As Christians, we are called to honor and respect our parents, as commanded in the Fifth Commandment (Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2-3). But did you know that loving and honoring your mother can also prepare you to be a good husband? In this sermon, we'll explore the biblical connection between honoring your mother and being a loving and faithful husband.
The Example of Jesus
Jesus Christ, the perfect Son of God, demonstrated His love and respect for His mother, Mary. At the wedding in Cana, Jesus honored His mother's request, even though He initially seemed reluctant (John 2:1-11). This act of obedience and love shows us that Jesus valued His relationship with His mother and was willing to go the extra mile to honor her.
Loving Your Mother Prepares You to Love Your Wife
The Bible teaches that a man who loves and honors his mother is more likely to be a good husband. Here are a few reasons why:
Respect and honor: When a man loves and respects his mother, he learns to appreciate the value of women in his life. This respect and honor can be transferred to his relationship with his wife, creating a strong foundation for a healthy and loving marriage.
Selflessness and sacrifice: Loving your mother requires selflessness and sacrifice. These same qualities are essential for a successful marriage, where husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25-33).
Emotional intelligence: A man who loves his mother tends to develop emotional intelligence, which enables him to understand and empathize with the needs and feelings of his wife.
Biblical Examples of Men Who Honored Their Mothers
The Bible provides several examples of men who honored their mothers and went on to become faithful husbands:
Joseph: Joseph, the son of Jacob, honored his mother, Rachel, and was faithful to his wife, Asenath (Genesis 30:22-24, 41:45, 50:23).
Boaz: Boaz, the kinsman-redeemer of Ruth, honored his mother, Rahab, and became a faithful husband to Ruth (Ruth 2:11, 4:13-22).
Conclusion
Loving and honoring your mother is not only a biblical command, but it also prepares you to be a good husband. By developing respect, selflessness, and emotional intelligence, you'll be better equipped to love and cherish your wife. As you strive to honor your mother, remember that you're also building a strong foundation for a healthy and loving marriage.
