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Is Your Marriege A Complementary Or A Competition
Contributed by Hans Manaka on Nov 28, 2017 (message contributor)
Summary: This will help you to answer questions that will arise in marriage relation before getting into one. The biggest mistake you can make is getting into a love relationship and extend it into commitment without first checking what motivates its existence.
And it is on the secondary level where everything becomes clear. This will be a time when you will know if it is genuine love or just a mere competition. What I observe is that some of relationships were motivated out of competition and not complementary. What motivated you to be in a relationship determine what you have to do to maintain it. If you were competing with someone to win your partner into marriage relationship then your relation cannot be a product of complementary but a continuous competition. Competition is not the production of love connections.
The biggest question: IS YOUR MARRIAGE A COMPLEMENTARY OR COMPETITION? The unfortunate part about this is if you missed to discover it in the primary level of your love relation and discover it in the secondary level. It is very much important to take your time to ask yourself this question “is my marriage going to be complementary or competition?” than to ask when you are already in the deep.
