How The Holy Spirit Helps Us Exhibit Wise Diplomacy
(Acts 26:1-28)
1. The Holy Spirit teaches us how to exhibit diplomacy in our dealings with people just as He led Paul before King Agrippa.
Illustration;D.L. Moody had a keen memory for names and faces. If one of his children was missing from Sunday school, he knew it, and he would do everything possible to find out why. One day he saw an absentee coming down the street, so he took off after her. She ran down the sidewalk, across the street, and through an alley into a saloon, up the stairs to a back apartment, into the bedroom, and then dived under the bed. Moody went after her, and just as he was claiming his prize, the mother showed up. Panting from the exertion, Moody simply explained, "I’m Moody," He said that he had missed the girl and would be happy if all the family could come to the services. Within a few weeks he had every child in the family in his school.
W. Wiersbe, The Wycliffe Handbook of Preaching
Paul, the apostle used tact, discretion and the skill of a diplomat to persuasively present His case before King Agrippa. Paul said, "King Agrippa, I consider myself fortunate to stand before you today as I make my defense against all the accusations of the Jews... I beg you to listen to me patiently." (Acts 26:2,3) Ask the Lord to give you excellent diplomatic skills in dealing with people inside and outside of your organization for God’s glory.
2. The Holy Spirit gave Paul great prudence in the content, delivery and organization of his presentation.
Ask the Lord to give you meaningful substance, persuasive delivery and a well-organized plan to present.
3. The Holy Spirit enabled Paul to show coolness under pressure. Dr. Luke wrote, "At this point Festus interrupted Paul’s defense. ‘You are out of your mind Paul! Your great learning is driving you insane.’ I am not insane, most excellent Festus. What I am saying is true and reasonable." (Acts 26:24,25)
Ask the Lord to help you maintain your emotional, mental and spiritual cool when criticized.
4. The Holy Spirit teaches us how to show respect to people without having to lose our dignity or integrity. Paul spoke in a complimentary fashion to the King.
The great apostle showed respect for the King’s position without compromising his integrity, dignity or spiritual standing.
5. The Holy Spirit gave Paul great humility in speaking to the King without lacking any confidence. Ask the Lord to give you a genuine sense of humility as you speak the word of truth with great authority.
6. The Holy Spirit showed Paul how to use questions to bring home his main point while maintaining a diplomatic manner. Paul asked, "King Agrippa, do you believe the prophets? I know you do." (Acts 26:27)
Ask the Lord to show you how to use informational, analytical, reflective, and application questions.
7. The Holy Spirit brought the necessary facts to Paul’s mind just when he needed them. Paul spoke with a well-researched knowledge of the King’s culture, worldview and principle concerns.
Ask the Lord to help you recall essential facts that are more relevant to the people you are addressing.
8. The Holy Spirit showed Paul how to use the art and science of good communication theory. Paul used the art and science of dialogue in his presentation when he recalled, "Then I ask, Who are you Lord and what do you want me to do? Crucial questions throughout Paul’s presentation show brilliant timing to help bring emphasis to the most important truths.
Ask the Lord to help you use both the art and science of good communication theory in your negotiations.
9. The Holy Spirit instructed Paul in how to use his Jewish heritage as a powerful testimony to God’s transforming power. Paul used his Jewish heritage as a significant reason for bringing groups as well as personal redemption to all peoples for the mutual benefit of all nations.
Ask the Lord to help you bring together individual and group concerns in your diplomatic discussions.
10. The Holy Spirit granted Paul the grace to publicly admit his weaknesses, mistakes and wrong perceptions. Paul confessed his great mistakes and sins before King Agrippa to show how Christ rescued him from his own self-destructive behavior.
Ask the Lord to allow you to use self-deprecating language to break down some barriers of resistance in people’s minds.
11. The Holy Spirit delivered Paul with the use of convincing words. Paul used powerful key words in his persuasive speech to King Agrippa. Paul said, "I am CONVINCED that none of this has escaped the King’s notice, because it was not done in a corner." Ask the Lord to help you select your words carefully.
12. The Holy Spirit helped Paul delivered a message that was emotionally, spiritually, mentally and culturally balanced.
Ask God to help you speak in a holistic manner that takes many factors into account.
13. The Holy Spirit gave Paul the transparency to admit his previous obsessions. Paul admits to exchanging his obsessions for killing Christians with his love for the Lord and His will.
Ask the Lord to help you speak in a way that you are open with your motivations for your service.
14. The Holy Spirit helped Paul use his past accomplishments as a means of establishing credibility. Paul used his past accomplishments as a bridge of credibility to an audience unfamiliar with his history. Ask the Lord to help you establish a rapport, credibility and trust with the people you are negotiating with.
15. The Holy Spirit allowed Paul to leave a legacy of diplomacy for all people to learn from. Paul left a record of how to approach men of authority with tact, respect and statesmanship. Even King Agrippa said, "This man is not doing anything that deserves death or imprisonment." (Acts 26:31)
Ask the Lord to help you leave a rich legacy of showing cool diplomatic skills in all of your relationships and ministries.
Conclusion:As Abraham Lincoln prepared to sign the Emancipation Proclamation, he took his pen, moved it to the signature line, paused for a moment, and then dropped the pen. When asked why, the president replied, "If my name goes into history, it will be for this act, and if my hand trembles when I sign it, there will be some who will say, ’he hesitated.’" Lincoln then turned to the table, took up the pen, and boldly signed his name.
Today in the Word, July, 1990, p. 8.
Be wise, be determined and be led by the Spirit of God till the end.