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Love Believes All Things Series
Contributed by Jeffery Anselmi on May 10, 2025 (message contributor)
Summary: Love requires us to think the best of other people
INTRODUCTION
SLIDE 1- MAIN SLIDE
- Have you ever been betrayed, tricked, or lied to?
- I would imagine all of us could sadly say yes to that.
- When we observe the world around us and watch the media, we notice that everything is often portrayed in the worst possible light.
- That is unless what is happening fits the agenda of whichever source you are tuned into.
SLIDE 2- TITLE SLIDE
- When we are children, we tend to believe in everyone.
- We had an innocence about us that I believe makes it easier to love people.
- But what happens over time?
SLIDE 3- THE CHALLENGE OF TRUST
- We begin to understand the cruelty and deceitfulness of people, losing the innocence we once had and replacing it with the harsh realities that the world reveals about human nature.
- Once we reach that stage in life, things become more challenging because, understandably, we no longer take people at face value; our experiences have taught us that we cannot trust them.
- Depending on the severity of your burn, you might believe that you can never think well of others.
- When I worked with animals at the shelter, I would notice this behavior in certain animals.
- Some of them arrived from environments where people had mistreated them.
- Those cats and dogs took a lot of love and patience to get them to trust people again.
- What is one of the most challenging actions we must take to improve our ability to love?
- Today, as we continue our quest to love better, we will dive into the issue of love believing all things.
- We will see what this statement from Paul means and also what it does not mean.
- If we are going to learn to love better, we need to grasp the difficult concept that love believes all things.
- The part of verse 7 we will focus on today describes the relentless, active nature of this aspect of love, and today's focus is on one crucial aspect: "love believes all things.
- Let’s look at our main passage together.
1 Corinthians 13:7 NET 2nd ed.
7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
SERMON
SLIDE 4- MAIN POINT 1
I. Love believes all things? Really?
- This statement about what love does can be difficult and confusing.
- Most of the other statements can be a bit difficult at times; however, love believing all things?
- That can be a challenge.
- "Believes all things" signifies a charitable judgment and a predisposition to trust.
- It means approaching others with an initial assumption of their sincerity and good intentions, rather than with suspicion and cynicism.
- "Believes all things" does not mean that love is easily fooled or naive or that it ignores truth and discernment.
- Look at what Jesus told His disciples as He sent them out.
Matthew 10:16 NET 2nd ed.
16 “I am sending you out like sheep surrounded by wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.
SLIDE 5- WHAT IT MEANS
- Love believing all things does not negate the need for the use of discernment.
- This isn't about being susceptible to deception but rather about beginning our interactions with the assumption of innocence.
- It reflects God's own love, which sees potential and value even when we fall short.
- The word believe comes from the same root as the word faith.
- Believe means to trust, put faith in, and rely on, along with many other words that convey the same thought.
- This is where it gets a bit spicy: love believing all things doesn't imply a gullible or naive acceptance of falsehood, but rather a profound choice to trust, to see the best in others, and to hold steadfastly to faith.
- When the evidence indicates that you are being deceived, simply believing in love does not provide clarity; therefore, we must accept the lie.
- Love's belief is not blind to reality but chooses to focus on the best possible interpretation and the potential for good in people and situations.
- It looks for evidence of God's grace at work, even amidst imperfections and failings.
- This hopeful belief can be transformative, encouraging growth and redemption in others, rather than condemning them based on past mistakes or present weaknesses.
- We can go through life being skeptical of everyone around us, and when we live that way, we will miss a tremendous number of blessings.
- Are there people we cannot believe?
- Absolutely.
- You can handle those types of people, but if you see everyone that way, you'll be lonely and sad.
- One of the things that can help us believe in others is that love maintains faith in God's ability to work in an individual's life.