinds of physical sickness develops and ultimately you will explode... You see it’s going to come out in some way. So we must learn to deal with it. Give forgiveness to those you have denied forgiveness. Don’t just say the words. Mean them. Truth is most of us will never know the day of our death. But if we did we would certainly live in a different way, wouldn’t we? In the same way if you knew for sure that Jesus was returning tomorrow….how would you live? What would you do? Who would you speak to and what would you speak to them about? Would you talk to them about politics? Vacation plans? Football? No we would talk about things that matter. Things that matter for eternity. None of these other things are permanent.
If we knew we were dying or if we knew Jesus was coming back tomorrow, we would show more love to others, we would speak kinder words and we would forgive those who need it. And most of all I think our conversations would center round HIM. JESUS. The author and the finisher of our faith. The alpha and the omega. The beginning and the end.
Best-selling author and Pastor Rick Warren said that his father, Pastor Jimmy Warren, who would helped shape his destiny with his final, dying words. Rick warren said in order to understand everything I do you have to understand my Father’s last words to me while dying from cancer. "He never talked about the books he'd read, the movies he'd seen, or the war he'd been in. Instead, he dreamed all the time about building churches, and he did reliving one building project after another." He said the night before my father died, my wife, my niece, and I were in his bedroom by his side. Dad suddenly became very agitated and tried to get out of bed," Warren continued. "Of course, he was too weak to get up so Rick’s wife, Kay insisted he lay back down. But he kept persisting in trying to get out of bed. Finally, Kay in exasperation said 'Jimmy, you CANNOT get up! You are dying. We will get you whatever you need. What are you trying to do?'
"My dad replied, 'I've got to save one more for Jesus! I've got to save one more for Jesus! One more for Jesus! One more for Jesus!' He began to repeat that phrase over and over and over. Rick Warren said it that during the next hour, he repeated the phrase probably a hundred times: 'Got to save one more for Jesus!'"
Warren said that as he sat by his bed with tears flowing down his cheeks, he bowed his head to thank God for the legacy of his father. Warren said he was with his father when he was on his deathbed and he said that the last words his father said to him were these…before we close our eyes tonight, we must reach one more for Jesus.
I love that. At that point we’re not thinking about going to the office, we’re not worried about the laundry or the bills. Because all that really matters is do I know Jesus and do my friends know Jesus? Tell them now. Tell them today. Because we never know when that day will be. What do you want to be known for?
