FATHERHOOD AND BURNT OFFERINGS
JOB 1: 1-5
FATHER’S DAY JUNE 20, 2004
INTRODUCTION: Erma Bombeck wrote this: FATHER’S DAY
I received a letter from a single mother who had raised a son who was about to become a dad. Since he had no recollection of his own father, her question to me was "What do I tell him a father does?"
When my dad died in my ninth year, I, too, was raised by my mother, giving rise to the same question, "What do fathers do?" As far as I could observe, they brought around the car when it rained so everyone else could stay dry.
They always took the family pictures, which is why they were never in them. They carved turkeys on Thanksgiving, kept the car gassed up, weren’t afraid to go into the basement, mowed the lawn, and tightened the clothesline to keep it from sagging.
It wasn’t until my husband and I had children that I was able to observe firsthand what a father contributed to a child’s life. What did he do to deserve his children’s respect? He rarely fed them, did anything about their sagging diapers, wiped their noses or fannies, played ball, or bonded with them under the hoods of their cars.
What did he do?
He threw them higher than his head until they were weak from laughter. He cast the deciding vote on the puppy debate. He listened more than he talked. He let them make mistakes. He allowed them to fall from their first two-wheeler without having a heart attack. He read a newspaper while they were trying to parallel park a car for the first time in preparation for their driving test.
If I had to tell someone’s son what a father really does that is important, it would be that he shows up for the job in good times and bad times. He’s a man who is constantly being observed by his children. They learn from him how to handle adversity, anger, disappointment and success.
He won’t laugh at their dreams no matter how impossible they might seem. He will dig out at 1 a.m. when one of his children runs out of gas. He will make unpopular decisions and stand by them. When he is wrong and makes a mistake, he will admit it. He sets the tone for how family members treat one another, members of the opposite sex and people who are different than they are. By example, he can instill a desire to give something back to the community when its needs are greater than theirs.
But mostly, a good father involves himself in his kids’ lives. The more responsibility he has for a child, the harder it is to walk out of his life.
A father has the potential to be a powerful force in the life of a child. Grab it! Maybe you’ll get a greeting card for your efforts. Maybe not. But it’s steady work.
(Source: www.higherpraise.org/illustrations)
TRANSITION THOUGHT: Father’s Day, contrary to popular misconception, was not established as a holiday in order to help greeting card manufacturers sell more cards. In fact when a "father’s day" was first proposed there were no Father’s Day cards!
Mrs. John B. Dodd, of Washington, first proposed the idea of a "father’s day" in 1909. Mrs. Dodd wanted a special day to honor her father, William Smart. William Smart, a Civil War veteran, was widowed when his wife (Mrs. Dodd’s mother) died in childbirth with their sixth child. Mr. Smart was left to raise the newborn and his other five children by himself on a rural farm in eastern Washington State. It was after Mrs. Dodd became an adult that she realized the strength and selflessness her father had shown in raising his children as a single parent.
The first Father’s Day was observed on June 19, 1910 in Spokane Washington. At about the same time in various towns and cities across American other people were beginning to celebrate a "father’s day." In 1924 President Calvin Coolidge supported the idea of a national Father’s Day. Finally in 1966 President Lyndon Johnson signed a presidential proclamation declaring the 3rd Sunday of June as Father’s Day.
Father’s Day has become a day to not only honor your father, but all men who act as a father figure. Stepfathers, uncles, grandfathers, and adult male friends are all to be honored on Father’s Day.
THESIS SENTENCE: FATHER’S DAY IS A DAY TO BLESS FATHERS!
BUT WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BLESS FATHERS OR BETTER YET TO BE A BLESSED FATHER?
I. A BLESSED FATHER IS A FATHER WHO KNOWS THE LORD V. 1
SCRIPTURE: JEREMIAH 17: 5-8/ PSALM 1
A. TO KNOW THE LORD IS TO BE BLAMELESS Ps. 103:12
B. TO KNOW THE LORD IS TO BE UPRIGHT Ps. 23:3
C. TO KNOW THE LORD IS TO FEAR HIM Proverbs 1:7
D. TO KNOW THE LORD IS TO SHUN EVIL Ps. 1
E. TO KNOW THE LORD IS TO CONFESS WITH YOUR MOUTH AND BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART (ROMANS 10:9-13)
TRUTH: WE WILL NEVER BE BLESSED WITHOUT KNOWING JESUS PERSONALLY!
QUESTION: MEN, DO WE KNOW JESUS PERSONALLY?
II. A BLESSED FATHER IS A FATHER WHO KNOWS HIS PLACE V. 2-3
SCRIPTURE: PROVERBS 30: 8-9/ PSALM 62:10
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TRUTH: WE WILL NEVER BE BLESSED IF WE PUT MATERIAL POSSESSIONS FIRST IN OUR LIVES!
QUESTION: MEN, WHAT COMES FIRST IN OUR LIVES, OUR STUFF OR THE LORD?
III. A BLESSED FATHER IS A FATHER WHO KNOWS HIS FAMILY V. 4
SCRIPTURE: MALACHI 4: 4-6/ PROVERBS 1:8-10/2:1/3:1/4:1
TRUTH: WE WILL NEVER BE BLESSED IF WE DO NOT LIVE IN THE MIDST OF OUR FAMILY!
QUESTION: MEN, DO YOU KNOW OUR OWN FAMILY?
IV. A BLESSED FATHER IS A FATHER WHO KNOWS HIS CALLING V. 5
SCRIPTURE: MARK 5: 16-20
TRUTH: WE WILL NEVER BE BLESSED UNTIL WE TAKE OUR FAMILY’S SPIRITUAL WELL BEING AS OUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY!
QUESTION: MEN, IS OUR FAMILY’S SPIRITUAL WELL BEING OUR RESOPONSIBILITY, OR HAVE WE RELEGATED IT TO OUR WIVES?
CONCLUSION: DADS, WE HAVE A HUGH RESPONSIBILITY BEFORE US. This is true whether we are new dad or Great-Great Granddads. I can honestly tell you we cannot do it by ourselves. The truth is we cannot be blessed fathers without a relationship with our King: Jesus. Everything falls into place IF HE IS FIRST. Now most of you know the rest of the story of Job. You may think I am crazy for saying it all will fall into place, but just remember the end of the story of Job is also the end of our story with Jesus. IN THE END WE GET MORE THAN WE STARTED WITH! I know it is tough on all men in this generation. I want to encourage you all, God has a plan for each of our lives, but we must follow HIS path. Job gives us great insight into the journey of fatherhood. I want to challenge each of us, myself included, to follow the path of Job. I cannot think of a better way to seal our decision than for us as men to gather around this altar and ask the Living God to come and be our help as we SURRENDER TO HIM. MEN WILL YOU COME? WILL YOU SURRENDER YOUR LIVES TO THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN MAKE SENSE OF IT ALL? JOIN ME AT THE ALTAR!!!
BENEDICTION: ROMANS 15:5-6
