Families have various expectations for one another at Christmas. Regardless of how far away you might live, many times they expect a visit or even a grand get together for Christmas. Regardless of the reason, the various means of travel from air, train or road are often congested and difficult. Many just seek the peace and quiet of the end of their travel.
The Gospel of Luke pictures both Joseph and Mary as residing in Nazareth before Jesus was born. Matthew makes no mention of their residence before Jesus’ birth; he only makes it plain (as Luke does also) that Jesus was born in Bethlehem. It is quite possible that the families of Mary and Joseph were a part of the Jewish migration from Judea to Galilee which began during the time of the Macabean ruler Aristobulus. Those who migrated were zealous Jews who desired to bring their religion to the pagan Galileans and were so successful that there was no question of the Jewish character of the region after that time. Yet these families kept their ties with their native cities, and for the purposes of the Roman census they were required to return. Joseph was a part of a poor carpenter’s family. He not only followed this craft himself but also taught it to Jesus (Mk. 6:3). The Judean origin of Joseph’s family is further emphasized by the repeated reference to his Davidic ancestry. Not only is this clear from the genealogies in both Matthew and Luke and the forced journey to Bethlehem for the census, but Mt. 1:20 also refers to Joseph’s Davidic lineage; here the angel Gabriel addresses Joseph as David’s son. (Wead, D. W. (1979–1988). Joseph Husband of Mary. In G. W. Bromiley (Ed.), The International Standard Bible Encyclopedia, Revised (Vol. 2, pp. 1130–1131). Wm. B. Eerdmans.)
In our journeys, why do we travel? Some come out of duty, others, a desire to get reacquainted with family members they haven't seen in a while, and some leave where they presently reside in order to go back to where they are born. The reason for all the activity we do can make all the difference between frenzied activity and purposeful ministry.
Joseph was a faithful man of God who concerned himself with honoring God even when all the facts we not initially known. God used his obedience in the outworking of His plans. His faithfulness was the means that God used in order to deliver the message of peace to a lost and frenzied world. Matthew 1:18-25 highlights that obedience as seen through the: 1) The Predicament of Joseph (Matthew 1:18-19), 2) The Point to Joseph (Matthew 1:20-21), 3) The Prophecy for Joseph (Matthew 1:22-23), and 4) The Performance of Joseph (Matthew 1:24-25)
Peace is experienced through godly obedience, as seen through:
1) The Predicament of Joseph (Matthew 1:18-19)
Matthew 1:18-19[18] Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. [19] And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. (ESV)
Here in Matthew, Joseph found himself in quite a predicament. He had had no sexual relations with his wife (for the presentation had not yet taken place) and yet she was pregnant. He surmised that she must be guilty of adultery (since Mary had not told Joseph of Gabriel’s visit, Lk. 1:26–38, or else Joseph did not believe her story). Should Joseph turn her over to be stoned, Deut. 22:21, or should he show her mercy and quietly put her away (divorce her)? He planned to do the latter of these things. (We will spend about have our time on this first point this morning.)
The Birth described here is a word from the same Greek root as “genealogy” in verse 1 (i.e., ??´?es??, genesis, best translated “origin”), indicating that Matthew is here giving a parallel account of Jesus’ ancestry-this time from His Father’s side. Verse 1 has promised to reveal the “origin” of the Messiah, and the repetition of that word here shows that that promise is still being fulfilled, Jesus as the culmination of Israel’s messianic hopes..( France, R. T. (2007). The Gospel of Matthew. The New International Commentary on the New Testament (50). Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publication Co.)
We have little information about Mary. It is likely that she was a native of Nazareth and that she came from a relatively poor family. From Matthew 27:56, Mark 15:40, and John 19:25 we learn she had a sister named Salome, the mother of James and John (who therefore were Jesus’ cousins). If, as many believe, the Eli (or Heli) of Luke 3:23 was Joseph’s father-in-law (Matthew gives Joseph’s father as Jacob, Mt. 1:16), then Eli was Mary’s father. We know that Elizabeth, the wife of Zacharias, was Mary’s “relative” (Luke 1:36), probably her cousin. Those are the only relatives, besides her husband and children, of whom the New Testament speaks.
