The Role Of Relationships In Fulfilling Destiny Series

THE ROLE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN FULFILLING DESTINY

By Rev. Samuel Arimoro

Main Text: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up."

Supporting Texts: Proverbs 27:17, Ruth 1:16-17, 1 Samuel 18:1-4, Exodus 17:12, Luke 10:1

INTRODUCTION

God designed life to be lived in relationships. No man was created to walk the journey of destiny alone. Right from creation, God established the principle of companionship when He declared, “It is not good that man should be alone” (Genesis 2:18). Every individual’s destiny is tied to people—mentors, friends, partners, and helpers—whom God has positioned to assist in the fulfilment of His purpose.

Throughout the Bible, we see the impact of relationships in shaping destinies. Moses needed Aaron and Hur to lift his hands (Exodus 17:12), Ruth’s connection to Naomi led to her breakthrough (Ruth 1:16-17), and even Jesus chose twelve disciples to work alongside Him. Destiny is a journey that requires strategic relationships.

However, not all relationships are beneficial. The right connections will accelerate the fulfilment of your purpose, while wrong associations can derail your destiny. This message will explore the role of relationships in fulfilling destiny and how to build meaningful, God-ordained connections.

1. RELATIONSHIPS PROVIDE SUPPORT AND STRENGTH

No one can fulfil their destiny in isolation; the right relationships provide the needed support in times of weakness.

a) Encouragement in Difficult Times – Destiny journeys are filled with challenges, and good relationships offer encouragement (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

b) A Source of Strength – Moses needed Aaron and Hur to support him when he was weary (Exodus 17:12).

c) Emotional and Spiritual Support – Jonathan strengthened David when he was running from Saul (1 Samuel 23:16).

d) Accountability – A strong relationship helps us stay on track and avoid costly mistakes (Proverbs 27:17).

e) Biblical Example: Naomi and Ruth – Ruth found strength in her relationship with Naomi, which led her to destiny fulfilment (Ruth 1:16-17).

2. RELATIONSHIPS OPEN DOORS OF OPPORTUNITY

God uses people to unlock doors to greater dimensions of destiny.

a) Divine Introductions – Joseph was remembered and introduced to Pharaoh by the butler (Genesis 41:9-14).

b) Mentors and Teachers – Elisha fulfilled his calling because of his connection to Elijah (1 Kings 19:19-21).

c) Helpers of Destiny – God places people in our lives to provide opportunities we cannot access alone (1 Samuel 9:6-10).

d) Favour through Relationships – Esther’s relationship with Mordecai positioned her for favour (Esther 2:7, 17).

e) Biblical Example: The Samaritan Woman – After her encounter with Jesus, she became the connection that brought salvation to her city (John 4:28-30).

3. RELATIONSHIPS SHAPE CHARACTER AND DESTINY

Who you associate with will ultimately shape who you become.

a) Influence Determines Direction – “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise…” (Proverbs 13:20).

b) Godly Relationships Promote Growth – Iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17).

c) Avoiding Toxic Relationships – Wrong associations can corrupt good character (1 Corinthians 15:33).

d) Submission to Godly Counsel – Rehoboam lost the kingdom because he listened to the wrong people (1 Kings 12:6-11).

e) Biblical Example: Lot and Abraham – Lot’s destiny changed when he disconnected from Abraham (Genesis 13:10-14).

4. RELATIONSHIPS HELP IN SPIRITUAL AND MINISTERIAL IMPACT

Partnerships and teamwork are necessary for fulfilling divine assignments.

a) Teamwork in Ministry – Jesus sent out the disciples in pairs (Luke 10:1).

b) The Power of Agreement – “…If two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything… it shall be done for them” (Matthew 18:19).

c) Spiritual Covering – Paul mentored Timothy, helping him grow in ministry (2 Timothy 1:6-7).

d) Fulfilling the Great Commission – The early church grew through relational evangelism (Acts 2:42-47).

e) Biblical Example: Paul and Barnabas – Their partnership led to the spread of the gospel (Acts 13:2-3).

5. HOW TO BUILD DESTINY-ENHANCING RELATIONSHIPS

Building and maintaining godly relationships require wisdom and intentional effort.

a) Be a Person of Value – To attract good relationships, invest in yourself and add value to others (Proverbs 22:29).

b) Discern Divine Connections – Not everyone is meant to be in your life; pray for discernment (1 John 4:1).

c) Invest in Relationships – Strong relationships require time, communication, and sacrifice (Proverbs 18:24).

d) Walk in Love and Forgiveness – Unforgiveness can destroy relationships that are key to your destiny (Colossians 3:13).

e) Biblical Example: David and Jonathan – Their covenant relationship protected David and aligned with God’s plan (1 Samuel 18:1-4).

CONCLUSION

God fulfils His purposes through relationships. Whether it is mentors, friends, or partners, He positions people in our lives to help us reach our destiny. Destiny is too great a journey to walk alone. As seen throughout scripture, those who embraced the right relationships prospered, while those who disregarded divine connections suffered setbacks.