The Bible teaches that husbands and fathers have a sacred responsibility to provide for, protect, and nurture their families. However, some husbands and fathers fail to fulfill this responsibility, instead being cold-hearted and neglectful. In this sermon, we'll explore the biblical consequences of cold-hearted husbands and fathers.
The Biblical Warning
In 1 Timothy 5:8, the Bible warns that if a father fails to provide for his family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. This warning is repeated in other passages, such as Matthew 18:6-7, which states that it would be better for someone to have a millstone hung around their neck and be drowned in the sea than to cause one of God's little ones to stumble.
The Consequences of Cold-Heartedness
Cold-hearted husbands and fathers who fail to fulfill their responsibilities will face serious consequences. In Psalm 55:21, the Bible states that the words of a cold-hearted person are smoother than butter, but war is in their heart. This passage emphasizes the danger of cold-heartedness, which can lead to harm and destruction.
The Punishment of God
The Bible teaches that cold-hearted husbands and fathers who refuse to repent and fulfill their responsibilities will be punished by God. In Ezekiel 22:30, God says, "I searched for a man among them who would build up the wall and stand in the gap before Me for the land, so that I would not destroy it; but I found no one." This passage emphasizes God's desire for husbands and fathers to take their responsibilities seriously and to stand in the gap for their families.
The Example of Gehazi
In 2 Kings 5:20-27, the Bible tells the story of Gehazi, the servant of Elisha, who was punished by God for his cold-heartedness and greed. Gehazi's punishment serves as a warning to husbands and fathers who fail to fulfill their responsibilities and instead prioritize their own interests.
The Call to Repentance
Cold-hearted husbands and fathers must repent of their neglect and begin to fulfill their responsibilities. This requires a willingness to change, to prioritize their family's needs, and to seek help and support when needed. The Bible promises that those who repent and turn to God will experience forgiveness, healing, and restoration (1 John 1:9, Psalm 51:10-12).
In conclusion, cold-hearted husbands and fathers who refuse to repent and fulfill their responsibilities will face serious consequences, including punishment by God. The Bible teaches that husbands and fathers have a sacred responsibility to provide for, protect, and nurture their families. Those who fail to fulfill this responsibility must repent and begin to prioritize their family's needs.