We know even less of Joseph than of Mary. His father’s name was Jacob (Matt. 1:16) and he was a craftsman, a construction worker (tekton), probably a carpenter (Matt. 13:55). Most importantly, he was a “righteous man” (Mt. 1:19), an Old Testament saint.
It is possible that both Joseph and Mary were quite young when they were betrothed. Girls were often betrothed as young as twelve or thirteen, and boys when they were several years older than that. Although Joseph and Mary were only betrothed at this time (v 18), he was considered her husband and she was considered his wife. The difference between our modern concept of “engagement” and that of first-century Jews is indicated by the description of Joseph already in v. 19 as Mary’s husband and by the use of the normal word for divorce to describe the ending of the engagement. Though the couple were not yet living together, it was a binding contract entered into before witnesses which could be terminated only by death (which would leave the woman a “widow”) or by divorce as if for a full marriage (m. Ketub. 4:2); sexual infidelity during the engagement would be a basis for such divorce. About a year after the engagement (m. Ketub. 5:2; Ned. 10:5) the woman (then aged normally about thirteen or fourteen) would leave her father’s home and go to live with the husband in a public ceremony (such as is described in 25:1–12), which is here mentioned by the phrase “before they came together” and will be recorded in v. 24.( France, R. T. (2007). The Gospel of Matthew. The New International Commentary on the New Testament (50). Grand Rapids, MI: Wm. B. Eerdmans Publication Co.) Some translators have taken (the phrase “before they came together”) to mean specifically “sexual intercourse,” but “married” is more accurate here. Matthew is obviously referring to marriage...Although in many respects engagement was considered as binding as marriage, the two words are distinguished from one another. Marriage actually took place only as the bridegroom took his bride to his home and consummated the marriage with her (Newman, B. M., & Stine, P. C. (1992). A handbook on the Gospel of Matthew. UBS helps for translators; UBS handbook series (21). New York: United Bible Societies.).
Mary’s virginity was an important evidence of her godliness. Her reason for questioning Gabriel’s announcement of her conception was the fact that she knew she was a virgin (Luke 1:34). This testimony protects from accusation that Jesus was born of some other man. That Mary was “found” to be pregnant indicates that she may not have immediately told Joseph, but had waited until her condition could be seen. This probably occurred after her return from visiting her pregnant cousin Elizabeth (mother of John the Baptist) with whom she had stayed for three months (cf. Luke 1:39–56) (Barton, B. B. (1996). Matthew. Life application Bible commentary (14). Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.).
Please turn to Genesis 3
Obviously Jesus’ conception by the Holy Spirit is a great mystery. Yet, not only had Isaiah indicated such a birth (Isaiah 7:14), but even in Genesis we get a glimpse of it. The first picture of redemption is foreshadowed following the sin of Adam and Eve:
Genesis 3:14-15 [14] The LORD God said to the serpent, “Because you have done this, cursed are you above all livestock and above all beasts of the field; on your belly you shall go, and dust you shall eat all the days of your life. [15] I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring/seed; he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel." (ESV)
• The Message of Peace of the forthcoming birth of a redeemer first comes in the midst of despair. This Protoevangelium,” the first announcement of the gospel, this hope comes to fulfillment in Jesus Christ, who is clearly presented in the NT as overcoming Satan (Heb. 2:14; 1 John 3:8; cf. Matt. 12:29; Mark 1:24; Luke 10:18; John 12:31; 16:11; 1 Cor. 15:24; Col. 2:15) (Crossway Bibles. (2008). The ESV Study Bible (p. 56). Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles.)
