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The Act Of Forgiveness.
Contributed by Jimmy Haile on May 23, 2020 (message contributor)
Summary: “Every one,” C.S. Lewis writes, “says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until there is something to forgive”
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Matthew 18:21-Then Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?”
22-Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.
23-“Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.
24-“And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.
25-“But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.
26-“The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, ‘Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.’
27-“Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.
28-“But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, ‘Pay me what you owe!’
29-“So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.’
30-“And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.
31-“So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.
32-“Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.
33-‘Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?’
34-“And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.
35-“So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses.”
Everyone, I suspect, is in favor of forgiveness, at least in principle.
“Every one,” C.S. Lewis writes, “says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until there is something to forgive”
What is Jesus trying to tell us!
Don't limit Forgiveness!
Don't limit Grace!
Don't limit Mercy!
Maybe I'm the only one that messes up everyday!
Thinks the wrong thought every day!
Does the wrong thing everyday!
Says the wrong thing everyday!
What if God decided----”I'm only going to forgive him or forgive her this many times!”
We wouldn't want that, we don't ever want God to give up on us, we don't ever want God to not forgive us, not to show mercy to us, not to show Grace, then why in the world, are we so willing not to do that for others?
You say, "Well you just don't know what they've done to me!"
The truth is every sin that you and I commit, everything that we do that is wrong, affects our relationship with God!
It hurts God, it puts a division between yourself and God and what we have done and what we continue to do and probably what we'll do until we leave this old earth is sin and because of it, we need to ask for forgiveness!
We need to ask to be delivered!
We need to ask for Grace!
We need to ask for mercy and Grace in our lives!
What people have done to you and me cannot compare to what you and I have done to God!
Asking for forgiveness it's not so much about letting God know about our sin!
Because He already knows!
Confession is necessary because it is a chance for us to realize our sinfulness!
Our unholiness, our disobedience because we have to admit that we need or did something that needed forgiveness!
The idea here is that us knowing that we need forgiveness and how much forgiveness we need that we would be more likely to give forgiveness to others it would help us to identify more with those who trespass against us since we have trespassed against God
"I'm not going to forgive them until they apologize to me!"
"They owe me an apology!"
You should forgive them because you've been forgiven!
You should release them of the debt you think they owed to you because of a debt you owe to God and because you have been forgiven!
Since it says, And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.
We are tortured that's what happens when are you and I don't forgive.
That's why when the person who has done something bad to us, when we hear their name are stomach begins to tumble.
When we see them we relive the incident that happened between us and it goes on and on for years and years until we forgive them, until we release them……..Which interns releases us!