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Treating Others With Compassion, Kindness, And Respect Series
Contributed by Shaila Touchton on Jan 29, 2025 (message contributor)
Summary: How do you treat those who can do nothing for you?
In the book of Proverbs, King Solomon writes, "The righteous care about justice for the poor, but the wicked have no such concern" (Proverbs 29:7). This verse highlights a fundamental principle of the Christian faith: treating others with kindness and respect, regardless of their social status or ability to reciprocate.
The phrase "You can tell a man's character by the way he treats those who can do nothing for him" is a powerful reminder of this principle. It suggests that a person's true character is revealed not by how they treat those who can benefit them, but by how they treat those who are powerless, vulnerable, or unable to repay them.
This principle is deeply rooted in Scripture. In Matthew 25:31-46, Jesus teaches that our treatment of the "least of these" (the hungry, thirsty, stranger, naked, sick, and imprisoned) is a reflection of our relationship with Him. He says, "Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me" (Matthew 25:40).
Similarly, in Luke 14:12-14, Jesus teaches that we should invite the poor, crippled, lame, and blind to our banquets, rather than inviting those who can repay us. He says, "Blessed is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God" (Luke 14:15).
These passages emphasize that our treatment of others is not just a matter of social etiquette or personal preference, but a matter of spiritual obedience. When we treat others with kindness and respect, regardless of their ability to repay us, we demonstrate our love for God and our commitment to His kingdom values.
Practical Applications
So, how can we apply this principle in our daily lives? Here are a few practical suggestions:
Volunteer at a local soup kitchen or food bank: Serve meals or sort donations for those in need, without expecting anything in return.
Visit the sick or elderly: Spend time with those who are lonely or isolated, listening to their stories and showing them kindness.
Advocate for the marginalized: Speak out on behalf of those who are powerless or vulnerable, such as the unborn, the refugee, or the oppressed.
Practice random acts of kindness: Pay for someone's coffee, hold the door open for someone, or offer a smile and a kind word to a stranger.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the way we treat others, particularly those who can do nothing for us, is a reflection of our character and our commitment to God's kingdom values. May we strive to treat others with kindness, compassion, and respect, regardless of their social status or ability to repay us. As we do, may we demonstrate our love for God and our desire to live out His teachings in our daily lives.