In a technical sense the seed belongs to the man, and Mary’s impregnation by the Holy Spirit in Matthew 1:18 is the only instance in human history that a woman had a seed within her that did not come from a man. The “seed” here is singular, in that it refers to one great, final, glorious product of a woman, who will be the Lord Himself-born without male seed. In that sense the prediction is messianic. Because Jesus lived as a man, we know that he fully understands our experiences and struggles (Hebrews 4:15–16). Because He is God, He has the power and authority to deliver us from sin (Colossians 2:13–15). We can tell Jesus all our thoughts, feelings, and needs. He has been where we are now, and he has the ability to help (Barton, B. B. (1996). Matthew. Life application Bible commentary (15). Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.).
In verse 19 Joseph, Mary’s husband, is called just/righteous, which marks Joseph as a truly religious Jew, and puts him in the same class with Zacharias and Elisabeth who were “righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless,” and makes him like Simeon who was “righteous and devout.” The word refers to the heart as well to the conduct. As a truly religious Jew, Joseph could not think of consummating his marriage with Mary under the present circumstances (Lenski, R. C. H. (1961). The Interpretation of St. Matthew's Gospel (42–43). Minneapolis, MN.: Augsburg Publishing House.). Joseph, being just/righteous, saw that he was unable to consummate the marriage, but he did not want to be harsh. Perhaps we should say that for Joseph being just/righteous before God included an element of mercy (the “just man” is compassionate, Ps. 37:21). Probably also he preferred to act in a way that would avoid an open scandal. He could have made a public display of his indignation by taking Mary before the law court and making an example of her. But his concern for the law did not lead him to the conclusion that he must humiliate the young lady who, he thought, had offended. He preferred to divorce her secretly. Divorce was no great problem for an Israelite man: he simply had to give the lady “a bill of divorce” before two witnesses and send her away (the procedure is given in Deut. 24:1). (Morris, L. (1992). The Gospel according to Matthew (27). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Leicester, England: W.B. Eerdmans; Inter-Varsity Press.)
Since Joseph was a just/righteous man, he had a double problem, at least in his own mind. First, because of his righteous moral standards, he knew that he should not go through with the marriage because of Mary’s pregnancy. He knew that he was not the father and assumed, quite naturally, that Mary had had relations with another man. But second, because of his righteous love and kindness, he could not bear the thought of shaming her publicly (a common practice of his day in regard to such an offense), much less of demanding her death, as provided by the law (Deut. 22:23–24). There is no evidence that Joseph felt anger, resentment, or bitterness. He had been shamed (if what he assumed had been true), but his concern was not for his own shame but for Mary’s. Though Joseph was a godly, upright man; yet he suffered much trial from this situation of Mary. The godly are not exempt from puzzling and painful trials, rather “Many are the afflictions of the righteous” (Psalm 34:19) (Butler, J. G. (2008). Analytical Bible Expositor: Matthew (14). Clinton, IA: LBC Publications.).
He was unwilling/not wanting to put her to shame/disgrace her by public exposure of her supposed sin. Because he loved her so deeply he determined simply to divorce her quietly/put her away secretly. Joseph, in spite of his love for Mary, would deal faithfully and firmly with (what he thought) was sin. In spite of his love for Mary, his convictions made immoral conduct intolerable. He would not marry a girl who had bad morals. So he thought to end the espousal and not marry her. He would not sacrifice purity and principle for pleasure but would give up Mary in favor of righteousness. Joseph had some good moral convictions and would conduct himself accordingly in spite of his sorrow (Butler, J. G. (2008). Analytical Bible Expositor: Matthew (15). Clinton, IA: LBC Publications.).
Joseph’s plan was to divorce (Apoluo ) her quietly/secretly, though before long everyone would have guessed it when the marriage never materialized. But for a while, at least, she would be protected, and she would live.
