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Divine Appointment At Chair Number Three
Contributed by Martin Spoelstra on Apr 19, 2026 (message contributor)
A pastor went for a haircut two weeks before officiating his son’s wedding. It was supposed to be routine. Sit down, clean things up, walk out ready for a big weekend.
As he settled into the chair, he mentioned the upcoming ceremony. That simple comment opened a door he didn’t expect.
The hairdresser began sharing about her daughter, who had recently started going back to church with her boyfriend—a young man serious about his faith. He had been inviting her, giving her Bibles, drawing her back into something she had once left behind. The boyfriend also turned his attention to the hairdresser and sent her bibles as well.
But then the conversation turned inward.
She paused and said, almost cautiously, “I feel like maybe God is trying to get my attention… but I don’t know if I’m ready for all that change. I don’t know if I’m ready to go back to God.”
That’s when the moment shifted from casual conversation to something much more significant.
The pastor responded gently, “There’s a verse that might describe what you’re experiencing.” And he said, "Jesus says, 'I stand at the door and knock. If you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in, and we will share a meal together as friends.' ” (Rev 3:20)
She froze.
Not the polite kind of pause—completely still.
Then she looked at him and said that she had been having a recurring dream. In the dream, she hears a knock at the door. She knows, somehow, that it’s God. She wants to open it—but every time she reaches for the handle, fear takes over. She wakes up before the door ever opens.
So he said to her, “What’s on the other side of that door isn’t something to be afraid of. God isn’t trying to break in—He’s waiting to be invited in. And when He comes in, it’s not to overwhelm you, it’s to meet with you.”
The conversation kept going. Faith, questions, hesitation, invitation.
And somewhere along the way, the haircut kept getting shorter.
They talked about what it might look like for her to take a step—to open the door, even just a little. He invited her to an Alpha course, a space to ask questions and explore faith without pressure. Then he invited her to church.
She quietly asked where it was.
He told her.
And once again, she froze.
Then she said, “I live just around the corner.”
At that point, it was hard to call this a coincidence.
He asked her, “Do you think God is trying to get your attention?”
She said yes.
Then he asked, “If God is trying to get your attention, what do you think He’s saying to you?”
And instead of answering it for her, he left her with the question—because some questions are too important to rush.
They shape everything that comes next.
He left his card, stood up, and looked in the mirror. The haircut was excellent—just shorter than expected.
But it turns out, that appointment was never really about the haircut.
Sometimes God uses ordinary moments—chairs, conversations, interruptions—to do something deeply personal.
And sometimes, the knock isn’t just something we read about.
Sometimes, it’s happening in real time.
The only question is whether we’re ready to open the door.
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