FATHERHOOD: A DIVINE CALLING AND A LASTING LEGACY (FATHER'S DAY)
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
Main Text: Ephesians 6:1-4
Supporting Texts: Genesis 18:17–19, Malachi 4:5–6, Proverbs 20:7, Psalm 103:13, Luke 15:11–24
INTRODUCTION:
Fatherhood is not just a biological role—it is a spiritual mandate from God. In every generation, God raises men who will stand as fathers—providers, protectors, leaders, and mentors. Fathers are entrusted with the responsibility of shaping lives and preserving generational destinies. As we honour fathers today, we acknowledge their labour, love, and legacy in our homes and society.
A godly father does more than give instructions—he leads by example. His actions model faith, discipline, sacrifice, and unconditional love. The Bible describes the father as the spiritual head of the home, a teacher of truth, and a channel through which blessings flow. The health of a nation, a church, or a home is deeply connected to the strength and wisdom of its fathers.
However, our world is witnessing a crisis of fatherhood—homes are breaking, children are growing up without direction, and society is suffering the consequences. The call today is for fathers to return to their God-given assignment with renewed passion and purpose. Let us explore the role, responsibility, and reward of godly fatherhood.
1. FATHERS ARE SPIRITUAL LEADERS AND VISIONARIES
a) They provide spiritual direction (Joshua 24:15)
Every godly father must declare, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
b) They teach God’s commandments diligently (Deuteronomy 6:6–7)
Fathers are called to train their children in the way of the Lord.
c) They model a life of integrity (Proverbs 20:7)
Children watch and imitate the lifestyle of their fathers more than their words.
d) They intercede and stand in the gap (Job 1:5)
Fathers have a priestly role in praying and covering their homes.
e) Biblical Example: Abraham was chosen by God to direct his children after Him (Genesis 18:19).
2. FATHERS REFLECT THE COMPASSIONATE NATURE OF GOD
a) They show mercy and understanding (Psalm 103:13)
Just as God shows compassion, fathers are to be tender-hearted.
b) They provide emotional security (Colossians 3:21)
A father's affirmation helps shape a child’s confidence and self-worth.
c) They discipline in love, not anger (Ephesians 6:4)
Fathers are to correct without provoking their children to resentment.
d) They pursue reconciliation and forgiveness (Luke 15:20)
A true father’s heart longs to restore, not reject.
e) Biblical Example: The father of the prodigal son showed unmatched grace and acceptance (Luke 15:11–24).
3. FATHERS ARE CARRIERS OF GENERATIONAL BLESSINGS
a) They pass down spiritual heritage (2 Timothy 1:5)
A father's faith becomes a legacy passed to generations.
b) They establish generational covenants (Genesis 17:7)
God’s blessings often flow through the covenant of fathers.
c) They speak destiny-shaping words (Genesis 49:1–28)
A father’s words carry prophetic weight and direction.
d) They prepare their children for greatness (Proverbs 13:22)
A good father leaves an inheritance of wisdom, faith, and purpose.
e) Biblical Example: Isaac received the blessing of Abraham, and passed it to Jacob, shaping Israel's destiny (Genesis 26:1–5).
4. FATHERS DESERVE HONOUR, SUPPORT, AND ENCOURAGEMENT
a) Honouring fathers brings divine blessing (Ephesians 6:2–3)
When we honour fathers, we attract long life and favour.
b) Fathers need encouragement in a challenging world (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Fathers face daily pressures and need appreciation and prayer.
c) They deserve our respect and cooperation (Hebrews 13:17)
Supporting a father's leadership brings harmony in the home.
d) Their role must be reinforced, not ridiculed (Malachi 4:6)
A society that dishonours fathers will suffer broken foundations.
e) Biblical Example: Joseph, though not Jesus’ biological father, fulfilled his role with faithfulness and honour (Matthew 1:18–25).
CONCLUSION:
Fatherhood is a divine institution established by God for the blessing and stability of humanity. When fathers take their rightful place, homes are healed, communities are built, and generations are secured. Today, we celebrate not just the biological aspect of fatherhood, but the spiritual and moral responsibility that comes with it.
To all fathers—biological, spiritual, and father figures—your role is irreplaceable. Rise and lead with wisdom. Love with compassion. Guide with truth. You are God's representative in your home. May the Lord empower you to fulfil your purpose and reward you abundantly.
PRAYER POINTS:
1. Father, raise godly fathers who will lead with truth and integrity.
2. Lord, heal every father wounded emotionally or spiritually.
3. Strengthen every father to stand as a priest and prophet over his home.
4. Restore honour to fathers in our generation.
5. Let every broken father-child relationship be mended.
6. Empower single mothers standing in fatherly roles.
7. Let the mantle of spiritual leadership fall upon fathers.
8. Silence every voice attacking fatherhood.
9. Bless every faithful father with peace and prosperity.
10. Let the legacy of righteousness flow through our fathers.
