The Bigger The Destiny The Bigger The Challenge Series

Define Your Purpose or Destiny

Your Challenges Do Not Define Your Destiny; Your Response Does.

The greatest mistakes most people do is allowing others defined their destiny not realizing that the establishment of that dream in your heart is only assigned for you alone. I have hard many saying "I wanted being a doctor but my parents said no, that I should rather choose military", well am not against parent suggestion but rather as parent nurture your child's dream and assignment. Someone said " Pastor Godsgift, are you saying that when we chose parents suggestion then we can't succeed fulfilling it? Well done question; perhaps parents said join army when all your life dreams are being a secondary school teacher then hear me, you can still succeed being a military personnel but you have disappointed your generation and also disobeyed God who designed your destiny as a teacher but changed by parents. Not forgetting that Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary defined Destiny as That to which any person or thing is destined; a predetermined state; a condition foreordained by the Divine or by human will. This implied that you alone can defined your purpose of living, called and why you most be a doctor when others are suggesting you over lecturing in a university.

To define your destiny simply means you not allowing others force you do or walk through different path, do not let others define what you know is the purpose of your existence or being given the mission, assignment.

The bible clearly pointed a story of an old prophet and new prophet; the old prophet deceived the new prophet as example to when we allowed people making choices in our calling.

Sometimes it required challenges to hasten you to what you're destined for. If possible for Joseph dream to change by his brothers or family as a whole it would have been done to release him from the prison and other troubles he encountered.

Defining your purpose or destiny is one of the most critical steps in fulfilling your Destiny. Purpose gives your life meaning, while destiny is the ultimate destination of your journey. Together, they create a roadmap for how you should live, work, and serve. Without a clear definition, you may wander aimlessly, missing the opportunities God has prepared for you.

As Proverbs 29:18 says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Defining your purpose is like setting a vision for your life—it provides clarity, direction, and the ability to stay focused even in the face of challenges.

What is Purpose?

Purpose is the "why or reason" behind your existence. It answers questions like:

- Why was I created?

- What role am I meant to play in God’s plan?

- How can I use my life to serve others?

Key Insight: Your purpose is not about personal ambition but about aligning yourself with God’s will and serving the greater good.

- What is Destiny?

Destiny, on the other hand, is the ultimate goal or outcome of your life. It is where God wants you to arrive after fulfilling your purpose. While purpose is ongoing, destiny is the culmination of living a life aligned with God’s plan.

Biblical Example: David

David’s purpose was to serve God and His people as a shepherd, warrior, and king. His destiny was to establish a kingdom that honored God and set the stage for the Messiah’s lineage.

Why Defining Your Purpose and Destiny is Crucial

1. Clarity: When you define your purpose, you can make decisions with confidence and avoid distractions.

2. Focus: Knowing your destiny helps you prioritize your efforts and resources.

3. Motivation: A clear purpose keeps you inspired, even during tough times.

4. Fulfillment: Living with purpose and pursuing your destiny bring joy and satisfaction.

Quote to Reflect On:

“You were created on purpose for a purpose.” ( Check chapter 3 for more clarity).

Steps to Define Your Purpose or Destiny

1. Seek God First and Align Your Purpose with God’s Kingdom:

True purpose is always connected to God’s plan for humanity. Your calling will not only benefit you but also serve others and advance God’s kingdom.

Key Verse: Matthew 6:33 – “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Note: Understanding your purpose begins with a relationship with God. He is the Creator, and only He knows why you were made. Spend time in prayer, asking Him to reveal His plans for you.

Key Verse: Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Action Step: Dedicate time daily for prayer and meditation, asking God for clarity about your purpose.

2. Identify Your Gifts and Talents: