The Prayer of Jesus Mark 14:32-42
Last Sunday was Father’s Day and I would imagine the phone lines were burning up as people were calling their dads. I phoned my dad and I got one phone call and a text from my kids. And for those whose fathers are no longer with them they probably thought about conversations that they have had with their Dads through the years.
If you are like me, there are probably certain talks, or conversations that you have had with your father that stick in your mind. A friend of mine said he had “The talk” with his eleven year old son the other day, for now I’m sure that is memorable, for whom I’m not sure.
I am fortunate that through the years I have had a really good relationship with Dad, probably didn’t realize it at the time but there are several conversations that I can almost think of verbatim, even remembering where we were when we had those conversations. Not all of them would be appropriate in this context.
This is week two of our Red Letter Summer series and for the next couple of months we will be focusing on those words in the New Testament that are printed in Red. These are the words of Jesus. Red Letters are found primarily in the four gospels but there is a small segment in the book of Acts, in Chapter 9 and again in the book of Revelation.
In the scripture that was read earlier we are eavesdropping on a conversation that Jesus is having with his Father. Last week we looked at how Jesus viewed his Father, that he 1) Jesus Knew the Love of the Father, that 2) Jesus Knew the Affirmation of the Father. And finally 3) Jesus Knew the Protection of the Father
And the fact that he had that type of relationship with his father would explain why he was able to have this conversation with his Father, Mark 14:35-36 He went on a little farther and fell to the ground. He prayed that, if it were possible, the awful hour awaiting him might pass him by. “Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
And so it had come to this. For three years he had taught for three years he had healed. For three years he had tried to make a difference in his world and to direct people to his father and now it had come down to this. One of his followers had already cut a deal with his enemies and he knew deep within his heart that this was already the beginning of the end.
Others might guess what was going to happen, he knew. From the very beginning he knew that the people would reject him and his message and they would reject his call to draw near to God. He knew that he would have to die and would have to surrender his life. He knew all this because he was God. But he also knew that he had to make the offer, he had to walk among the people and offer them the chance to embrace him, even knowing they would reject him, but he had to make the offer.
And so it had come to this. And the worst part was the anticipation. You know how you felt the last time you had to go to the dentist to have a filling, or a tooth pulled? You sat in the waiting room imagining how much it was going to hurt, you could almost feel the prick of the needle as they froze your gums, and as you heard the sound of the drill coming from the office it was almost as if it was in your mouth. Your blood pressure went up, your palms got sweaty your pulse increased. Sorry, I was gone but I’m back now.
Jesus knew that before the day was done that he would die, and not just die but die a very painful death. Oh sure he was God he could make it so it wouldn’t hurt, but that wasn’t a part of the plan. Dying would be the easy part; it was Julius Caesar who said “It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience.” And Jesus Christ, the son of God knew that before the sun had set one more time that he would offer up the supreme sacrifice for the world, not just for the world, for you, and you and you. Because before the day was done he would offer himself up to suffer and die.
And with those thoughts racing through his mind he fell to his knees and began to pray.
This is the prayer of Jesus.
Mark 14:36 “Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
The first thing we discover in this prayer is 1) He Knew Who He Was Praying To. For Jesus the Father was not some abstract figure, he wasn’t a vague benevolent something, out there somewhere. Instead he was God the Father, who loves and cares about his children, He was Abba-*. When we think Abba we think of a Swedish Disco group from the 70’s, and while that may be what Abba means now, it is nowhere near what Abba meant then.
Instead Abba was an Aramaic word that meant father but more then simply father, it was the diminutive form. Burton Guptill is my father, has been as long as I can remember, but you know something in 53 years I don’t think I have ever called him father, ever. When I was younger I called him Daddy, and now I call him Dad, for awhile when I worked for him on the tugs I called him Skipper but I have never to my recollection referred to him as father.
