DEVELOPING A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER
By Rev. Samuel Arimoro
Main Text: Ephesians 4:13-15
Supporting Texts: Romans 8:29, Galatians 5:22-23, 2 Peter 1:5-8, Colossians 3:12-14, Philippians 2:5
INTRODUCTION:
The ultimate goal of every believer is not merely to attend church or perform religious duties, but to become more like Jesus in character, conduct, and lifestyle. Christlikeness is God's purpose for every Christian, as stated in Romans 8:29, where we are predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son. This transformation into Christlike character is not automatic but a daily process that involves intentional submission to God’s Word and the leading of the Holy Spirit.
As believers grow in the faith, spiritual maturity must become evident in how we relate with others, respond to challenges, and walk in obedience. Christlike character is what separates mature Christians from immature ones. It is not only about what we profess, but how we live out our faith through humility, love, kindness, integrity, and a deep desire to please God in all things.
Today’s teaching challenges us to actively pursue spiritual growth and maturity until the very nature of Christ is formed in us. This is the essence of our calling as Christians—to become like Christ in all things.
1. A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER IS ROOTED IN SPIRITUAL MATURITY
a) Maturity involves growing in faith and knowledge (Ephesians 4:13): We must move beyond the basics of faith into deeper understanding of God's Word and character.
b) Immaturity results in instability (Ephesians 4:14): Without spiritual growth, believers are easily deceived and tossed about by false doctrines.
c) Maturity leads to discernment and stability (Hebrews 5:14): A mature believer can discern right from wrong and remains grounded in truth.
d) Maturity reflects the full measure of Christ (Colossians 1:28): We are called to grow into the fullness of Christ, showing His nature in every aspect of our lives.
Biblical Example: The Apostle Paul matured in faith and character, moving from persecutor to one who laid down his life for the Gospel (Philippians 3:12-14).
2. A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER MANIFESTS THROUGH LOVE
a) Love is the foundation of Christlike behaviour (John 13:34-35): Jesus taught that love is the distinguishing mark of His followers.
b) Love covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8): Genuine love overlooks offences and promotes peace.
c) Love seeks the welfare of others above self (Philippians 2:3-4): Christlike love is sacrificial and others-centred.
d) Love unites and strengthens the body of Christ (Colossians 3:14): Love binds everything together in perfect unity.
Biblical Example: The Good Samaritan showed Christlike love by caring for a stranger in need (Luke 10:33-37).
3. A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER IS EVIDENT IN THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT
a) The fruit of the Spirit reflects Christ's nature (Galatians 5:22-23): These virtues—love, joy, peace, patience, etc.—show the inner work of the Spirit.
b) It is cultivated through daily fellowship with God (John 15:4-5): Staying connected to Christ produces fruitfulness in character.
c) The flesh must be crucified to bear fruit (Galatians 5:24): Christlike character grows when we put the old nature to death.
d) The fruit of the Spirit benefits others and glorifies God (Matthew 5:16): Our good character draws others to God and blesses those around us.
Biblical Example: Barnabas, known as the “son of encouragement,” was full of the Holy Spirit and exhibited the fruit of godly character (Acts 11:24).
4. A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER IS FORGED IN HUMILITY AND OBEDIENCE
a) Christ humbled Himself to serve others (Philippians 2:5-7): True greatness is shown in our willingness to serve.
b) Obedience to God is the foundation of character (1 Samuel 15:22): God honours obedience more than outward sacrifices.
c) Pride must be dealt with for character to grow (James 4:6): Humility attracts God's grace, while pride repels His help.
d) Suffering and trials help build Christlike obedience (Hebrews 5:8): Through challenges, we learn to submit fully to God’s will.
Biblical Example: Jesus in Gethsemane submitted to God’s will even when it was difficult (Luke 22:42).
5. A CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER MUST BE CONTINUALLY DEVELOPED
a) Character growth is a lifelong process (2 Peter 1:5-8): We are called to add virtue upon virtue as we grow in Christ.
b) The Word of God transforms our character (Romans 12:2): Daily renewal of the mind shapes us into Christ’s likeness.
c) Accountability helps maintain godly character (Proverbs 27:17): Fellowship with mature believers keeps us sharp and focused.
d) The Holy Spirit empowers us to develop Christlike traits (John 14:26): We cannot grow alone; we need the Spirit’s help.
Biblical Example: Timothy, though young, developed godly character through Paul’s mentorship and the Word (1 Timothy 4:12).
CONCLUSION:
Developing a Christlike character is essential to living a life that pleases God and influences the world. It is not just about what we do in public, but who we are in private. Christlikeness involves growing in maturity, walking in love, bearing spiritual fruit, and living with humility and obedience.
Let us commit ourselves afresh to this lifelong journey. As we draw closer to Jesus, may His character be seen in us more clearly. The world needs to see Jesus, and they will see Him through the character of those who truly follow Him.
PRAYER POINTS:
1. Lord, transform me daily into the image of Christ.
2. Help me to grow in spiritual maturity and wisdom.
3. Teach me to walk in love and humility always.
4. Let the fruit of the Spirit be evident in my life.
5. Deliver me from pride and every character flaw.
6. Fill me with grace to obey Your Word completely.
7. Break every habit that hinders Christlikeness in me.
8. Connect me with people who will sharpen my growth.
9. Let my life reflect Jesus in word and deed.
10. Empower me by Your Spirit to live like Christ daily.
