JESUS THE BRIDEGROOM
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
Main Text: Ephesians 5:25-27
Key Verse:
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.” – Ephesians 5:25–27
Supporting Texts: John 3:29; Revelation 19:7-9; 2 Corinthians 11:2; Song of Solomon 2:16
Description:
INTRODUCTION:
The title “Jesus the Bridegroom” depicts the intimate and covenantal relationship between Christ and His Church. Just as a bridegroom cherishes his bride, Jesus loves His Church with sacrificial devotion, seeking her holiness, beauty, and readiness for union. This metaphor communicates divine love, commitment, and the ultimate goal of eternal fellowship with God.
In today’s world, many believers misunderstand the depth of God’s covenantal love. They may approach Him casually, unaware that Jesus’ desire is for a deep, sanctifying, and transforming relationship. Recognizing Him as the Bridegroom motivates believers to pursue holiness, obedience, and intimacy with Christ.
Understanding Jesus as the Bridegroom also reminds the Church of its calling to be faithful, prepared, and expectant. As a Bride anticipates the return of her Groom, so must believers cultivate lives of devotion, spiritual readiness, and covenant loyalty.
1. JESUS’ LOVE FOR THE CHURCH IS SACRIFICIAL
Christ’s love mirrors the selfless devotion of a perfect Bridegroom, giving Himself fully for the Church’s redemption.
a) Giving Himself for the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Jesus demonstrated ultimate love through His death on the cross, ensuring salvation and reconciliation.
b) Enduring suffering for our sake (Isaiah 53:4-5). He bore our pains, sins, and shame so that we could be restored to fellowship with God.
c) Exemplifying servant leadership (Philippians 2:5-8). His love models humility, obedience, and sacrificial care for all believers.
d) Love that transforms lives (Romans 5:8). Christ’s selfless love initiates change in hearts, minds, and character.
Biblical Example:
Christ’s sacrifice on the cross (John 19:16-30) exemplifies His covenant love, securing redemption and eternal union with His Church.
2. JESUS SEEKS TO SANCTIFY AND PURIFY HIS CHURCH
The Bridegroom desires a holy and spotless Bride, removing sin and blemishes through the Word and Spirit.
a) Sanctification through the Word (John 17:17). The truth of God’s Word cleanses and sets believers apart for divine purposes.
b) Purity of heart and life (1 Peter 1:15-16). Jesus calls the Church to live holy, righteous, and pleasing lives.
c) Spiritual growth through discipline (Hebrews 12:10-11). God’s refining process produces maturity, endurance, and beauty in the Church.
d) Eternal preparation for union (Revelation 21:2). The Bride is being readied for intimate fellowship with Christ in eternity.
Biblical Example:
The Church in Ephesus, exhorted to holiness (Ephesians 5:25-27), reflects Christ’s desire for a sanctified and glorified Bride.
3. JESUS’ COVENANT LOVE IS FAITHFUL AND UNENDING
Christ remains devoted to the Church despite failures, embodying divine faithfulness.
a) Love that never abandons (Romans 8:38-39). Nothing can separate the Church from Christ’s steadfast love.
b) Commitment through trials (Psalm 136:1-26). God’s covenant love persists despite difficulties and rebellion.
c) Assurance of eternal union (John 14:2-3). Christ guarantees the Church’s future home and reunion with Him.
d) Motivating steadfast devotion (2 Corinthians 11:2). The Church is called to remain faithful, reflecting gratitude for His unchanging love.
Biblical Example:
Hosea’s marriage to Gomer mirrors God’s unwavering commitment to His people despite their waywardness (Hosea 2:19-20).
4. JESUS’ BRIDAL RELATIONSHIP CALLS FOR RESPONSE
Believers are called to reflect the love, faithfulness, and holiness expected of Christ’s Bride.
a) Cultivating intimacy with Christ (Revelation 3:20)
Responding to His call nurtures fellowship and spiritual intimacy.
b) Living a holy and obedient life (1 Thessalonians 4:3-7)
The Bride prepares herself through sanctification and moral integrity.
c) Expectancy for His return (Matthew 25:1-13)
Preparedness honors the Bridegroom and ensures readiness for His coming.
d) Extending love to others (John 13:34-35)
Reflecting Christ’s love to others demonstrates the authenticity of the Bride.
Biblical Example:
The Parable of the Ten Virgins (Matthew 25:1-13) illustrates the importance of preparation, vigilance, and readiness for the Bridegroom’s arrival.
CONCLUSION:
Jesus, the Bridegroom, embodies covenantal love, sacrificial devotion, and faithfulness toward His Church. His desire is to present a holy, pure, and glorious Bride before the Father. Understanding this calls believers to pursue holiness, intimate fellowship, and unwavering commitment.
As the Church, we must respond with love, obedience, and readiness, ensuring our lives reflect the Bridegroom’s standards. By doing so, we glorify Christ, demonstrate faithfulness, and participate in His eternal purposes.
PRAYER POINTS:
1. Lord, help me to recognize Your covenantal love and respond with devotion.
2. Father, sanctify me and cleanse me from all sin and blemish.
3. Lord, give me a heart of love, reflecting Your compassion and mercy.
4. Father, empower me to remain faithful in trials and challenges.
5. Lord, help me cultivate intimacy with You daily.
6. Father, prepare me to be a holy and ready Bride for Your coming.
7. Lord, fill me with Your Spirit to live a life pleasing unto You.
8. Father, strengthen my commitment to obedience and righteousness.
9. Lord, let my life draw others to Your covenant love.
10. Father, prepare me to celebrate the eternal union with Christ in glory.
