Short Profile Of A Christian Abusing Husband Series

An abusive husband professes as a Believer is an expert in making false accusations, swearing falsely slandering, persistent arguing, harassing, backsliding, and tormenting their wife by twisting his wife's words and using them against her so that he can blame her if she confronts him.

An Abusing husband is an expert in shifting blame or making accusations, appearing to be sincere, twisting his wife's words and using them against her so that he can blame her in any kind of confrontation, manipulating the Scripture as a means of confusing or undermining a wife's confidence in her ability to think biblically misapplying or taking the Scripture out of context to stonewall her expressed concerns about his behavior, while also emphasizing that it is her responsibility to be submissive without any qualifying or modifying truth to suit for his own selfish reasons.

An Abusing husband can pretend well as a Christian and he is an expert in mimicking religious behaviors having an exterior emotional façade like praying in Infront of others, preaching, and going to church but he is under a mask which an abuser hides his double face.

An Abuser is an evil man covering his activities with the veil of denial, delusion and illusion to self-protect and self-preserve so that his inner darkest deeds are not revealed, who shows no shame for that sin or hunger for the holy and pure things of God.

An abusive husband is very passionate about their defensiveness, justifying their evil behaviors, attitudes, and traits. They are good manipulators in diverting their attention from themselves on their wives in order to prevent anyone from discovering their true evil behavior. They quote the Scripture to defend themselves in order to justify their denial of his abusive and violent behavior.

An abuser plays the suicide card where he threatens to kill himself in order to control or get the victim to comply with his demand as a part of their sorrow yet they do in a controlling act.

Abusers are very skilled manipulators, they are pathological liars, by associating with someone godly in the church, they can cast a righteous reflection while at the same time deflecting suspicion and attention away from their true nature.

An abusive husband who injures his wife, and robs her of such things as her peace of mind, her sanity, her God-given rights, and her identity.

An Abuser has issues with irrational jealousy, the need to be in control, a quick temper, cruelty toward animals, attempts to isolate the other person from his or her friends and family, drug or alcohol abuse, and disrespect for boundaries, privacy, personal space, or moral values.. sinful human nature to attempt to justify sin.

1 Peter 3:7 says You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

Psalm 11:5 The Lord tests the righteous and the wicked, And the one who loves violence His soul hates.