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Summary: This is a funeral message, sermon, or homily preached at the funeral of a young suicide victim whose commitment to Jesus was unknown. It is a message of grace and hope for his family who has many unanswered questions.

Where is Jacob right now? That is the question his Mother Paula wanted me to answer on Saturday. I wish I could have told her without any doubt that Jacob was with Jesus in heaven, but I would not be true to God’s word by going that far. The Bible says in II Corinthians 6:2, “Behold, now is the accepted time, behold now is the day of salvation.” You see, the time to turn to Jesus and receive Him as your personal Saviour and Lord is in this life.

I know Jacob was very open to Jesus, but I can not say for certain that He had accepted Him as his personal Saviour and Lord. It is my deepest hope and prayer that he did just tha. The Bible assures us in Romans 10:13, “for, ‘Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’” If John called out to Jesus in a simple, “Lord, save me,” he is with Jesus in heaven. Cling to that hope, and if you haven’t accepted Jesus as your own personal Saviour and Lord, do it in your own heart this very moment, and “He will save you now.”

I don’t know for certain that he made that commitment, but I certainly hope he did, and I am going to cling to that hope. If Jacob asked Jesus to come into his heart and be his Lord and Saviour, John is in the presence of Jesus for all eternity. I do know this without any doubt, only God has the right to pass judgment on John or on anyone of us. He is the “Judge of all the earth” and Abraham so beautifully reminds us in Genesis 18:25, “Will not the Judge of all the earth do right?” My brothers and sisters, this is a rhetorical question. The answer is obvious: “Yes, the Judge of all the earth will do right.” The judge of all the earth will do right by Jacob and right by every one of us as well when it comes to where each of us will spend eternity.

Only God has the right to be Judge of all the earth to pass judgment upon John or any of His creation. We have absolutely no right at all to pass judgment upon anyone, as Jesus says in Matthew 7:1-2, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” We have absolutely no right to judge anyone at all; only God has that authority.

Judgment is entirely His prerogative and His alone. Why? Because only God can see what is in the human heart. We judge by outward appearances. God knows our every thought, feeling, and motive in both our minds and our hearts. The Lord Himself speaks to His prophet Samuel in as Scripture I Samuel 16:7 and boldly proclaims, “The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” We can not know a person’s heart, and we never have a right to pass judgment.

We can not know anyone’s heart including John’s, but God does. God and God alone knows John’s motives; intentions of his heart and mind; the feelings of despair, depress, hopelessness that he may have been enduring in his heart. God and God alone truly knows the hurt and emotional pain he suffered. God understands where we can only question.

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R. David Reynolds

commented on Aug 1, 2007

I am Pastor R. David Reynolds, the pastor to whom the Lord gave this message for a young suicide victim a few years ago. Throughout my years of ministry my most meaningful God moments have been times of ministry with grieving families at the time of the death of a loved one. I am really surprised at this point that about 24% of the people who have read this sermon so far have not found it helpful. It would help me greatly in the future on this one to know the reason why this is so, for I thought the rating of helpfulness on this sermon would be much higher at this point in time. Do some question it on Biblical and/or theological reasons? I hope I never have to minister to a family again in a suicide situation, but I would welcome any suggestions as to how such ministry might be more effective in a future, similar, situation. Also, in such a setting do you avoid all together the mention of the word "suicide" during your time of ministry?

David Melendez

commented on Jan 19, 2023

Pastor Reynolds, may the love and grace of our Lord and Savior Jesus always be with you. I personally found your sermon to be exquisite, especially on the topic of suicide. You do exactlly what we are called to do- give hope through Jesus Christ. I would to encourage you to continue ministering to grieving families and not worry about the ratings. Just know that you are doing God`s command to preach the hope we find in Jesus. I do not believe there are any theological errors although with the many different doctrines in the religious realm, there will always be differences in our beliefs. This is a tough subject and many unbelievers want answers that only God can provide. Our job is to lead them to the One that comforts and consouls the grieving heart. Thank you for this wonderful sermon. In Christ, David

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