Why Do Some People Struggle To Change For The better? Series

People often struggle to change due to various reasons. Here are some possible reasons why people don't change:

Fear of the unknown: Many individuals find comfort in familiarity and fear the uncertainty that comes with change.

Laziness and complacency: Change often requires effort and discomfort, leading some to remain in their current state.

Fear of failure: The possibility of failure can hold people back from attempting to change.

Lack of motivation: Without a clear reason or motivation, individuals may not feel compelled to change.

Comfort zone: People often prefer to stay within their comfort zone, even if it means stagnation.

Unaware of the need for change: Some individuals may be oblivious to the need for change or the benefits it could bring.

Habits and addictions: Deep-seated habits and addictions can be challenging to break, making change difficult.

Environmental influences: Surrounding oneself with people who don't support or encourage change can hinder progress.

Past experiences: Trauma or negative experiences related to change can make individuals hesitant to try again.

Perceived lack of control: If individuals feel like they lack control over their lives, they may feel powerless to change.

Fear of losing identity: Change can lead to personal growth, but some individuals may fear losing their sense of self in the process.

In Matthew 13:18–23, Jesus shares a parable about the seeds that fell on different soil, representing different hearts.

Some hearts are hardened, like the path, and refuse to receive the seed of God's word. Others are like rocky soil, initially receptive, but lacking depth, they quickly fall away. And then there are those like thorny soil, where the seed is choked out by the cares and desires of the world.

But what about the good soil? In Luke 8:15, Jesus says, "The seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop."

To change for good, we need a heart transformation, a willingness to receive and retain God's word, and a commitment to persevere. Let us examine our hearts today and ask God to till the soil of our souls, that we may bear fruit for His glory.

May we be like the apostle Paul, who said in Philippians 3:13–14, "Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."

Let us hold on towards godliness, and by His grace, may we bear fruit that lasts and embrace positive change in our lives.