As believers, we are called to love one another with the same love that Christ has shown us (John 13:34-35). However, not everyone who claims to love us truly values us. In this sermon, we'll explore the biblical perspective on true love and how it values the beloved.
The Character of True Love
True love is characterized by selflessness, sacrifice, and a willingness to put the needs of others before one's own (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). When someone truly loves and values us, they will prioritize our well-being, our feelings, and our needs.
A Person Who Loves You Would Never Put Themselves in a Position to Lose You
As the saying goes, "A person who loves you and values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you." This statement is rooted in biblical principles. When someone truly loves us, they will do everything in their power to nurture and protect the relationship.
In 1 Corinthians 13:5, we read, "Love does not seek its own." True love is not self-centered or self-seeking. Rather, it is focused on the well-being and happiness of the beloved.
Consequences of Selfish Love
On the other hand, selfish love can have devastating consequences. When someone prioritizes their own needs and desires above those of their loved one, the relationship can become toxic and damaging.
In Proverbs 15:27, we read, "A greedy person stirs up conflict, but the one who trusts in the Lord will prosper." Selfish love can stir up conflict and damage relationships, while selfless love can bring prosperity and joy.
Biblical Examples of Selfless Love
The Bible provides numerous examples of selfless love, including:
1. Christ's love for humanity: Jesus' sacrifice on the cross is the ultimate example of selfless love (John 3:16).
2. Ruth's love for Naomi: Ruth's decision to leave her own family and culture to care for her mother-in-law, Naomi, is a powerful example of selfless love (Ruth 1:16-17).
3. David's love for Jonathan: David's love for his friend Jonathan is a beautiful example of selfless love, as he prioritized Jonathan's needs and well-being above his own (1 Samuel 18:1-4).
In conclusion, true love values the beloved and prioritizes their well-being and happiness. A person who loves you and values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. As believers, let us strive to demonstrate selfless love in our relationships, following the example of Christ and the biblical heroes who have gone before us.