Poem "Twas The Night Before Jesus Came"
The elements of this story are a lot more nuanced than at first glance. Often the popular depictions of the Christmas story miss these elements. But, what would it sound like, if we reworked some traditional Christmas stories to focus more on Jesus? How about the story, “The Night Before Christmas”: “Twas the night before Jesus came and all through the house Not a creature was praying, not one in the house. Their Bibles were lain on the shelf without care In hopes that Jesus would not come there. The children were dressing to crawl into bed, Not once ever kneeling or bowing a head. And Mom in her rocker with baby on her lap Was watching the Late Show while I took a nap. When out of the East there arose such a clatter, I sprang to my feet to see what was the matter. Away to the window I flew like a flash Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash! When what to my wondering eyes should appear But angels proclaiming that Jesus was here. With a light like the sun sending forth a bright ray I knew in a moment this must be THE DAY! The light of His face made me cover my head It was Jesus returning just like He said And though I possessed worldly wisdom and wealth, I cried when I saw Him in spite of myself. In the Book of Life which He held in his hand, Was written the name of every saved man. He spoke not a word as he searched for my name; When He said, “It’s not here” my head hung in shame. The people whose names had been written with love, He gathered to take to His Father above. With those who were ready He rose without a sound While all the rest of us were left standing around. I fell to my knees, but it was too late; I had waited too long and thus sealed my fate. I stood and I cried as they rose out of sight; Oh, if only I had been ready tonight. In the words of this poem the meaning is clear; The coming of Jesus is drawing near. There’s only one life and when comes the last call, We’ll find that the Bible was true after all!” (Galaxie Software. (2002; 2002). 10,000 Sermon Illustrations. Biblical Studies Press.)
Peace is experienced through godly obedience, as seen through:
2) The Point to Joseph (Matthew 1:20-21)
[20] But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, "Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. [21] She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” (ESV)
The Point to Joseph here stems from an angel which appeared to him to explain to Joseph the reason for Mary’s pregnancy and so comfort him; to instruct him to consummate his marriage to Mary; and to reveal to Joseph the name by which Mary’s child should be called. In verse 20 the aorist tense of the verb, considered, indicates that he apparently came to a conclusion: he had made up his mind, Joseph planned to divorce her quietly/put her away secretly (v.19).(Morris, L. (1992). The Gospel according to Matthew (28). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Leicester, England: W.B. Eerdmans; Inter-Varsity Press.)
That Joseph considered these things, seems to indicate that Mary had not explained her visit from the angel Gabriel (Luke 1:34) to Joseph at this time. Joseph did not act hastily, but carefully considered the relevant factors to ensure what he was doing right. He did not act driven by emotion but sought to act in a righteous manner (Barton, B. B. (1996). Matthew. Life application Bible commentary (15). Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.)
While he considered these things, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. The angel of Joseph’s dream was real, ?f???, “he appeared.” ...The appearance in the dream is actual and not like the mere images that at other times come to our consciousness during sleep. Joseph knew that this angel had been at his bedside that night. He regarded this dream and the one in Mt. 2:13 exactly as did Zacharias and Mary the angel vision they beheld with open eyes (Lenski, R. C. H. (1961). The Interpretation of St. Matthew's Gospel (45). Minneapolis, MN.: Augsburg Publishing House.).
