Summary: The Church: Purpose, Profile & Priorities: Talk #'3: 'Koinonia: Authentic Fellowship.' (PowerPoint slides to accompany this talk are available on request – email: gcurley@gcurley.info)

SERMON OUTLINE:

What does fellowship mean?

How is fellowship done?

When does fellowship happen?

SERMON BODY:

Ill:

• At the seaside or a fair ground or theme park,

• Did you ever put your face through a cut out hole in a headless painted frame?

• To represent a muscle man, a clown, or even a bathing beauty?

• TRANSITION: The photos are humorous because the head doesn't fit the body.

• If we could picture Christ as the head of our local body of believers,

• Would the world laugh at the misfit?

• Or would they stand in awe of a human body so closely related to a divine head?

ill:

• A man was answering questions for a national poll.

• When he was asked for his church preference,

• He responded with the tongue-in-cheek answer, "Red brick."

• TRANSITION: In Acts chapter 2, there was no choice regarding Church.

• You went to this Church in Jerusalem or not at all,

• There was no other choice!

• I have visited countries where it is like that, just one evangelical Church.

• Now, remember that in all the New Testament,

• The word, ‘Church’ never refers to a building but always people.

• A community of people who are saved, look back to verse 41,

“Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day.”

• Peter in his first and best sermon,

• Preached the good news concerning Jesus Christ.

• His unparalleled and perfect life, his vicarious death for our sins and his resurrection!

• He also told them a few home truths about themselves.

• They were sinners, they needed forgiveness and they needed to repent and believe!

• The crowd heard the message and responded,

• Verse 37, “they were cut to the heart.”

• The Holy Spirit convicted them of their sin, and they had a conversion experience,

• They believed and were baptised,

• They made a public commitment to follow Jesus Christ.

• Then they (as if automatically) enjoyed 'Koinonia’ what we call Christian fellowship,

This is emphasised in verses 44, “All the believers were together…”

• Remember this was a big Church of 3,120 people,

• (i.e. chapter 1 verse 15 and chapter 2 verse 41),

• But they ‘all’ came together – not some or most of them, the emphasis is “all.”

• As I look at the New Testament, it seems to me,

• That you should never have to convince God's people their need to meet together.

• You should never have to do that.

• This is expected, commanded and it is a very basic activity of the Christian life.

And these verses (vs 42) tell us why they came along:

• They TOGETHER came collectively to learn – from the apostles teaching,

• Christianity is a taught faith.

• That is one reason God gave teachers to the Church, we need to learn from others!

• They TOGETHER came jointly to pray,

• Collective prayer was a Siamese twin to personal prayer!

• We see collective prayer in the book of Acts and the New Testament letters.

• They TOGETHER came collectively to Break Bread,

• That is both, Communion & having meals together.

• In some Churches (e.g. Corinth) one flowed out of the other.

• They TOGETHER came jointly to share – to meet needs,

• What we refer to as practical fellowship.

• Firstly: by sharing of something with someone – such as money or food.

• Secondly: by sharing in something with someone – such as sorrow or joy.

• Koinonia comes in many flavours, but it always includes sharing.

Question: Did you notice that all those metaphors for the Church are plural?

• They are collective, a family, a kingdom, an army, a household.

• They are collective because the normal Christian life,

• Is expected to be lived out in fellowship with other Christians,

Question #1: What does fellowship mean?

• I want to suggest that you cannot thrive as a Christian without fellowship.

• In fact, I would even say you cannot survive as a believer without fellowship!

Always remember that fellowship is God’s idea and design,

• Jesus said, “I will build MY Church,” – he is the architect and designer.

• It is not the preacher’s idea, not the leaders of a certain type of denomination.

• It is God’s idea that people who want to follow him live their lives together.

Question: How are the people of God described in the New Testament?

Answer: we are described in various word pictures, such as….

• We are the family of God.

• We are an army.

• We are a royal priesthood.

• We are a holy nation.

• We are citizens of the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of God.

• We are the sheep in God’s sheepfold.

• We are branches attached to the living vine.

• We are God’s vineyard.

• We are a city.

• The Kingdom of God

• The Household of God

• We are the church is the temple of God, built with living stones,

• With Christ as the foundation and cornerstone.

• The Church is a community of people who are committed to God,

• A community of people who are committed to one another.

• A community of people that incarnate their faith collectively!

Christian Fellowship, i.e. being an active member of a local Church.

• Is that characteristic that transforms the church goer into a church member.

• It's the difference between somebody saying, “I go to church,”

• And to somebody who realizes, “I am the church.”

