It's Frustrating Because We Often Don't Know ...

It’s frustrating because we often don’t know what to do. It’s almost like the rule are constantly changing. Anybody remember the comic strip, Calvin and Hobbes? It was about a kid and how in his imagination his stuffed tiger, Hobbes, comes to life and they have great fun together. One of their games is a game that they call Calvinball. There are no set rules except that on each turn each person gets to make a new rule. Contantly changing. Constantly in motion. Constantly in flux. Parenting like that is very frustrating because you just don’t know what to do.