Please turn to Deuteronomy 31
This Angel calmed his fears saying “Joseph, son of David, do not fear/be afraid [stop being afraid] to take Mary as your wife; for that which is/has been conceived in her is from/of the Holy Spirit.” This verse emphasizes the supernatural character of the whole event. The Angel quiets the fear of David brining a message of Peace. David knew Deuteronomy 22 in the possibility of death for adultery or the option of divorce in Deuteronomy 24, but even in this context, the presence of the Lord brings peace, as he does in Deuteronomy 31:
Deuteronomy 31:1-8 So Moses continued to speak these words to all Israel. 2 And he said to them, “I am 120 years old today. I am no longer able to go out and come in. The LORD has said to me, ‘You shall not go over this Jordan.’ 3 The LORD your God himself will go over before you. He will destroy these nations before you, so that you shall dispossess them, and Joshua will go over at your head, as the LORD has spoken. 4 And the LORD will do to them as he did to Sihon and Og, the kings of the Amorites, and to their land, when he destroyed them. 5 And the LORD will give them over to you, and you shall do to them according to the whole commandment that I have commanded you. 6 Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” 7 Then Moses summoned Joshua and said to him in the sight of all Israel, “Be strong and courageous, for you shall go with this people into the land that the LORD has sworn to their fathers to give them, and you shall put them in possession of it. 8 It is the LORD who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” (ESV)
• In this context of leadership transferal we see how the presence of the Lord brings peace. God fulfills His covenant promises, and quiets fears, yet He requires faith and obedience.
To reinforce the encouraging words, in Matthew 1 as well as to verify Jesus’ royal lineage, the angel addressed Joseph as son of David. Even though Jesus was not the biological son of Joseph, Jesus was his legal son. His Father, in actuality, was God, who conceived Him by the Holy Spirit. But His royal right in the Davidic line came by Joseph. In the fulfilment of the Messianic promise Joseph, viewed as legal heir of David and as the one who transmits this honor to Jesus, is not bypassed, neither here nor in the preceding genealogy, which in a sense was really Joseph’s family-tree (Hendriksen, W., & Kistemaker, S. J. (1953-2001). Vol. 9: New Testament commentary : Exposition of the Gospel According to Matthew. New Testament Commentary (131). Grand Rapids: Baker Book House.). Joseph could not have had children by a previous marriage, as some suppose, for then Jesus would not have been heir to the Davidic throne as the oldest son of Joseph (Radmacher, E. D., Allen, R. B., & House, H. W. (1999). Nelson's new illustrated Bible commentary (Mt 1:25). Nashville: T. Nelson Publishers.).
The phrase that which is/has been conceived in her is from/of the Holy Spirit is profound. In those words is the ultimate testimony to the virgin birth. It is the testimony of the holy angel from the Lord God Himself. The term virgin birth is a misnomer. Neither Matthew nor Luke describes Jesus’ birth at all but only his conception. ...(It is an) unscriptural notion that Mary’s hymen was not broken at the time of delivery (Blomberg, C. (2001). Vol. 22: Matthew (electronic ed.). Logos Library System; The New American Commentary (57). Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers.).
• God often shows us that we have more options than we think. Although Joseph seemed to be doing the right thing by breaking the engagement, God helped him make the best decision. We should always seek God’s wisdom, especially when our decisions affect others (Barton, B. B. (1996). Matthew. Life application Bible commentary (15). Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.).
As if to reinforce the truth of Jesus’ divine conception, the angel tells Joseph in verse 21, about Mary, that she will bear a Son. Joseph would act as Jesus’ earthly father, but he would only be a foster father. Luke’s genealogy of Jesus through Mary’s line accurately says:
Luke 3:23 [23]Jesus, when he began his ministry, was about thirty years of age, being the son (as was supposed) of Joseph, the son of Heli, (ESV)
Joseph was told to name the Son … Jesus. Naming the child will signify that Joseph accepts the child as his own, and this in turn will secure Jesus’ claim to Davidic ancestry (Gardner, R. B. (1991). Matthew. Believers church Bible commentary (39). Scottdale, Pa.: Herald Press.). He is to be named from the Hebrew name yeshua', which means “Yahweh saves.”( Barry, J. D., Mangum, D., Brown, D. R., Heiser, M. S., Custis, M., Ritzema, E., … Bomar, D. (2012, 2016). Faithlife Study Bible (Mt 1:21). Bellingham, WA: Lexham Press.)
