The Virtue Of Christian Kindness

The Virtue of Christian Kindness

Study Text: Ephesians 4: 29 - 32

Introduction:

- Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Some other words for kindness are goodwill, tenderness, selflessness, and benevolence.

- Kindness has a wide and varied interpretations, its meaning is relative to each individual and there is no one right definition of the word.

- It comes in many forms and may not always be as simple as doing good things. What comes as “good” and “right” for someone may not necessarily be viewed as such by another.

- Different people tend to look at kindness in different ways. But empathy, understanding, and compassion are universal. Accepting and helping everyone no matter who they are or where they came from is kindness in and of itself.

- Kindness is one of the attributes of God, and one of the components of the fruit of the Spirit, therefore, Christians are expected to express Kindness in their daily conversations.

- We shall be discussing the topic under three subheadings:

1. The Explanation of the Virtue of Christian Kindness

2. The Expression of the Virtue of Christian Kindness

3. The Exploitation of the Virtue of Christian Kindness

1. The Explanation of the Virtue of Christian Kindness

- There are a lot of verses in the bible that define kindness. In our Study Text, Paul has this to say about kindness: Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)

- This means that being kind to others is your own way of following in God’s footsteps. It is the ultimate expression of your love for God.

- In Proverbs 11:17, we are told that a man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. This implies that kindness does not only makes others happy, It uplifts the spirit of the person expressing it also.

- Every sincere act of kindness always make the kind person feel satisfied and elated. Not the self-pleasing kind of satisfaction, but a genuine feeling of happiness that only comes from helping others.

- To fully understand the meaning of Christian Kindness, we need to identify some principles involved in expressing Kindness, some of these include:

1. Kindness Involves Determination and Making a Choice

- What makes someone truly kind is because they are determined to be so, and keep choosing to be kind, even if it means having to do it sacrificially.

- This is what distinguishes Christian Kindness from just appearing good before others. This is because they choose the path that that the word of God approves, no matter how unpopular it is, rather than choosing that which will make them look good in front of others.

2. Express Kindness to Yourself Also

- You need to be kind to yourself too because you, like everyone else, also deserve kindness.

- Treat yourself as you would treat anyone else. Avoid criticizing or putting yourself down. Instead, offer yourself kind words every day.

- You can’t be truly kind to others if you cannot even be kind to yourself.

3. Motivate Others with Your Kindness

- A simple act of kindness can inspire others and triggers a chain reaction of people being kind to others. This is one of the most profound effects of kindness.

- Get encouraged and motivated by the sincere expression of kindness by others, and have the goal of motivating and encouraging others with your expression of kindness.

2. The Expression of the Virtue of Christian Kindness

- There are certain attitudes and qualities needed to sincerely and effectively express the Virtue of Christian Kindness, some of which include:

1. Sensitivity to the Needs of Others

- In order to express kindness in sincerity and effectively, you must be sensitive and be aware of the needs of those around you.

- Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Philippians 2:4

- Kindness starts with getting my mind off myself and my problems and noticing what others are experiencing.

2. The Willingness and Readiness to Support Others

- We must be willing and ready to support others as much as God gives us the ability and enablement. Especially, we need to be supportive with our words. One of the first places to put kindness into action is in our speech: Proverbs 15:4,10:32

3. Meditate Daily on the Kindness of God to You

- When we realize how kind God has been to us, and how fortunate we are to be alive and saved, it will be easier to be kind with our words and actions to others.

- When a person is not aware of their blessings it is far easier to be cutting, hurtful with words and always running other people down.