The Power Of Love

The Power of Love

Newspaper columnist and Minister George Crane tell of a wife who came into his office full of hatred toward her husband.

“I do not only want to get rid of him; I want to get even. Before I divorce him, I want to hurt him as much as he has me.”

Dr Crane suggested an ingenious plan. “Go home and act as if you really loved your husband. Tell him how much he means to you. Praise him for every decent trait. Go out of your way to be as kind, considerate, and generous as possible. Spare no efforts to please him, to enjoy him.”

“Make him believe you love him. After you’ve convinced him of your undying love and that you cannot live without him, and then drop the bomb. Tell him that you’re getting a divorce. That will really hurt him.”

With revenge in her eyes, she smiled and exclaimed, “Beautiful, beautiful. Will he ever be surprised?”

And she did it with enthusiasm. Acting as she was told. For two months she showed love, kindness, listening, giving, and sharing.

Two months passed. She didn’t return. Dr Crane called.

“Are you ready now to go through with the divorce?”

“Divorce?” she exclaimed. “Never I discovered I really do love him.”

Her actions had changed her feelings. Motion resulted in emotion. The ability to love is established not so much by fervent promise as by often-repeated deeds.