By His own work He would save His people from their sins. To be saved means to be emancipated from the greatest evil: the guilt, pollution, power, and punishment of sin; and to be placed in possession of the greatest good. Although in the present passage the negative alone is expressed, namely, to save—from sin, the positive is immediately implied. One cannot be saved from something without also being saved for something: true happiness, the peace of God that transcends all understanding, freedom, joy unspeakable and full of glory, answered prayers, effective witness bearing, assurance of salvation, etc (Hendriksen, W., & Kistemaker, S. J. (1953-2001). Vol. 9: New Testament commentary : Exposition of the Gospel According to Matthew. New Testament Commentary (133). Grand Rapids: Baker Book House.).
Salvation ‘from their sins’ is initially surprising. The need for forgiveness was, of course, clearly recognized (e.g., Je. 31:34), but this was normally seen as in the hands of God alone. When a mediating figure was involved at all, cleansing from sin was normally seen in terms of the destruction and removal of sinners and/or the moral renewal of the people ... John the Baptist’s ministry provokes the confession of sins (3:6); Jesus himself forgives sins (9:2, 5, 6); his blood is finally ‘poured out for the forgiveness of sins’ (26:28; cf. 20:28). ... That it is ‘his people’ whom Jesus will save from their sins brings to the fore here the corporate dimension of forgiveness and its connection with the covenant (as in 26:28).( Nolland, J. (2005). The Gospel of Matthew : A commentary on the Greek text (99). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Carlisle: W.B. Eerdmans; Paternoster Press.)
• Even from this description, we see who Jesus intended to save. He came to earth not to redeem all of humanity, but his particular people. He has a mission from all eternity to die for His elect.
Illustration: "The Unspeakable Gift"
Long ago, there ruled in Persia a wise and good king. He loved his people. He wanted to know how they lived. He wanted to know about their hardships. Often he dressed in the clothes of a working man or a beggar, and went to the homes of the poor. No one whom he visited thought that he was their ruler. One time he visited a very poor man who lived in a cellar. He ate the coarse food the poor man ate. He spoke cheerful, kind words to him. Then he left. Later he visited the poor man again and disclosed his identity by saying, “I am your king!” The king thought the man would surely ask for some gift or favor, but he didn’t. Instead he said, “You left your palace and your glory to visit me in this dark, dreary place. You ate the course food I ate. You brought gladness to my heart! To others you have given your rich gifts. To me you have given yourself!” The King of glory, the Lord Jesus Christ, gave himself to you and me. The Bible calls Him, “the unspeakable gift!” (Galaxie Software. (2002; 2002). 10,000 Sermon Illustrations. Biblical Studies Press.)
Peace is experienced through godly obedience, as seen through:
3) The Prophecy for Joseph (Matthew 1:22-23)
Matthew 1:22-23 [22]All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: [23]"Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel" (which means, God with us). (ESV)
Twelve times in his Gospel Matthew identifies O.T. prophecies as being fulfilled in the life of Jesus (cf. also 2:15, 23; 3:15; 4:14; 5:17; 8:17; 12:17; 13:14, 35; 21:4; 27:9). This is a major theme in his Gospel, and one uniquely designed to speak to his Jewish audience (Believer's Study Bible. 1997 (electronic ed.) (Mt 1:22). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.). At this point Matthew explains that Jesus’ virgin birth was predicted by God in the Old Testament. The Lord clearly identifies the birth of Christ as a fulfillment of prophecy. All this refers to the facts about the divine birth of Jesus Christ. And the great miracle of His birth was the fulfillment of what the Lord had spoken by/through the prophet. That phrase gives a simple, straightforward definition of biblical inspiration as the Word of the Lord coming through human instruments. God had spoken; the human instrument is only a means to bring the divine Word to humanity. Based on these words of the Lord given through Matthew, the Old Testament text of Isaiah must be interpreted as predicting the virgin birth of Jesus Christ.
