Summary: Paul’s desire - for Philemon to embody the grace given to him

Pentecost 15 Refresh my heart

Sept 9

† In the Lord Jesus’ Name †

Grace, and the peace of God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ… is yours.

Paul’s view – The Difficult Request

He sits in his room, chained to a Roman Centurion. On the table, a piece of parchment, waiting to bear words that will echo through the halls of time. Across the room, the messenger, ready to depart for Colossae waits. Next to him, a young man sits on his haunches, nervous, scared, unsure of his future. Yet, as he looks at Paul the apostle, pen in hand, he knows that God has guided him to this place, and as he returns to confront his rebellious past.

Slowly, prayerfully, the pen scratches the surface of the parchment, leaving behind words, guided by the very Spirit of God. Words will challenge their readers, both a man and wife, and friend in Colossae nearly 2000 years ago, and that will challenge us today.

I used to look at this letter, Paul’s epistle to Philemon, as simple correspondence, a simple letter where Paul use logic and perhaps a smattering of guilt too gain Onesimus’ freedom. After spending a week, trying to break it down in Greek, and look at commentaries, struggling with how to see the gospel predominate in this letter, I finally saw something, from the view of Paul. This letter is not about gaining Onesimus’ freedom at all. It is about ensuring Philemon that he too, has received the incomparable, all sufficient grace of Jesus Christ.

We too, need the freedom Paul desires for Philemon, the freedom to abide in God’s grace, to realize the freedom we have from this world of sin, and debt. The words of this epistle, carrying that message… you are forgiven!

Philemon – the disciple

As Paul considers prayerfully, what to write, to this fellow-worker in the Lord, he must consider this man Philemon. We know from this epistle, that there is a strong connection between Paul, enough that Paul would consider him a co-worker in the Lord. One that was loved by Paul. We hear some of the fruits of his labors, as Paul describes him as one who has brought his people the peace of God. That is what refreshment means, a break from the burdens of life. Jesus spoke of it this way,

28 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light

It is now, Paul’s desire, that Philemon refresh Paul. Not by reminding him of the peace of God that is his in Christ Jesus. Instead, the refreshment would come, the rest would be found in Philemon’s realizing the very goal of Paul’s prayer for him:

and I pray that the sharing of your faith may become effective for the full knowledge of every good thing that is in us for the sake of Christ.

The full knowledge of every good thing, including freedom from some chains..

The Laws

Man’s Law

God’s Law

One of the things I look for in any passage I am to preach on, is where is the law? Where is the very need for Jesus, that we have, as we fall under the wrath of the Law. When one considers Philemon, the law of mankind is clearly on Philemon’s side. He could have Onesimus branded a run-away, or he could have him killed. The penalties are clear. He is both judge and jury, and the man Paul calls “the faithful Onesimus in the later epistle to this church, puts himself willingly into Philemon’s hands for judgment.

But there is a law, at work judging Philemon as well. One heard in a parable Jesus told, which can be found in Matthew 18. It tells of a servant, who owed millions, literally 10,000 talents. One Biblical reference, written in 1932 by a pre-eminent Bible Scholar, put the dollar value at 12 million dollars in 1932 value. How much would that be today… hmmmm. (An on-line calcultator for such put it at $153,734,175.47) Another places the value at the equivalent of 200,000 years of work – at an average salary. Jesus goes on to say the man begs for mercy, and the King has mercy. The man leaves, and finds a man that owes him 100 denari. There were 6000 denari to a talent, so the debt is 1/6,000,000th of the amount he had owed the king. He was not merciful, thought he had been shown mercy! The parable ends this way,

32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ’You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you? 34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt.35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart." Matthew 18:32-35 (ESV)

It is not without reason, that such a parable could have made this into Paul’s letter. He clearly mentions he could coerce and force Philemon to submit, to give in. This is why I say this epistle is about Philemon’s freedom, far more than it is about Onesimus’. For if Paul was only concerned about Onesimus’ freedom, it would have been easier to keep Onesimus in Rome, and just notify Philemon about what had happened.

The Better Way

Life as a parable

Free from Bondage

As Paul sits in his room, as he pens the letter, with his messenger and Onesimus waiting, he sees in Philemon’s dilemma, a chance for God’s grace to be once again, experienced in its fullness – by Philemon.

I can see him picturing Philemon pacing, angry at first, by the letter. How dare Paul ask for this! How dare he interfere with…. with justice. As he continues through the letter, he focuses as we do, on what appears to be attempts to provoke guilt, or shame. How dare he! I want my justice, Philemon shouts to the room, I want.. my pay-back, I want…my revenge…

As he realizes the nature of those words, he realizes his own sin. He realizes the parable his life has become. He is the elder son, he could have been, the unjust servant. He realizes his own need for a debt to be forgiven, his own sin atoned for, his own chains released, freeing him from his sin. He also realizes, his freeing Onesimus, because of Christ, is a parable of his freedom, granted in Christ Jesus.

The grace of God permeates the room, as Philemon realizes what truly binds him to Philemon, and both of them, to Paul. The bond of being part of the family of God, united in their common trust, united in their shared life, in Christ. The fellowship of those whom the grace of God has poured out on, saving us in the washing of rebirth and renewal in the Holy Spirit

Philemon now no longer sees a runaway, worthless slave, nor does he see a slave, returned, willing to face punishment. He sees, as Paul said, his brother, someone who can work in the gospel, alongside Philemon, or be a gift of Philemon to a old man, in chains in Rome, who desperately needs help. A brother, a man he walks in fellowship with, in their life abiding in Christ Jesus.

That is what this life is about – not to see justice

Gather’d together – a blessing unexpected

Table words!

If you’ve been around church, you probably have picked up on what I call church vocabulary. Often Greek words, that mean more than we can express in English, they become part of our vocabulary.

Eucharist – another name for the Lord’s Supper, but it means thanks for blessings received. Koinonia – most commonly called Communion, or Fellowship, Ekklesia – those gathered together by God, we translate it church, or gathering. Paraklesis – the comfort of God, a name for both Jesus incarnate, and the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. These words abound in this letter, often translated with their more common understanding. Thanks, fellowship, partnership. They are also, what I call “table words”. They draw our minds to the Lord’s Supper, the meal of fellowship with the Lord. The place where we gather together, not just as individuals, but as the people of God. Where we hear, shed, for the forgiveness of sins.

The services of those days, would have similar words to ours. As Paul’s letter to the church is read, and then perhaps, as Philemon shares, there would have been an agape feast, a Lord’s Supper. I would take you back there, to the house church in Colossae, as the words of institution are heard. After they are heard, the only time, the blessing of the peace of God is issued, and the answer is not – and also with you, or and with your spirit..comes.

And so the words are heard, The peace of the Lord is with you always…

In Colossae, two brothers, formerly master and slave… reply… AMEN.

In far away Rome, an old apostle’s heart, is refreshed.

In the midst of all, God is glorified!

May that same peace of God, which overcomes everything, guard your hearts and minds, whether you are the Philemon, or the Onesimus. For by it, Jesus will guard your hearts and minds.

Amen?

AMEN!