Summary: We know how we out to dress, the tone our voices should take, and all the other Christian trappings that we bring to our public worship, BUT... who are we when no one is looking?

Daniel 1:1-17

In the third year of the reign of Jehoiakim king of Judah came Nebuchadnezzar king

of Babylon unto Jerusalem, and besieged it. 2 And the Lord gave Jehoiakim king of

Judah into his hand, with part of the vessels of the house of God: which he carried into

the land of Shinar to the house of his god; and he brought the vessels into the

treasure house of his god. 3 And the king spake unto Ashpenaz the master of his

eunuchs, that he should bring certain of the children of Israel, and of the king’s seed,

and of the princes; 4 Children in whom was no blemish, but well favoured, and skilful

in all wisdom, and cunning in knowledge, and understanding science, and such as

had ability in them to stand in the king’s palace, and whom they might teach the

learning and the tongue of the Chaldeans. 5 And the king appointed them a daily

provision of the king’s meat, and of the wine which he drank: so nourishing them

three years, that at the end thereof they might stand before the king. 6 Now among

these were of the children of Judah, Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah: 7 Unto

whom the prince of the eunuchs gave names: for he gave unto Daniel the name of

Belteshazzar; and to Hananiah, of Shadrach; and to Mishael, of Meshach; and to

Azariah, of Abednego. 8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile

himself with the portion of the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank:

therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. 9

Now God had brought Daniel into favour and tender love with the prince of the

eunuchs. 10 And the prince of the eunuchs said unto Daniel, I fear my lord the king,

who hath appointed your meat and your drink: for why should he see your faces worse

liking than the children which are of your sort? then shall ye make me endanger my

head to the king. 11 Then said Daniel to Melzar, whom the prince of the eunuchs had

set over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 Prove thy servants, I beseech

thee, ten days; and let them give us pulse to eat, and water to drink. 13 Then let our

countenances be looked upon before thee, and the countenance of the children that eat

of the portion of the king’s meat: and as thou seest, deal with thy servants. 14 So he

consented to them in this matter, and proved them ten days. 15 And at the end of ten

days their countenances appeared fairer and fatter in flesh than all the children which

did eat the portion of the king’s meat. 16 Thus Melzar took away the portion of

their meat, and the wine that they should drink; and gave them pulse. 17 As for these

four children, God gave them knowledge and skill in all learning and wisdom: and

Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams.

Introduction:

Today's message is where the rubber meets the road in the Christian life. Most of us

know how to put our Sunday faces on. We know how we out to dress, the tone our voices

should take, and all the other Christian trappings that we bring to our public worship. The

key is... who are you when no one is looking? If you have trusted Jesus as your personal

Savior, you owe it to Him to live for Him. Most everyone seems like a good person at

first glance. Some of you children and teen agers brought up in a Christian home have

good manners in public... you have not been involved in the sins that your peers have

been, because your loving parents have set limits. But... who will you be when no one is

looking? Who will you be behind closed doors?

Today we will see that there was a teenager who had to face this question in a very

real way. Today we can learn from a young man who knew how to stand up for what is

right... even when no one is looking.

I. There Will Be Times When No One Is Looking.

Daniel 1:3-4

3 And the king spake unto Ashpenaz the master of his eunuchs, that he should bring

certain of the children of Israel, and of the king’s seed, and of the princes; 4 Children

in whom was no blemish, but well favoured, and skilful in all wisdom, and cunning in

knowledge, and understanding science, and such as had ability in them to stand in the

king’s palace, and whom they might teach the learning and the tongue of the

Chaldeans.

The people of Judah were under siege. Nebuchadnezzar, king of Babylon had them

in his mighty grasp. God was judging the nation for its transgressions by allowing this

captivity. The first thing that Nebuchadnezzar did was to round up the gifted

young men of Israel, kidnapping them from their families and friends, and taking them off

to a strange, pagan, foreign land. Daniel was one of these young men that were carried

off.

Daniel was raised to fear the God of Israel. He knew the law. He dared not rebel

against the teachings of his parents or the temple priests. With one day this all changed.

He was taken from the watchful eyes of his parents. They were pretty strict. Even though

he was in captivity, surely his pagan captors would allow Daniel to do some things that his

faithful Godly parents would not. He was removed from the supervision of the temple

priests. They were always harping about dietary laws that were supposed to make him

stand out from the rest of the world. To live as a Jew... one of God's chosen people, was

to be different. Surely his new Babylonian bosses would not require these things. He

always wondered what it would be like to taste the food that the world ate. Daniel even

had to learn a new language. Surely it would be too difficult to figure out how to

pray. Daniel was removed from everything that he knew. He had no one looking over his

shoulder. He could do what he would regarding his strict religious background... and no

one would bother him. No one was looking.