Please turn to Isaiah 7
Matthew repeatedly uses the phrase "to fulfill" (2:15, 17, 23; 8:17; 12:17; 13:35; 21:4; 26:54; etc.) to indicate ways in which Jesus, and events related to His earthly ministry, were fulfillments of Old Testament prophecy. The basic truths and happenings of the New Testament were culminations, completions, or fulfillments of revelation God had already made-though often the revelation had been in veiled and partial form. Isaiah came to Ahaz and reported that God would deliver the people from the two enemy kings. When Ahaz refused to listen, Isaiah responded with the remarkable messianic prophecy of Isa. 7:14.
Isaiah 7:14-16[14] Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel. [15] He shall eat curds and honey when he knows how to refuse the evil and choose the good. [16] For before the boy knows how to refuse the evil and choose the good, the land whose two kings you dread will be deserted. (ESV)
The name of the Son born to a virgin in verse 23, would be Immanuel, (which means, God with us),” That name was used more as a title or description than as a proper name. In His incarnation Jesus was, in the most literal sense, God with us. As far as our information goes, nobody ever called Jesus “Immanuel”; it was not the child’s name in the same sense as “Jesus” was. Matthew surely intends his readers to understand that “Immanuel” was his name in the sense that all that was involved in that name found its fulfillment in him. The quotation and the translation of the Hebrew name underline the fact that in Jesus none less than God came right where we are. And at the end of this Gospel there is the promise that Jesus will be with his people to the end of the age (Matthew 28:20)—God with us indeed (Morris, L. (1992). The Gospel according to Matthew (31). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Leicester, England: W.B. Eerdmans; Inter-Varsity Press.).
Hymn: This is what captured the sanctified imagination of Charles Wesley when he composed the second stanza of his great Christmas hymn “Hark! The Herald Angels Sing.” Wesley must have had this passage in mind when he moved from the thought of Jesus’ heavenly preexistence to his incarnation, ending with the powerful name Immanuel. He wrote: “Christ, by highest heaven adored, Christ, the everlasting Lord! Late in time behold him come, Offspring of the virgin’s womb. Veiled in flesh the Godhead see; Hail the incarnate deity, Pleased as man with men to dwell. Jesus, our Emmanuel. Hark! The herald angels sing, “Glory to the newborn King.”(as recorded in Boice, J. M. (2001). The Gospel of Matthew (27). Grand Rapids, Mich.: Baker Books.)
Finally, peace is experienced through godly obedience, as seen through:
4) The Performance of Joseph (Matthew 1:24-25)
Matthew 1:24-25 [24] When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him: he took his wife, [25] but knew her not until she had given birth to a son. And he called his name Jesus. (ESV)
The Scriptures picture his obedience both here and in chapter two as being glad, instant, and full. That Joseph woke/arose from sleep indicates that the revelatory dream had come to him while he slept (cf v 20). Such unique, direct communication from God was used on other occasions to reveal Scripture (see Gen. 20:3; 31:10–11; Num. 12:6; 1 Kings 3:5; Job 33:14–16). It should be noted that all six New Testament occurrences of onar (“to dream”) are in Matthew and concern the Lord Jesus Christ (see 1:20; 2:12–13, 19, 22; 27:19).
We know nothing of Joseph’s reaction, except that he immediately obeyed, doing as the angel of the Lord commanded him. Joseph is the first person in the Gospel called upon to commit himself to the significance of Jesus in the purposes of God (Nolland, J. (2005). The Gospel of Matthew : A commentary on the Greek text (103). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Carlisle: W.B. Eerdmans; Paternoster Press.)
Although he knew that taking Mary as his wife might be humiliating, Joseph chose to obey the angel’s command to marry her. He did not hesitate. The decision was no longer difficult, for he simply did what he knew God wanted him to do. His action revealed four admirable qualities:(1) righteousness (1:19), (2) discretion and sensitivity (1:19), (3) responsiveness to God (1:24), and (4) self-discipline (1:25). Apparently Joseph broke with tradition and took his wife, even though the customary one-year waiting period had not passed. However, Joseph did as God commanded and “completed” their marriage by taking Mary to live with him. No matter what the social stigma, no matter what the local gossips thought about this move, Joseph knew he was following God’s command in marrying and caring for Mary during her pregnancy (Barton, B. B. (1996). Matthew. Life application Bible commentary (18–19). Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale House Publishers.).
