Introduction

Lately, there has been a lot of negative news surrounding the Catholic church, particularly regarding allegations of sexual misconduct by priests. While I do not condone these actions, it saddens me because the world is watching and may view the church as hypocritical. However, there is another issue that has plagued the church since its inception - the inability of God's people to control their tongues. Our words have the power to build up or tear down, and the world is listening. Therefore, it is crucial to ask ourselves if our tongues are productive or destructive.

Scripture

When God created us, He gave us two eyes, two ears, two nostrils, and one mouth containing a powerful tool - the tongue. Our eyes, ears, and nostrils help us observe the world around us, while our tongue allows us to comment on it. Perhaps God intended for us to observe twice as much as we speak. Our tongue has the power to shape our character and influence our lives. The principle of sowing and reaping applies here - if we sow negative words, we will reap negativity; if we sow positive words, we will reap positivity.

The Destructive Tongue

1. Idle or Careless Words: Jesus teaches that we will be held accountable for every idle word we speak. Idle words are lazy and unproductive, lacking any good purpose.

2. Gossip: Gossiping is like being a channel for the devil. It involves spreading unnecessary information about others, often driven by a lack of fulfillment in one's own life.

3. Lies: Proverbs 12:22 states that lying lips are detestable to the Lord. Even so-called "white lies" are abominable in God's sight.

4. Swearing and Cursing: Using foul language reveals a serious problem and indicates that our tongues are under the influence of the enemy. It hinders our ability to effectively witness to others.

The Productive Tongue

1. Profitable Silence: There is a time to keep silent, as stated in Ecclesiastes 3:7. Sometimes, it is best to refrain from speaking, as it prevents misquoting or misrepresenting ourselves.

2. Avoiding Gossip: Before sharing information, ask yourself if it is true, necessary, beneficial, if you have permission to share it, and if your motive is pure. If not, it's best to keep quiet.

3. Addicted to Witnessing: A productive tongue desires to build and expand the Kingdom of God. Sharing the Gospel through words and actions is essential.

4. Speaking the Truth in Love: Jesus spoke the truth with love, and we should follow His example. Speaking truthfully with love helps others recognize their own shortcomings.

5. Avoiding Grumbling and Complaining: The Israelites' constant murmuring and complaining in the wilderness led to their downfall. Instead, we should give thanks in all circumstances.

6. Making Positive Confessions: Our words shape our lives. Speaking doubt, failure, sickness, weakness, poverty, or fear will manifest those negative outcomes. Instead, speak positively.

7. Continually Praising the Lord: Praising God at all times invites His presence into our lives. The Bible tells us that God dwells in the praises of His people.

Conclusion

Our tongues have the power to build up or destroy. We must be mindful of what we say and how we say it. Our words reflect our character and can impact our relationships, families, churches, and witness for Christ. Let us ask God to take control of our tongues and use them for His glory. May the Holy Spirit burn away any negativity and restore our relationships, marriages, friendships, and our church.

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