Matthew 5:38-48
“Addicted to Love”
There once was a father who had to go out of town…
…away from his young family for three or four days on business.
Worried that his kids would drive his wife mad, he had a word with his oldest son, who was nine at the time.
“When I’m away,” he said, “I want you to think about what I would normally do around the house, and you do it for me.”
He had in mind, of course, cleaning up the kitchen, washing the dishes, making the bed, taking out the garbage, and helping to keep the other children in line.
When he got back from his business trip, the man asked his wife what the son had done.
“Well,” she said, “it was very strange. Right after breakfast he made himself another cup of coffee, went into the living room, put on some loud music, and read the newspaper for half an hour.”
The father was left wondering if his son had obeyed him a bit too accurately!
The shocking thing about this passage of Scripture is that we are told to watch what our Heavenly Father is doing and then do the same ourselves.
“Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Jesus tells us.
Impossible?
Well, yes, on one level it is.
But Jesus’ teaching isn’t just good advice, it’s Good News!
Jesus did it all Himself and opened up the new way of being human so that all who follow Him can discover it.
When they mocked Him, He didn’t respond.
When they challenged Him, He told quizzical, sometimes humorous, stories that forced them to think differently.
When they struck Him, He took the pain.
When they put the worst bit of Roman equipment on His back—the heavy Cross on which He would be killed—He carried it out of the city to the place of His own execution.
When they nailed Him to it, He prayed for them.
These Words of Jesus from Matthew Chapter 5 aren’t just about us.
If they were, we might just admire them as a fine bit of idealism, but then we’d probably return to our normal lives.
Jesus was talking about Himself.
This was the blueprint for His own life, and He asks nothing from us that He hasn’t faced Himself!!!
And within Jesus’ life we are shown what God is really like.
This Scripture isn’t just about how to behave…
…it’s about discovering the Living God in the loving, and dying Jesus, and learning to reflect that love ourselves into the world that needs it so badly!!!
In bringing us to Christ, God isn’t just calling us to be God’s special people while the rest of the world remains in outer darkness.
We are called to be the light of the world, the salt of the earth.
God has saved us so that through us, God can bless all people!
And Jesus is the Way!
Jesus has carved out the path through the jungle, urging us to come with Him on the dangerous road.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, tooth for tooth. But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person…
… You have heard it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…”
What in the world?
This is radical!
No other god encourages people to behave like this!
No court of law even goes this far.
No television pundit nor politician gives us these kinds of directions.
No heavy metal rock band would even think of writing such lyrics to a song!
This is not the way of the world.
This is not even the way of the Old Testament!!!
The Old justice found in the Bible was designed to prevent revenge from running away with itself.
Better an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth than an escalating feud with each side going one worse than the other.
But Jesus goes much farther still!
It’s better to have no revenge at all, but rather a creative way forward…
…which directly reflects the astonishingly patient Love of God Who wants His Church to shine His Light into the world so that all people will see that He is the One true God, and that His deepest flowing nature is overflowing love!
“Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
John Wesley, the founder of the Methodist Movement defined Christian Perfection as “having a habitual love for God and neighbor.”
That’s one habit to press on towards!
That is one addiction we would all do good to get!
So Jesus gives us here, three sketches of what this kind of living might look like…
…how this addiction to Love might manifest itself.
To be struck on the right cheek, in Jesus’ time meant being hit with the back of someone’s right hand.
That’s not just violence, but an insult!
It implies that you are an inferior…
…perhaps like a slave or a child.
So what’s the answer?
Hit ‘em back?
Go to war?
Start dropping the nuclear bombs?
This, certainly is a natural reaction.
But Christ calls us to humble ourselves.
We are to be servants, not lords and masters.
We are to be transformed.
There is a different path; there is another solution.
We don’t have to self-destruct!
We don’t have to continue the cycle of violence!
And the reason: Christ lives in us; the Holy Spirit is available to us!
There is a power which is not our own, of which we are able to tap into!
Of course it is a conscious choice, and it must continue to be so…
…until it becomes more and more and more the norm…
…our way of life…
…an addiction, if you will!
Offering the other cheek implies, “Hit me again if you like,” and this is the most courageous thing we could do!
This is neither flight nor fight.
This is supernatural!!!
This is a completely new nature which only comes through Christ!
And with this kind of action, others can’t help but see God reflecting through you!
And then, and then…
…they may come to think, “Gee, I want some of that too!”
And then you have just helped save a soul…
…you have just increased the Kingdom…
…you have just done God’s will…
…and the angels in heaven are rejoicing…
…and Jesus is saying, “Well done”…
…you have just made the world a better place.
Jesus goes on, “And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well.”
Suppose you are in a courtroom and a powerful enemy is suing you and wants the shirt off your back!
You can’t win…
…or can you…?
…you can shed God’s Light on the subject…
…by your actions, you can show what evil is up to, and what a victory it is not to jump into the middle of it!
Jesus says, “give him your cloak as well”; and in a world where most people only wore those two garments, everyone will see your impoverished nakedness…
…and evil will be shown for what it is…
…and you will be following the One Who did not forgo the Cross!
The third sketch Jesus gives reflects the Roman military occupation.
Roman soldiers had the right to force civilians to carry their equipment for one mile.
But the law was quite strict.
They weren’t allowed to make someone go more than that.
Turn the tables on them, Jesus advises.
Don’t fret and fume and plot revenge.
Copy your generous God!
Go a second mile, and astonish the soldier with the news that there is a different way to be human, a way that doesn’t plot revenge, which doesn’t lord things over on others, which doesn’t join the armed terrorist movement, but which wins God’s kind of victory over violence, oppression and injustice!!!
Whatever situation you are in, think it through.
Meditate on God’s Word.
Pray to the Holy Spirit.
What would it mean to reflect God’s generous love despite the pressure and attacks…
…despite your own anger and frustration?
Would it bring peace?
Would it bring you a peace and an inner self-confidence which can face and overcome any and every obstacle?
Would it change the world?
Could Jesus Christ’s blueprint for life become our own?
In Jesus, we are able to see God-with-us.
In Jesus we are able to see that there is a way that is radically different, a way that is right!
And when we make the decision to follow Christ, we discover and discover and discover more and more what the Living, Loving and Dying and Rising God is really like!!!
…and so do those with whom we come in contact with!!!
And this is what this world needs so badly!
Amen.
