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The Dangers Of Fault Finding Series
Contributed by Shaila Touchton on Apr 25, 2025 (message contributor)
Summary: Fault finders usually do not see any good in the efforts of other people. They put on the air of perfection and act as if they are incapable of making mistakes. Such people easily offend others through their actions and speeches. They focus on everyone’s faults except theirs.
As Christians, we're called to build each other up, not tear each other down. Yet, fault finding is a subtle sin that can creep into our lives, damaging relationships and hindering our walk with God.
The Pharisees: A Classic Example
In John 8:3-11, the Pharisees brought a woman caught in adultery to Jesus, demanding she be stoned. But Jesus responded with compassion, saying, "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her." One by one, her accusers walked away, convicted by their own guilt. Jesus didn't condemn the woman; He showed her mercy.
The Damage of Fault Finding
Fault finders focus on others' flaws, ignoring their own. They criticize, rarely compliment, and often offend others. This behavior sows discord, divides people, and damages relationships.
God's Solution is Love and Empathy
In Matthew 7:5, Jesus says, "Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye." We need to focus on our own flaws before trying to fix others. Let's ask God for grace to love others like Jesus, with empathy and kindness.
A New Way is building Each Other Up
Let's strive to be encouragers, not fault finders. Let's build each other up, rather than tearing each other down. By God's grace, we can learn to love and appreciate others, just as Jesus loves us.
Pray with me: "Lord, help me to see my own flaws and to love others as You love me. Give me the grace to be an encourager, not a fault finder. Amen."
The Impact of Words
Proverbs 18:21 says, "The tongue has the power of life and death." Our words can either uplift or destroy. When we choose to encourage others, we bring life and joy to those around us.
Biblical Examples
Barnabas, meaning "son of encouragement," was a pivotal figure in the early church. He encouraged Paul, a former persecutor, to join the disciples (Acts 9:27).
David encouraged his friend Jonathan, saying, "You have brought great joy to me, my brother" (2 Samuel 1:26).
The Benefits of Encouragement
Builds relationships: Encouragement strengthens bonds and fosters unity.
Boosts confidence: Uplifting words can give others the courage to pursue their dreams.
Brings hope: In times of struggle, encouragement reminds us that we're not alone.
How to Encourage Others
Listen actively: Sometimes, all someone needs is someone to listen.
Offer kind words: Speak positively and genuinely about others.
Show appreciation: Express gratitude for the people in your life.
A Call to Action
Let's make a conscious effort to encourage those around us. Let's be a source of hope and joy in a world that desperately needs it. By doing so, we'll reflect the love of Christ and build stronger, more meaningful relationships.
Pray like this.
"Lord, help me to be an encourager, using my words to uplift and bring joy to others. Give me opportunities to show Your love and kindness."