Abba means Daddy or Dad; it is a term of endearment, signifying a relationship. It’s used only three times in the New Testament. This was the first. The other two times Paul uses it to describe the relationship we need to have with our heavenly Father Romans 8:15 So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” And again Paul reminds us in Galatians 4:6 And because we are his children, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, prompting us to call out, “Abba, Father.”
And I understand that the concept of God as our Father is not a positive for everyone. Some people were brought up by fathers who were cruel and vicious, who abused them physically and verbally, and that wasn’t right. That isn’t what fathers are supposed to do and are supposed to behave like. Others weren’t abused by their fathers they were simply ignored, it would appear that their fathers had taken to heart the words of Ernest Hemingway who said “To be a successful father... there's one absolute rule: when you have a kid, don't look at it for the first two years.”
But men who abuse their children or ignore their children aren’t fathers they are simply sperm donors. A father doesn’t just participate in the conception of the child he is an integral part of seeing that child grow up. He is responsible for loving and caring for his children. Of providing for them and protecting them, first against the monsters who live beneath the bed and then against the world. And as children we understand that, Sigmund Freud said “I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.”
And now as Jesus came to the most crucial time in his thirty three years on this earth, knowing as only he could know what was about to happen he cries out to his father, to his dad, pouring out his heart.
When you pray who do you pray to? A concept, a belief, some vague deity that we find hard to define, kind of like Alfred Jarry who said “God is the tangential point between zero and infinity.”
I don’t think so, but if we are going to pray to God the Father then it better be to God our Father. There needs to be a relationship, and He only becomes our Father when we become his children. And how do we do that? Listen to the word of God, John 1:12 But to all who believed him and accepted him, he gave the right to become children of God.
And our obligation as His Children? Philippians 2:15 so that no one can criticize you. Live clean, innocent lives as children of God, shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people.
Our lives then become evidence of that relationship, 1 John 3:10 So now we can tell who are children of God and who are children of the devil. Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God.
You are a child of God if you have believed in Jesus and accept him and you live clean innocent lives, obeying God’s command. Then you can call out to Him, Abba.
Mark 14:35-36. “Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
Jesus not only knew he was praying to the Father, 2) He Knew The Father’s Power Abba, Father,” He prayed everything is possible for you. What’s the use of praying if you don’t believe that God has the power to answer your prayers? Somehow we need to get our head around the concept that everything and anything is possible for God. And I know that some of you are out there shaking your head thinking “but God doesn’t always answer my prayers.” You’re right God doesn’t always answer prayer, but not because he can’t. We also need to understand that we aren’t always going to be able to understand it. I can’t explain why God doesn’t always answer our prayers. Personally I know that there have been some of my prayers that I’m glad He didn’t answer.
The Angel Gabriel summed it up in Luke 1:37 “For nothing is impossible with God.”
Time and time again in the Bible we hear the words “everything is possible for God”, “anything is possible for God”, and “all things are possible for God.” But understand there are things that God won’t do. A woman approached her pastor and told him that she wanted him to pray that her daughter wouldn’t move in with her boyfriend like she was planning. The pastor refused. Why? Think about it. God doesn’t force his will on us so why would he force our will on others? The better prayer might be that the daughter would seek God and embrace His salvation. If we have a loved one in the Armed Forces and pray that they are not sent into battle does that mean that someone else might be placed in danger because our husband, son or brother isn’t there?
But God has the power to answer all our prayers, and we need to pray believing that He will answer those prayers, but understanding that if He doesn’t it’s not because he can’t and it’s not because he doesn’t want the best for us, but we may have a different idea then God of what is best for us. Sometimes we are like little kids and we want it all, but all isn’t what we need.
So he prayed to His Father, believing that His Father had the power to answer his prayer and then Mark 14:36“Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
3) He Prayed For Himself You ever catch yourself praying for something for you and feel guilty? It’s like somewhere along the line we have been told that we should only pray for others. If we pray for ourselves then we are selfish.
That’s wrong. When we pray the Lord’s Prayer, that would be the one that Jesus gave the disciples, we pray that God would give us our daily bread, that God would forgive us, that God would keep us from temptation.
