we are going to explore the marks of sinful criticism, which are contrasted with the characteristics of constructive counsel. Sinful criticism, also known as faultfinding, is a behavior that we must be aware of and avoid in our Christian walk.
Firstly, let us examine the motives behind our words and actions. Are we driven by hatred, vengefulness, or a desire to entrap others? Or are we motivated by love, peacefulness, and a desire to impart grace?
The Bible warns us against the dangers of sinful criticism. In Luke 11:53-54, Jesus rebukes the scribes and Pharisees for their hypocrisy and love of controversy. In Colossians 4:5-6, we are instructed to walk in wisdom towards outsiders, making the most of every opportunity to share the Gospel.
Now, let us look at the specific marks of sinful criticism vs Constructive Criticism.
1. Hatred (Genesis 37:4, Proverbs 26:24-26) vs. Love (Romans 13:10)
2. Vengeful (Proverbs 24:29) vs. Peaceful and merciful (Matthew 7:12, Romans 12:17)
3. Entrapment (Luke 11:53-54, 20:20) vs. Examination (Acts 17:11, 1 John 4:1)
4. Prejudice (James 2:1-4, John 1:46) vs. Impartial (James 3:17, Ephesians 4:31-32)
5. Binding traditions (Mark 7:2-5, Matthew 15:12-14) vs. Binding truth (Mark 7:6-13, 1 Corinthians 14:3, 2 Thessalonians 2:15)
6. Self-righteous (Luke 18:9-12, Proverbs 30:12-13, Job 12:1-3) vs. Self-reproach (Luke 18:13, Galatians 6:1)
7. Hypocritical (Matthew 7:3-4) vs. Humble (James 4:6, 10, Romans 12:16)
8. Judging by appearance (John 7:24) vs. Judging righteously (John 5:30)
9. Responding with human wisdom and faithlessness (John 6:41-42, 60-61) vs. Responding with faith in divine truth (John 6:63, 68)
10. Being obsessed with disputes, envy, strife, reviling, and evil suspicions (1 Timothy 6:4) vs. Being gentle and forbearing (2 Timothy 2:23-25)
11. Rejoicing in sin (1 Corinthians 13:6) vs. Rejoicing in the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6, Ephesians 4:15)
we are reminded of the impact of our words on those around us. The Bible teaches us that our speech can either build up or tear down. In Ephesians 4:29, we are exhorted to let our words be constructive, edifying, and uplifting.
In contrast, sinful criticism can destroy relationships and souls, becoming a stumbling block to others. Jesus faced and exposed false faultfinding and critical spirits, while addressing sin in all its forms without sinning himself.
So, how can we avoid being sinfully critical while still reproving and rebuking sin when necessary?
1. Examine our motives: Are we seeking to build up or tear down?
2. Speak the truth in love: Constructive criticism is done with a heart of love and a desire to see others grow.
3. Be aware of our own sin: Recognize our own shortcomings and repent before addressing others'.
4. Use discernment: Distinguish between sin and personal preferences or opinions.
5. Seek restoration: Aim to restore others in a spirit of gentleness and humility.
May our words be a blessing to others, building them up in faith and love. May we use our speech to edify and save, rather than tearing down and destroying. Let us strive to be constructive critics, speaking truth in love, for the glory of God. Amen.
