We often think of our homes and friendships as safe havens, free from deception and hidden agendas. However, the truth is that there are hidden people everywhere, even in our closest circles. These People may present themselves as trustworthy and loyal, but beneath the surface, they may be hiding secrets, manipulating situations, or even working against us. In this sermon, we will explore the concept of hidden people, how to identify them, and what we can do to protect ourselves.
Hidden People in Our Homes
Our homes are supposed to be our sanctuaries, but sometimes, hidden people can be lurking in plain sight. This can include family members, roommates, or even spouses who may be hiding secrets or living double lives. Signs of hidden people in our homes may include:
- Unexplained changes in behaviour or mood
- Secretive phone calls or messages
- Unaccounted-for time or absences
- Dishonesty or evasiveness
Hidden People in Our Friendships
Our friendships are built on trust and loyalty, but sometimes, hidden people can infiltrate these relationships. This can include friends who:
- Only reach out when they need something
- Constantly gossip or speak negatively about others
- Cancel plans or don't follow through on commitments
- Show inconsistent or fake behaviour
Identifying Hidden People
So, how can we identify hidden people in our lives? Here are some red flags to watch out for:
- Inconsistencies in their words and actions
- Evasiveness or defensiveness when questioned
- Unwillingness to be transparent or open
- Manipulative or controlling behaviour
Protecting Ourselves
Once we identify hidden people in our lives, what can we do to protect ourselves? Here are some steps:
- Set boundaries and communicate openly
- Surround yourself with trustworthy people
- Be cautious of those who are overly charming or flattering
- Trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags
Hidden people are everywhere, even in our closest circles. By being aware of the signs and red flags, we can protect ourselves from deception and manipulation. Remember, trust your instincts and don't be afraid to set boundaries or distance yourself from those who may be hiding secrets or agendas.
Bible verses:
1. Matthew 7:15 - "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves."
This verse warns us to be cautious of people who appear to be genuine but have ulterior motives.
2. 2 Corinthians 11:14-15 - "And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. It is not surprising, then, if his servants also masquerade as servants of righteousness."
This verse highlights that even Satan disguises himself as good, and his followers may also pretend to be righteous.
3. Proverbs 26:24-25 - "Whoever hates disguises themselves with their lips and harbors deception in their heart; though they speak kindly, do not believe them."
This verse advises us to be wary of people who speak kindly but harbor deceit in their hearts.
4. John 2:24-25 - "But Jesus would not entrust himself to them, for he knew all people. He did not need any testimony about mankind, for he knew what was in each person."
This verse shows Jesus' discernment and awareness of people's true intentions.
5. 1 John 4:1 - "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
This verse encourages us to test people's words and actions to determine their authenticity.
These verses emphasize the importance of discernment, awareness, and caution when dealing with people who may be hiding secrets or agendas. By being aware of these biblical warnings, we can better protect ourselves from deception and manipulation.