'Tis the season for change. Some are going to a different school. There are none of

the old friends, no parents, no peers that know that you are Christian. We could say the

same for those who are starting college, moving to a new town, or starting a new job. We

live in a changing world and sometimes we find ourselves away from those that pressure

us to do right. Some of us enjoy going to work day after day, because it gets us our from

under the watchful eyes of our spouse and our children. You can "relax and let your hair

down" with your buddies. In a sense, you are in a place where you feel that no one is

looking. We are living in an age when even in our solitude, we are connected. When you

find yourself alone in the home, no spouse, no kids... what choices do you make with the

radio, the TV, the internet? It is during these times of being alone and without

accountability that we are the most vulnerable. It is for that reason that we should avoid

that situation as much as possible. Once again we find a good reason to continue to meet

together in church, the positive peer pressure that we need.

II. You Must Determine Not To Be Defiled.

Daniel 1:8

8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of

the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the

prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.

You must make the decision to do right before you are in the heat of the moment,

tempted to do wrong. Many times someone ends up in sin because he has made little

dumb decisions all along that lead to his fall. If you do not intend to drink, do not set foot

in a bar. If you do not intend to lose your virginity before marriage, do not go on a date

alone with someone of the opposite sex. Determine in your heart not to be defiled. As

soon as Daniel realized where he was, he made that decision. He could have crossed the

line of purity, and no one would have thought any less of him. He was in a culture that

would accept it. DO NOT DETERMINE WHAT IS RIGHT BASED UPON

CULTURAL NORMS!! Let us not miss the point of this passage. We are not to come

under Old Testament Jewish dietary laws... these have been nailed to the cross. We are

to follow the principle of being undefiled by the world.

Daniel made up his mind not to be defiled. The word "defiled" means to be

"polluted or stained". Daniel was going to remain different from the pagan culture that

had swallowed him. You are surrounded with worldly options for music, videos,

games, dress, talk, and entertainment. When we are surrounded with others who claim to

believe like we do, it is a no brainer... stay away from the world! But, what about when

no one is looking??? You had better make that decision ahead of time.

This decision must be made without trying to pragmatically weigh out the

consequences and ramifications. It is right?? Then stand!! Do not calculate to see if you

will still be able to find a mate, or if you will remain popular, or if you will still have

good standing at work. Take your stand based on God's unchanging truth first!

III. You Must Bring Your Stand Out In The Open.

Daniel 1:8-9

8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of

the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the

prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. 9 Now God had brought Daniel

into favour and tender love with the prince of the eunuchs.

Here is one of the most practical and important points of the passage. Once you have

purposed in your heart to make a stand on an issue of purity... LET THE WORLD

KNOW WHERE YOU STAND!! Once you commit publicly, it is much tougher to

change your mind. Once Daniel made a big deal about his dietary conviction, it would be

hard to ask some of his Babylonian buddies for a piece of bacon!! If you are going public

with this conviction... it has to be personal. I get concerned when a teen makes a stand by

saying " my parents won't let be do so and so". As soon as no one is looking that teen will

test the boundaries and break their parents hearts! My pastor does not allow... My

church does not believe... Get off it!! Get some conviction of your own!! If you do not,

then you will never stand when no one is looking. Once you make your stand, be willing

to be tested.

Daniel 1:10-16

10 And the prince of the eunuchs said unto Daniel, I fear my lord the king, who hath

appointed your meat and your drink: for why should he see your faces worse liking

than the children which are of your sort? then shall ye make me endanger my head to

the king. 11 Then said Daniel to Melzar, whom the prince of the eunuchs had set

over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 Prove thy servants, I beseech thee,

ten days; and let them give us pulse to eat, and water to drink. 13 Then let our

countenances be looked upon before thee, and the countenance of the children that eat

of the portion of the king’s meat: and as thou seest, deal with thy servants. 14 So he

consented to them in this matter, and proved them ten days. 15 And at the end of ten

days their countenances appeared fairer and fatter in flesh than all the children which

did eat the portion of the king’s meat. 16 Thus Melzar took away the portion of their

meat, and the wine that they should drink; and gave them pulse.

The world would make you believe that it is ridiculous and harmful to remain pure

and separate. You will never find a good career if you do not go the state "booze it or lose

it" university. God will bless your decision to be pure! You will never find a mate if you

stick with the local church. You will never have a boyfriend if you stick with your stand

to never touch until your wedding day. Listen! The proof is inn the results!! Daniel stood

his ground. The authorities had their doubts. When they got a look at the effect that God's

standards had on the young men, all were on God's diet!

There will come a time in your week this week that you will be alone. You will

have your choice of music, your choice of entertainment, your choice of peers. You had

better make the decision to stand apart from the rot of the world now. Let others know

about your stand. When it comes right down to it, God will bless your stand, and all will

see that you are a person of integrity when no one is looking.