Finally, as Matthew 1:25 notes, he knew her not/kept her a virgin until she had given birth to a Son. Matthew makes it clear that Mary remained a virgin until she had given birth, implying that normal marital relations began after that time. The Hebrew verb “to know” is frequently used in the Old Testament in the sense of “have sex with” (Gen 19:8; Num 31:17; 1 Sam 1:19). Thus the basis for “he had no sexual relations with her” (until she gave birth) (Newman, B. M., & Stine, P. C. (1992). A handbook on the Gospel of Matthew. UBS helps for translators; UBS handbook series (29). New York: United Bible Societies.).
Please turn to Mark 6
After the birth of Jesus, we find little other information about Joseph. What we do know is that after Jesus was born, Mary and Joseph enjoyed normal sexual relations for a couple. We are definitely told that Jesus had brothers and sisters, evidently together with him members of one family (Matt. 12:46, 47; Mark 3:31, 32; 6:3; Luke 8:19, 20; John 2:12; 7:3, 5, 10; Acts 1:14) (Hendriksen, W., & Kistemaker, S. J. (1953-2001). Vol. 9: New Testament commentary : Exposition of the Gospel According to Matthew. New Testament Commentary (144–145). Grand Rapids: Baker Book House.).
Speaking of Jesus in Nazareth, Mark tells us of his other biological brother and sisters:
Mark 6:1-6 He went away from there and came to his hometown, and his disciples followed him. 2 And on the Sabbath he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were astonished, saying, “Where did this man get these things? What is the wisdom given to him? How are such mighty works done by his hands? 3 Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon? And are not his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him. 4 And Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor, except in his hometown and among his relatives and in his own household.” 5 And he could do no mighty work there, except that he laid his hands on a few sick people and healed them. 6 And he marveled because of their unbelief. And he went about among the villages teaching. (ESV)
• Mark had just finished showing the tensions with Jesus' natural family, how they thought Jesus was out of His mind (Mark 3:21) and how He emphasized His spiritual family over His biological one (Mark 31–35). Joseph must have had at least four sons, among whom were James (see Acts 12:17; Gal. 1:19; 2:9, 12;) and Judas, (not the betrayer; Jude 1), as well as at least two daughters (Matt. 13:55–56)
As a final act of obedience to God’s instruction through the angel, Joseph called His name Jesus, indicating that He was to be the Savior (cf v 21). His naming of the child means that he adopted him legally. (Morris, L. (1992). The Gospel according to Matthew (32). Grand Rapids, Mich.; Leicester, England: W.B. Eerdmans; Inter-Varsity Press.)
The final reference to Joseph shows again how he lived and raised Jesus as a pious Jew. Lk. 2:41 relates that Joseph and Mary made their pilgrimage to Jerusalem every year for the Passover feast. Joseph does not appear later in the Gospels, and it is likely that he died prior to Jesus’ public ministry Joseph was a faithful man of God who concerned himself with honoring God even when all the fact we not initially known. God used his obedience in the outworking of His plans. His faithfulness was the means that God used in order to deliver the message of peace to a lost and frenzied world. As we follow God's directives for our lives we will likewise experience His peace and equipped to be His instruments of peace. (Browning, D. C., Jr. (2003). Joseph. In C. Brand, C. Draper, A. England, S. Bond, E. R. Clendenen, & T. C. Butler (Eds.), Holman Illustrated Bible Dictionary (p. 948-9). Nashville, TN: Holman Bible Publishers.).
(Format note: Some base commentary from MacArthur, J. (1989). Matthew (10–23). Chicago: Moody Press)