A few years ago there was a bestselling book out called the Prayer of Jabez and it looked at an obscure Old Testament Prayer that is recorded in 1 Chronicles 4:10, do you remember what he prayed? 1 Chronicles 4:10 He was the one who prayed to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and expand my territory! Please be with me in all that I do, and keep me from all trouble and pain!”
A fairly selfish sounding prayer but listen to the result, And God granted him his request.
Jesus said this about the Father Matthew 7:9-11 “You parents—if your children ask for a loaf of bread, do you give them a stone instead? Or if they ask for a fish, do you give them a snake? Of course not! So if you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him.
Oh sometimes when we pray for ourselves we are praying for selfish things. You can’t deny that, but for the most part it’s not wrong to ask God to be with us and to take care of us and to provide for us. And He wants to do that, but you need to trust his judgement. And here is the kicker. It’s easy to pray to God our Father, and it’s easy to acknowledge his power, and it’s easy to ask Him to take care of us. It’s tough to surrender to His will.
Mark 14:36“Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
4) He Prayed For God’s Will American Poet Richard Cecil made this comment “The history of all the great characters of the Bible is summed up in this one sentence: They acquainted themselves with God, and accepted His will in all things.”
Think about it, the only thing anyone in the bible got by insisting on doing their will instead of God’s was trouble. Time and time again it is proved that God is smarter then we are.
If you are like me, and like most people, at some point in your Christian life you have made a decision that you knew was not what God wanted you to do, so how did that work out for you?
Think about it on one hand we have God, the creator of the universe, this is the God who cast the milk way into space, who imagined platypuses and created you. On the other hand we have us, most of whom can’t even figure out how to change the digital clock in our cars. Which isn’t really a problem because it’s right for half the year.
It’s no contest, and yet time and time again we want to pray to God, “Yet I want my will, not yours.”
When Noah chose God’s will he was able to build an ark that saved him and his family, when Joseph chose God’s will he was able to save his family from starvation. When Moses chose God’s will he was able to deliver his people out of the slavery of Egypt. When Gideon chose God’s will he was able to save the Israelites from the Midianites. When David Chose God’s will he was able to defeat the giant.
And yet when Saul chose his will over God’s he lost his throne, when Samson chose to ignore God’s will he lost his life, when Sarah and Abraham chose their will over God’s, let’s stop and reflect here on the consequences of disobedience, and doing it our own way.
God promised to make Abraham the father of a great nation, and yet Abraham couldn’t seem to have a child with his wife Sarah. So Sarah decided to take matters into her own hands and set her husband up with her maid a gal named Hagar who became pregnant with a son. The boys name was Ishmael, and this is what the Bible predicted about Ishmael Genesis 16:12 This son of yours will be a wild man, as untamed as a wild donkey! He will raise his fist against everyone, and everyone will be against him. Yes, he will live in open hostility against all his relatives.”
Later Sarah and Abraham had a son named Isaac who would eventually have a son named Jacob who would eventually be called Israel. And the descendents of Israel are the people we call the Jews. We know that. It was from Jacob’s descendants that a young lady named Mary was born, who would go on to be the mother of Jesus.
But what about Ishmael? Well his descendents lived in that same area and more than 2,500 years after his birth was born a descendent of Ishmael’s was born, and this parents named him Mohammed, and almost 1,500 years after that another descendent of Ishmael’s was born and his name was Osoma Bin Ladin and the rest as they say is history.
What would have happened had Abraham and Sarah taken God at his word, if their prayer had of been “not my will but yours be done.”? Just asking. What were the consequences of two people not trusting God’s will 4000 years ago?
Now you might be asking, how will I know the will of God? Good question. Paul Little says this “Has it ever struck you that the vast majority of the will of God for your life has already been revealed in the Bible? That is a crucial thing to grasp.”
But you will never know what’s in the Bible if you don’t read the Bible.
What is your prayer today? God has only your best in mind, are you willing to trust him?
