LIVING A LIFE OF SELF-CONTROL
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
Main Text: Titus 2:11-12
Supporting Texts: Galatians 5:22-23, 1 Corinthians 9:24-27, Proverbs 25:28, 2 Peter 1:5-7, Romans 8:13
INTRODUCTION:
Self-control is one of the most vital virtues for every believer who desires to live a victorious Christian life. It is the ability to restrain oneself from sinful desires, harmful habits, and impulsive reactions. In a world where temptations are abundant and discipline is rare, self-control becomes a distinguishing mark of spiritual maturity.
The grace of God not only saves us but also teaches us to deny ungodliness and live soberly in this present world. The presence of the Holy Spirit within us empowers us to develop self-control as part of the fruit of the Spirit. A lack of self-control leads to spiritual vulnerability, moral failure, and unfulfilled destiny.
In this sermon, we will explore what it means to live a life of self-control, the spiritual disciplines that cultivate it, and the eternal rewards it brings.
1. UNDERSTAND THE CALL TO SELF-CONTROL
God expects every believer to live a disciplined life that reflects His holiness and order.
a) Titus 2:11-12 – Grace Teaches Us to Live Soberly
The grace of God doesn't permit recklessness but calls us to self-discipline.
b) Galatians 5:23 – Self-Control Is a Fruit of the Spirit
A Spirit-filled life produces self-control as evidence of maturity.
c) Proverbs 25:28 – Lack of Self-Control Makes One Vulnerable
Without restraint, you are like a city with broken walls—defenceless and exposed.
d) 1 Peter 5:8 – Be Sober and Vigilant
Self-control helps you remain alert to the enemy’s tactics.
Biblical Example: Joseph resisted Potiphar’s wife and fled from sin because he valued integrity above pleasure (Genesis 39:7–12).
2. DISCIPLINE YOUR BODY AND DESIRES
Self-control begins with the intentional training of your flesh to obey spiritual values.
a) 1 Corinthians 9:27 – Paul Brought His Body Under Subjection
Discipline keeps the body in check and the spirit in control.
b) Romans 8:13 – By the Spirit, Put to Death the Deeds of the Flesh
Rely on the Holy Spirit to conquer carnal desires.
c) Colossians 3:5 – Mortify Earthly Members
Starve sinful tendencies by refusing to feed them.
d) Proverbs 16:32 – Ruling Your Spirit Is Better Than Capturing a City
Real power is seen in mastering yourself, not just your surroundings.
Biblical Example: Daniel purposed in his heart not to defile himself with the king’s food (Daniel 1:8).
3. PRACTICE SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES DAILY
A self-controlled life is developed through consistent spiritual habits.
a) 2 Peter 1:5-6 – Add Self-Control to Your Faith
Growth in godliness involves deliberate progress in discipline.
b) 1 Thessalonians 5:17 – Pray Without Ceasing
Constant prayer strengthens the spirit and weakens the flesh.
c) Psalm 119:11 – Hide God’s Word in Your Heart
The Word of God becomes a restraint against sin.
d) Matthew 6:16 – Fasting Teaches the Body to Submit
Fasting is a tool for humbling the flesh and exalting the spirit.
Biblical Example: Jesus overcame temptation in the wilderness through prayer, fasting, and the Word (Matthew 4:1-11).
4. SET BOUNDARIES AND GUARD YOUR INFLUENCES
Living with self-control requires wisdom in your associations and habits.
a) 1 Corinthians 15:33 – Evil Company Corrupts Good Habits
Your associations shape your ability to maintain control.
b) Psalm 101:3 – Set No Wicked Thing Before Your Eyes
Be cautious of what you consume through media and entertainment.
c) Ephesians 5:15 – Walk Circumspectly, Not as Fools
Live with caution, considering the spiritual impact of every decision.
d) Philippians 4:8 – Think on Things That Are Pure and Lovely
Feed your mind with what uplifts and honours God.
Biblical Example: Nehemiah refused distractions and stayed focused on rebuilding Jerusalem despite opposition (Nehemiah 6:1–4).
CONCLUSION:
Self-control is not an option but a necessity for every believer who desires to live a godly and fruitful life. It empowers us to say no to sin, to remain steady in trials, and to walk in the Spirit. Without it, even the most anointed individual can fall into disgrace and defeat.
Though developing self-control is challenging, it is achievable through grace, discipline, and daily dependence on the Holy Spirit. As you commit to walking in self-control, you will experience greater spiritual authority, personal peace, and fulfilment of destiny.
PRAYER POINTS:
1. Lord, teach me to walk in self-control through the power of Your Spirit.
2. Father, help me to discipline my body and bring it into subjection.
3. Deliver me from every habit and desire that wars against my soul.
4. Fill me with grace to practise daily spiritual disciplines.
5. Guard my heart and mind from every corrupt influence.
