Body Count And No Good Men

Proverbs 11:22  As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.

Proverbs 31:10  Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 

11  The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 

12  She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 

13  She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 

14  She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 

15  She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 

16  She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 

17  She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 

18  She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 

19  She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 

20  She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 

21  She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 

22  She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23  Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 

24  She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 

25  Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 

26  She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 

27  She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. :28  Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29  Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 

30  Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 

31  Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. 

Being retired military, when I hear body count I am thinking the aftermath of a battle and the total of the slain. I have been watching videos where women are very open about the number of men they have slept with, but are frustrated that men get upset over a high body count. They do not know why men do not welcome her into a relationship because she has experience and skills. They ask why a man would want a virgin, which is almost as rare as finding a leprechaun, when they can have a skilled lover.

Many of them have Only Fans accounts where they offer varying shades of pornography and some said that they “hook up” with subscribers. I think one had a contest where the winner spent a night with her. They do nor understand why a man would not want a relationship with them or ask them to stop earning money in that way. Indeed, one lady bragged about a body count of 360.

All of these ladies are looking for men in the upper 1% income bracket and over six feet tall, which is another small group of men. They do not consider themselves “run through” and all think they are 10’s and a prize. Some have a good guy on the line and yet have sex with multiple men with one lady saying six was her high day. While they would do all these one night stands they said they kept the good guy waiting for sex. I am not seeing the prize.

In my Mom’s generation, these ladies would not have been called nice things. Indeed, the wives in the neighborhood would have shunned them and found ways to encourage them to leave the neighborhood. In my generation of the sexual revolution and free love these gals would still have been ostracized by many. Many guys might be comfortable with a woman not being a virgin and maybe even a body count of four because they were young and dumb, but few would find these gals attractive.

I have thought about this and here would be my analogy for these girls hoping they would understand. If I walked into a car dealership looking to buy the latest model year and the salesperson took me to one that has 80,000 miles on it, I would ask him if he was mentally ill or joking. If he explained that those miles were only from people test driving the car, I would wonder why so many people drove it and none bought it. Consequently, a person might test drive it, but would buy one that only had no mileage or no more than 10 miles. At 80,000 miles the warranty is either gone or almost gone and I would be worried about dependability and high cost of repairs or other maintenance especially if the dealer asked the same price for it as he did for the low mileage car. Only a foolish person would buy that car and only a foolish man would marry someone with a high body count and a sex worker as well unless he was also a sex worker.