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Discouraging Comfort Series
Contributed by Glenn Pease on Apr 1, 2021 (message contributor)
Summary: The book of Job makes clear that one of life's greatest tragedies is that believers do not comfort and encourage one another, but rather are often discouraging. That is what we see Job's friends being to him.
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Emilie Lorning in her novel, Swift Waters, tells the story of a
young single pastor who fell in love with a beautiful young woman in
his congregation. She learned to play the chimes in the tower of the
church, and when she learned the pastor's favorite hymn, she would
play it frequently. There was great difficulty for either of them to
communicate how they felt about each other, and so the relationship
did not develop.
It took a calamity to bring them together. The community was
struck by a sudden flood. She was caught in the church and had to
flee to the tower for safety. As darkness fell, a great searchlight
moved about illuminating the flooded city. As she followed the light,
she spotted her lover rescuing a family from the roof of a nearby
home. The light moved on, but when it returned she saw the last
child put in the boat, but her lover sinking in total exhaustion. His
thoughts were that he had done his best, and now, since there was no
one who needed him, he was ready to die.
Meanwhile back in the church tower it dawned on her that she
could do something. She sprang to the controls, and sent out over
the waters the notes of his favorite hymn.
O God, our help in ages past,
Our hope for years to come;
Our shelter from the stormy blast,
And our eternal home.
When this message in music reached his ears, he knew whose hand
was at the controls. A new surge of strength filled his being, and he
swam to safety to find life and a love that even flood waters could
not quench. This is not only a good love story, it illustrates the
tremendous power of encouragement. A drowning man can be
saved by encouragement. It can make the hopeless hopeful, and the
despairing feel like living again.
Encouragement can spur men on to tasks they would never do
without it. D.L. Moody told of a fireman climbing up a burning
building to rescue a child. The wind swept flames came so near he
wavered, and he considered giving up, but someone in the crowd
below said, "Give him a cheer." The crowd roared its
encouragement, and with fresh courage the fireman went on to save
the child. In the day of judgment, said Moody, those who did the
cheering shall in no wise lose their reward. To be an encourager is
to be in God's will.
The great Dr. F. B. Meyer said, if he had his ministry to live over
again, he would preach more sermons of encouragement to God's
people. Its a shame that Eliphaz did not hear Dr. Meyer before he
went off to visit Job. If anyone ever needed the rejuvenation that
encouragement can give, it was Job. Unfortunately, none of the
three friends of Job had the gift of encouragement. If they did, it
was well hidden. Job was drowning in a sea of lonely despair, but
instead of hearing the lovely music of encouragement, Job heard
only the discord of criticism. The result is, Job is not a love story,
because even though all of the characters in the drama are friends,
they are empty of sympathy, and so there is seldom heard an
encouraging word, and so the skies are just cloudy all day. The
saying, "With friends like that who needs enemies?" Must have
originally been a reference to Job's friends.
Nothing hinders growth and achievement more in the Christian
life than does discouragement. It is one of Satan's most effective
tools for fruit reduction in the life of a believer. The fruit of the
Spirit can only grow in the sunlight of encouragement. This being
so, the book of Job makes clear that one of life's greatest tragedies is
that believers do not comfort and encourage one another, but rather
are often discouraging. That is what we see Job's friends being to
him. The paradox is, they did it by using that which is true.
Commentator after commentator on the book of Job is impressed
with the eloquence of Eliphaz. He is a master theologian. He has a
profound grasp of the principles of life. So much of what he says is
excellent material for expounding on the glory and majesty of God.
Why then does God call him foolish at the end of the book?
Because he misapplies his wisdom. He says the right thing, but
always in the wrong place, and to the wrong person. Truth out of
context can become folly. This explains why something that is true
does not necessarily encourage us. Being true is not enough. Ideas
must fit the need, or their truthfulness is of little value. There are millions
of things that are true, and even important, but they are not