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It was the last day of the revival. I had just finished my ninth sermon of the meeting. I stood to give my lasting remarks. And I said what I was thinking.

Usually, I am able to mind my own business when I preach away from home. But since I had no intention of ever returning to that church, I took a shot at them.

Thanks for putting up with my preaching this week. And for all of your kindness and encouragement. But all the glory goes to God. Any human credit goes to the church I serve.

They give me time to think, read and pray. They provide the resources I need to study. And they only demand that I be ready to teach and preach. If I am not a good preacher, shame on me. Any church can have good preaching if they take care of their pastor and encourage him.

I had been there for a week. And the pastor didn’t have time to host me.

He worked part-time to make ends meet. He did funerals and hospital visits every day I was there. He had one meeting after another.

I was exhausted just watching him. In the process, he was discouraged, his marriage was in trouble and his children were resentful of the ministry.

Then it happened.

One of the deacons slyly criticized his preaching in front of me, suggesting his seasoned pastor should take preaching lessons from me, who am in my early 20s.

I had preached for men who I wasn’t sure could read. But their members would tell me, “I enjoyed your preaching! But you can’t touch my pastor.” That’s love. This deacon’s remark, and his fellow deacons’ agreement, was just cruel.

The pastor was a good preacher. He was just in a bad situation at a historic church that thought too highly of itself.

I had to say something.

And I did.

Sometimes pastors struggle in preaching because they don’t take their pulpit work seriously. Others struggle in preaching because they struggle alone.

But good preaching is a partnership between pastor and congregation, pulpit and pew, the one who preaches and the one who listens.

The pastor preaches to help those in the pew. But the congregation can and should help the one in the pulpit, as well.

There was a vocal old lady in my first church. When I was preaching well, she would say, “Help us, Lord.” But when I was flunking, she would say, “Help him, Lord.” But there are better ways the pew can help the pulpit and motivate the pastor to be a better preacher. Here are seven …

Pray for Your Pastor

I mean, pray specifically for his preaching. Pray that he will have the time to study and will use it well. Pray the Lord will open his eyes and give him understanding (Ps. 119:18, 24). Pray that he will guard his life and doctrine (1 Tim. 4:16).

Pray that he will rightly handle the word of truth (2 Tim. 2:15). Pray that the Lord will keep his heart and mind free from sinful distractions. Pray that God will give him power in the pulpit.

I highly recommend you read the booklet by Mike Fabarez titled Praying for Sunday

Give Him Time to Study

Members love pastors who are always available. But it is not good if he is always available. He will be more help to you if he shuts himself up to pray and study.

You want a pastor who has something to say rather than someone who has to say something. This requires times to prepare. Give it to him.

Provide for Him

Bivocational pastors are the unsung heroes of the church, who work a job to care for their families as they do the work of ministry for little or no pay. Many churches are not able to adequately compensate their pastors.

But others are just stingy. Being determined to deprive the preacher, they rob themselves.

Do your best to care for the needs of your pastor and his family.

Be Marked Present

A blind and deaf Christian was asked why he attended church since he could not see or hear the service. He answered, “I just want people to know which side I’m on.”

Your regular church attendance is a statement to the world. It is an act of obedience that builds up other believers (Heb. 10:24-25). And it is a great encouragement to your pastor.

You challenge him to prepare a better meal if you consistently show up with a good attitude and a big appetite.

Listen to the Sermon

Just because you are in the service does not mean you hear the sermon. And the pastor knows it.

He stands on a raised platform in a room with people sitting in front of him. And he sees what’s happening in front of him. When you spend the sermon talking, walking, texting or sleeping, it’s distracting and discouraging.

But nothing makes a man want to preach harder than to have people actually listening, sitting up, following along and taking notes. An occasional “Amen” doesn’t hurt either.

Encourage Him

Preaching can be discouraging work. If I stopped writing this article and didn’t get back to it for a week, I could pick up right where I left off. Preaching doesn’t work that way.

We try to reach out to people on Sunday mornings. The world tries to reach them all the rest of the week. The gravitational pull is against the things of God. And the pastor often feels he is not making a difference.

Encourage him. Don’t stroke his ego. But give him specific ways you are learning and growing.

Be a Doer of the Word

A church is not committed to the word just because the pulpit preaches the truth. A church is committed to the word when biblical preaching together shapes its life. To hear the word without doing what it says is self-deception (James 1:22-25).

Members often leave the service and rate the pastor’s sermon. But the real issue is what you do with what you hear.

Be eager hear the word. But don’t stop there. Live it out by Christ’s power and for God’s glory!

What do you think? What would you add to this list? How do you think the pew can better support the pulpit?

H.B. Charles, Jr. is the Pastor-Teacher at the Shiloh Metropolitan Baptist Church of Jacksonville, Florida, where he has served since the fall of 2008. He is primarily responsible for preaching-teaching, vision casting, and leadership development – along with all the other tasks that are a part of pastoral ministry.

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Richard Scotland

commented on Jul 21, 2014

Well said, sir!

Alice Dallas

commented on Jul 21, 2014

Thanks for the words of encouragement. God is good! God bless.

Tony Bland

commented on Jul 21, 2014

Well done H.B. but also it would help if they said Amen without being asked...

Dennis Cocks

commented on Jul 22, 2014

Amen! Very true! And Tony, I couldn't agree more!

Bill Williams

commented on Jul 23, 2014

Very wonderful suggestions, and I would not take anything away from the article. I would, however, add an eight way in which the "pew" can help the "pulpit": share the preaching ministry. I'm surprised that this suggestion is consistently absent from these types of articles. Somehow, we have bought into the assumption (which has no NT basis, whatsoever) that one person doing all, or even most, of the preaching in a local congregation should be the norm. It should not. When we read the NT, we see that churches always had a plurality of elders, each of whom was "able to teach." There is not a single example in the entire NT of a local church that had only person doing all of the preaching. If contemporary churches were to follow the NT principles on this point, if the norm for our churches was a plurality of elders sharing in the preaching ministry, so that no one person had to carry the burden of preparing one or more sermons every single week, I believe the quality of preaching overall in the church would noticeably increase. I can say this confidently because I have seen it happen in the church I attend. In addition to our pastor, we have another four gifted and equipped lay people who share the ministry, and there are currently another two that are being trained. It is inspiring to hear the word of God being preached week after week from different voices and different perspectives. I would not go back to "only-one-person-preaching" for anything.

Michael Lum

commented on Sep 23, 2021

Great message!.. and THANK YOU for standing up for the pastor who was being betrayed! Love the thoughts about partnership in the pulpit. Blessings!

Brian Parker

commented on Mar 8, 2024

Great article! As a bi-vocational pastor... err... tri-vocational ... quad-vocational? What's the word for ten? I can tell you that I am constantly overwhelmed. I am not given time to study or pray, I have to sacrifice something else to make that happen. My marriage is not suffering as my wife is taking school classes to occupy her time too and my kids have plenty of activities, but I know this cannot last. I just took over a new church that went through a few splits in the last couple of years and the biggest problem that still remains is the one I see in every church I go to -- apathy. They just don't care about the kingdom. Even as we seek to rebuild the church, most of them are still not being faithful in their attendance, much less their time or talents. What I wouldn't give to have someone take just one of my jobs off my shoulders and say, "I got this." Granted, most of what I do is technical as I turn to automation to counter the lack of volunteers and most of my congregation is older, but everyone can do something. Also, so many people with talents congregate to the larger churches and do not help build the smaller churches. I pray that God will bring more people my way with a heart to serve the Kingdom of God and a willingness to help build this local body. I love this local church and see tremendous potential in it for the Kingdom.

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