Overcoming The Spirit Of Rejection To Attract Destiny Helpers Series

OVERCOMING THE SPIRIT OF REJECTION TO ATTRACT DESTINY HELPERS

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Judges 11:1-8

"Now Jephthah the Gileadite was a mighty man of valour, and he was the son of an harlot: and Gilead begat Jephthah. And Gilead's wife bare him sons; and his wife's sons grew up, and they thrust out Jephthah, and said unto him, Thou shalt not inherit in our father's house; for thou art the son of a strange woman... And it was so, that when the children of Ammon made war against Israel, the elders of Gilead went to fetch Jephthah out of the land of Tob: And they said unto Jephthah, Come, and be our captain, that we may fight with the children of Ammon."

Supporting Texts: Psalm 27:10, Isaiah 41:9-10, 1 Peter 2:4-6, Genesis 50:20, Romans 8:28

INTRODUCTION

Rejection is one of the most painful experiences a person can go through. It creates wounds in the soul, discourages potential, and can make a person feel unwanted. However, God has a way of turning rejection into a stepping stone for divine elevation. Jephthah was rejected by his own family because of his background, but in the time of crisis, the same people who rejected him came searching for him.

Many great men in the Bible faced rejection—Joseph was rejected by his brothers, David was overlooked by his father, and even Jesus was despised by His own people. Yet, rejection did not stop their destinies. In fact, it positioned them for the right destiny helpers at the appointed time.

This message will explore how to overcome the spirit of rejection and attract destiny helpers who will propel you into God's purpose for your life.

1. RECOGNISING THE SPIRIT OF REJECTION

Rejection manifests in different forms and can hinder a person from stepping into divine connections.

a) Family rejection – Jephthah was cast out by his own family because of his mother's background (Judges 11:2).

b) Societal rejection – People may despise you because of your past, appearance, or status (1 Samuel 16:11).

c) Workplace or ministry rejection – David was anointed as king but was still sent back to tend sheep (1 Samuel 16:12-13).

d) Self-rejection – When rejection makes you doubt your worth, you push away destiny helpers unknowingly (Numbers 13:33).

e) Biblical Example: Jesus – He was rejected by His own people but became the chief cornerstone (John 1:11, 1 Peter 2:4-6).

2. HEALING FROM THE WOUNDS OF REJECTION

Before attracting destiny helpers, you must deal with inner wounds caused by rejection.

a) Embrace God’s love – Though men may reject you, God never abandons His own (Psalm 27:10).

b) Forgive those who rejected you – Joseph forgave his brothers, which led to reconciliation (Genesis 50:20).

c) Reject the lies of the enemy – The devil wants you to believe you are unworthy, but God says otherwise (Isaiah 41:9-10).

d) Build your confidence in Christ – Your identity is not in human approval but in God’s purpose (Ephesians 1:6).

e) Biblical Example: Hannah – She faced rejection from Peninnah but trusted God and was later blessed with Samuel (1 Samuel 1:6-7, 19-20).

3. TRANSFORMING REJECTION INTO A PLATFORM FOR DESTINY

Rejection is often a redirection towards divine purpose.

a) Your rejection is your repositioning – Jephthah’s rejection led him to develop leadership skills in Tob (Judges 11:3).

b) Learn from rejection instead of being bitter – David used rejection as a training ground for kingship (1 Samuel 22:1-2).

c) Strengthen your abilities and character – Instead of giving up, invest in personal growth (Proverbs 22:29).

d) Be excellent in whatever you do – The rejected stone became the chief cornerstone (Psalm 118:22).

e) Biblical Example: Joseph – His rejection led to his elevation in Egypt (Genesis 41:39-41).

4. POSITIONING YOURSELF TO ATTRACT DESTINY HELPERS

God sends helpers to those who are prepared to receive them.

a) Be faithful where you are – Jephthah became a great warrior in Tob before being called back (Judges 11:3, 6).

b) Serve diligently even when unnoticed – Joseph remained faithful in prison, and his gift made way for him (Genesis 40:6-8).

c) Develop a positive attitude – No one wants to help someone who is full of bitterness and anger (Philippians 4:8).

d) Surround yourself with the right people – Even in rejection, Jephthah built a team of warriors (Judges 11:3).

e) Biblical Example: David – His service in Saul’s palace prepared him for kingship (1 Samuel 16:18-21).

5. WALKING IN DIVINE FAVOUR TO ATTRACT HELPERS

Favour neutralises the effects of rejection and opens doors to divine connections.

a) God’s favour overrules men’s rejection – Jephthah was called back despite being cast out (Judges 11:5-6).

b) Pray for divine favour – Esther received favour before King Ahasuerus and was chosen as queen (Esther 2:15-17).