Extreme Makeover “Family Room” Entertainment Center
Ephesians 5:1-7
Let’s look at some of the entertainment choices we make daily and our children make daily.
Here are some stats that may surprise you:
Pornography is one of the fastest growing industries in America:
Last year: (revenue)
Adult videos $20.0 billion
Escort services $11.0 billion
Magazines $ 7.5 billion
Sex clubs $ 5.0 billion
Phone sex $ 4.5 billion
US porn revenue exceeds the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC
Pornographic websites 4.2 million (12% of total websites) Pornographic pages 372 million Daily pornographic search engine requests 68 million (25% of total search engine requests) Daily pornographic emails 2.5 billion (8% of total emails)
Average age of first Internet exposure to pornography 11 years old Largest consumer of Internet pornography 12-17 age group 15-17 year olds having multiple hard-core exposures 80% 8-16 year olds having viewed porn online 90% (most while doing homework) 7-17 year olds who would freely give out home address 29% 7-17 year olds who would freely give out email
Now that I have your attention, let’s look at how this has happened and what we can do about it.
1. Can media really control us?
Today we are going to take a look into the choices we make about entertainment and evaluate it they glorify God and see if we might need a makeover.
Can the media control our mind? Let’s see if it is possible to manipulate the mind.
Play this game with me: Too, moo, boog-a-loo, What does a ghost say?
Top, bop, cop, lop, What does a bunny do?
Pop, yop, bop, top, What do you do at green light?
Most people would say that music, movies, magazines, television, and video games have little to no influence on them.
Media exists to influence them, billions of dollars go into the media so we will feel something, so we will think or act a certain way.
For example, songs can make you feel sad, strong, care free, movies can make you cry, make you angry
Here is a perfect example of how it effects us:
FUNNY:
Andy came to work one day, limping something awful. One of his co-workers, Josh, noticed and asked Andy what happened.
Andy replied, "Oh, nothing. It’s just an old hockey injury that acts up once in a while."
Josh, "Wow, I never knew you played hockey."
Andy, "No I don’t. I hurt it last year when I lost $100 on the Stanley Cup Play-Offs. I put my foot through the television."
Is it really entertainment or is a way to fulfil fantasies and to feed our appetite for sin?
2. We must begin to free our minds from the grasp of “entertainment”
Ephesians 5:1-2
If we are to imitate God, we should fill our minds with the things of God.
I’m not talking about legalism here, but I’m talking about living a life that honors Him, even in what we read, watch and listen to.
We are able to walk in love because of the freedom that we receive through our relationship with Christ.
We should walk as He walked. That will not be an easy task in todays society.
As God’s children we are given great freedom.
1 Corinthians 6:12 says…
"Everything is permissible for me"-but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"-but I will not be mastered by anything.
1 Corinthians 10:23 says…
"Everything is permissible"-but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible"-but not everything is constructive.
We are free from the chains of sin and death!
We have the freedom to choose that which is right.
1 Corinthians 10:31 says…
So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
With freedom comes great responsibility…ask Bush or Ashcroft about it!
We are given freedom to have fun and be entertained, but are we being responsible in our choices?
Are we using our freedom to make good choices that will impact us and our world for Christ?
How free is our mind?
Is the music we are listening to building us up or tearing us down?
Does it have a grip on us that we aren’t even aware of?
96% of teens in America listen to the radio each week.
Not just teens, what about adults? 75% do the same.
IS THAT BAD? NOT NECESSARILY, IT ALL DEPENDS ON CHOICES
There is good in most things but Satan has a counterfeit for most things.
16 Million listeners tune into Howard Stern every day, famous for being Americas shock jock and most disgusting radio personality.
Do the movies and TV shows you are watching glorify God?
Here is what the ratings say about 3 of the top 6 movies this year.
Filled with crude sex and humor and many drug references. Graphic violence, sexuality, nudity, crude language and sexual content.
Do they send a good message?
Have you set standards for yourself or do you accept anything that comes out of Hollywood?
We have to free our minds…to God!
3. We must clean up our mind and out thoughts
Ephesians 5:3-4
As Christians we must be willing to offer God the best we have, not what’s left.
We have allowed the world to slowly denegrate our minds and our thoughts through the media.
Romans 12:1-2 says…
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God-this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will.
We must offer up our minds and bodies as a sacrifice. Shouldn’t our sacrifice be as great as His?
Do not conform but be transformed!
Most of us have conformed in one way or another, haven’t we? Let’s look at some of the facts:
The playboy channed is subscribe to in 34.5 million households in America.
54% of 10-17 year old kids say they are regularly involved in an internet chat room of questionable morals.
98% of American homes have televisions
12-17 year old kids spend an average of 6.5 hours per day in front of an electronic screen.
Do we just make excuses or do we admit it and ask a Holy God to transform us.
God wants your body, heart, and your mind!
It’s time we need to be losing our minds…to God instead of Hollywood, national enquirer, the internet
4. Keep our minds safe from the things of this world
Ephesians 5: 6-7
We must not listen to the deceptions of this world which are put forth in our media.
Why?
The American Psychological Association estimates that teenagers are exposed to 14,000 sexual references and innuendoes per year on television.
A 2001 study of prime-time television by the Kaiser Family Foundation found that 75% of programs include sexual content, and nearly six scenes per hour (5.8) contains sexual talk and/or behavior.
One study found that 6 out of 10 videos display sexual behavior, and a recent report by the Center for Media and Public Affairs found music videos to contain more sex per minute than any competing media genre.
In fact, a recent national survey found that one in 4 kids ages 10 to 17 years had inadvertently encountered explicit sexual content and one in 5 had been exposed to unwanted sexual solicitation while online in the past year.
By age 18, a U.S. youth will have seen 16,000 simulated murders and 200,000 acts of violence.[
Phillipians 4:8 says…
Fix your thoughts on what is true and good and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely, and dwell on the fine, good things in others. Think about all you can praise God for and be glad about
M – Message – What is the message and how is it coming across?
E – Effect – What effect does this have on me?
D – Damage – Will I suffer damage from this? (ex. unhealthy fantasies)
I – Instead – What could I be doing instead? (ex. productive, constructive)
A – Ask God – Does this glorify God, Would I fell comfortable with Jesus in the room?
Bible Christianity has distinctives Bible Christians are commanded by Scripture to not love the world, or the things in the world (1 John 2:15), to be uncontaminated by the world around us(2 Peter 3:14),to live holy lives(1 Peter 1:15). to abstain from fleshly lusts (1 Peter 2:11), to abstain from even the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). Believers are to jealously guard their thought life to ensure it is approved of God (Philippians 4:8), bringing captive every thought into obedience to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).
IF WE ARE TO IMPACT OUR NEIGHBORHOODS AND COMMUNITIES FOR CHRIST LIKE WE SAY WE WANT TO, WE MUST NOT ALLOW OUR MINDS TO BE CONFORMED AND CONTROLLED BY THIS WORLDS MEDIA.
ARE THERE AREAS OF YOUR ENTERTAINMENT LIFE THAT NEED AN EXTREME MAKEOVER?
What is God saying to you this morning?
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