The Bible warns us about the dangers of making covenants and agreements, whether consciously or unconsciously. These unseen commitments can have a profound impact on our lives, influencing our relationships, thoughts, and emotions.
What are Unconscious Covenants and Agreements?
Unconscious covenants and agreements are commitments or promises made without our knowledge or intentional consent. These can be formed through various means, such as:
- Emotional connections with others
- Soul ties
- Trauma or abuse
- Family patterns and generational curses
- Spiritual influences
Examples of Unconscious Covenants
1. Covenant of Rejection: Made when someone feels rejected or abandoned, leading to feelings of low self-worth (Psalm 27:10, Isaiah 49:15)
2. Covenant of Fear: Formed through traumatic experiences, causing fear and anxiety in relationships (Proverbs 3:24-26, 2 Timothy 1:7)
3. Covenant of Control: Created when someone tries to control or manipulate others, leading to codependency (Proverbs 16:18-19, Galatians 5:26)
4. Covenant of Shame: Made when someone feels guilty or ashamed, often due to past mistakes or abuse (Psalm 34:5, Isaiah 61:7)
5. *Covenant of Bitterness*: Formed when someone holds onto resentment or anger towards others (Hebrews 12:15, Ephesians 4:31-32)
6. Covenant of Unforgiveness: Created when someone refuses to forgive others, leading to spiritual bondage (Matthew 6:14-15, Mark 11:25-26)
7. Covenant of Idolatry: Made when someone prioritizes relationships or things above God (Exodus 20:3-5, Colossians 3:5)
8. Covenant of Pride: Formed when someone seeks validation or self-worth through external means (Proverbs 16:18, James 4:6)
9. Covenant of Lust: Created through unhealthy desires or fantasies, leading to spiritual impurity (Matthew 5:27-28, 1 Thessalonians 4:7)
10. Covenant of Death: Made when someone is involved in activities that lead to spiritual death (Romans 6:23, 1 John 5:16-17)
Examples of Unconscious Agreements
1. Agreement to Perform: Made when someone feels they must earn love or acceptance (Matthew 20:1-16, Romans 3:20-24)
2. Agreement to Suffer: Formed when someone believes they deserve punishment or pain (Psalm 103:10, Romans 8:1)
3. Agreement to be Controlled: Created when someone allows others to dominate or manipulate them (Galatians 5:1, 1 Corinthians 7:23)
4. Agreement to Fear Abandonment: Made when someone fears being abandoned or rejected (Deuteronomy 31:6, Hebrews 13:5-6)
5. Agreement to be Ashamed: Formed when someone feels guilty or ashamed of their identity (Psalm 34:5, 2 Corinthians 1:5-7)
6. Agreement to be a Victim: Created when someone sees themselves as a victim rather than a victor (Romans 8:28-30, 2 Corinthians 2:14)
7. Agreement to be Isolated: Made when someone isolates themselves from others (Genesis 2:18, Hebrews 10:24-25)
8. Agreement to be Hyper-Independent: Formed when someone refuses to depend on others (Proverbs 3:5-6, 2 Corinthians 3:5-6)
9. Agreement to be a People-Pleaser: Created when someone prioritizes others' needs over their own (Galatians 1:10, 1 Thessalonians 2:4)
10. Agreement to be Unlovable: Made when someone believes they are unworthy of love (Psalm 139:13-16, Romans 8:38-39)
Dangers of Not Renouncing Unconscious Covenants and Agreements
If left unaddressed, these unconscious covenants and agreements can lead to:
- Spiritual bondage and strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:3-5, Ephesians 6:12)
- Unhealthy relationships and patterns (Proverbs 22:24-25, 1 Corinthians 15:33)
- Emotional and mental struggles (Psalm 42:5, 2 Corinthians 1:8-10)
- Physical health issues (Psalm 38:3-8, 1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
- Spiritual dryness and disconnection from God (Isaiah 59:1-2, Matthew 13:22)
Prayer to Renounce Unconscious Covenants and Agreements
Heavenly Father, I come to You in the name of Jesus Christ. I recognize that I have made unconscious covenants and agreements that have led to spiritual bondage and strongholds. I renounce and break these covenants and agreements, and I ask that You would set me free.
I forgive myself and others for any involvement in these covenants and agreements. I choose to forgive and release any bitterness, resentment, or anger. I ask that You would heal my emotions, mind, and body from the effects of these covenants and agreements.
I declare that I am a child of God, loved and accepted by Him. I am free to live a life of purpose, joy, and peace. I choose to walk in this freedom, and I will not be bound by the chains of unconscious covenants and agreements
In Jesus' name, I pray, Amen.
Steps to Freedom
1. Recognize and acknowledge the unconscious covenants and agreements.
2. Renounce and break the covenants and agreements.
3. Forgive yourself and others.
4. Declare your freedom in Christ.
5. Walk in the freedom and purpose that God has for you.