Ill:

• Fellowship is all about, ‘with-ness!’ – W-I-T-H-N-E-S-S,

• And for a change I did not mispronounce the word,

• Withness is an actual word,

• It was not in my, ‘Microsoft Word Spell Checker’, but it’s in the dictionary!

Quote: Merriam-Webster Dictionary – witness (noun)

“The meaning of WITHNESS is the state or fact of being close to or connected with someone or something: close association or proximity.”

• TRANSITION:

• These first Christians had withness and they had it in abundance,

• We are told that, “everyday the met together,” (vs 46)

Note:

• Our English word, ‘fellowship’ comes from the Greek word,’ Koinonia.’

• And the root meaning of that word is the meaning, ‘common’ or ‘shared’.

• So, fellowship in the New Testament means common participation in something,

• Either by giving what you have to the other person or receiving what he or she has.

• Give and take is the essence of fellowship.

• Fellowship is reciprocal in the life of the Church.

• We serve each other, we build each other up, we meet each other’s needs.

The word ‘koinonia,’ is used about 20 times in the New Testament in that noun form.

• It is sometimes translated in other ways.

• e.g. Sometimes it's translated communion (1 Corinthians chapter 10 verse 16),

• e.g. Other times contribution (Romans chapter 25 verse 26)

• e.g. Other times it's translated as sharing (Romans chapter 15 verse 27).

• e.g. And, finally, it's translated as a partnership (2 Corinthians chapter 8 verse 4)

• So, if you put all of those meanings together.

• You discover that fellowship is sharing the life of Jesus Christ.

• It's not just a social gathering.

Fellowship, then, is not a spectator event that happens on Sunday.

• It's a common shared life with others.

• When we fellowship, we gather with a goal.

• And that goal is to encourage and promote each other to spiritual growth.

• That is our goal.

Ill:

• There is a little phrase that appears about 60 times throughout the New Testament.

• That really illustrates Christian fellowship.

• The phrase is “one another.”

• e.g. The New Testament instructs us to be,

• “Devoted to one another.” (Romans chapter 12 verse 10),

• e.g. “Honour one another.” (Romans chapter 12 verse 10),

• l e.g. “Live in harmony with one another.” (Romans chapter 12 verse 16),

• e.g. “Accept one another.” (Romans chapter 15 verse 7),

• e.g. “Serve one another in love” (Galatians chapter 5 verse 13),

• e.g. “Be kind and compassionate to one another.” (Ephesians chapter 4 verse 32),

• e.g. “Admonish one another.” (Colossians chapter 3 verse 16),

• e.g. “Encourage one another.”

• (1 Thessalonians chapter 5 verse 11; Hebrews chapter verse 13),

• e.g. “Spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”

• (Hebrews chapter 10 verse 24),

• e.g. “Offer hospitality.” (1 Peter chapter 4 verse 9),

• e.g. “And love one another.” (1 Peter chapter 1 verse 22).

• TRANSITION:

• All those verses give us an insight as to what fellowship means,

• What true biblical koinonia should look like.

• That is why I said earlier that this characteristic,

• That transforms the church goer into a church member.

• It's the difference between somebody saying, “I go to church,”

• And to somebody who realizes, “I am the church.”

Question #2: How is fellowship done?

ill:

• In May 1953,

• Two men became the first in history to climb to the top of Mt. Everest.

• They were Edmund Hillary, a New Zealand beekeeper and explorer,

• And his Sherpa guide from Nepal, Tenzing Norgay.

• They reached the summit together and attained instant international fame!

• On the way down from the 29,000-foot peak,

• Hillary slipped and started to fall.

• He would almost certainly have fallen to his death,

• But Tenzing Norgay immediately dug into the ice-wall his ice-axe.

• And fixed the rope linking them together, saving Hillary’s life.

• When they reached the bottom, they were swamped by international press.

• Who made a huge fuss over the Sherpa guide’s heroic action.

• Although Tenzing Norgay remained very calm,

• Very professional and un-carried away by it all.

• To all those who fired questions at him,

• He had one simple answer, “Mountain climbers always help each other.”

• TRANSITION: Christians always, or should always help each other,

• That is Koinonia. That is fellowship/sharing. That is our DNA!

Notice: This first Church had a two-fold structure (vs 46).

“Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts.”

• To put it simply they had a big meeting and a small meeting,

• A formal meeting and an informal meeting,

• They met collectively in the temple (the only place big enough for them all to meet),

• And in their homes – what we would call house groups or cells.

And the analogy continues.

• In the temple, where everyone met, the apostles would preach and teach.

• It was a time of instruction, inspiration, and worship.

• But then in the house meetings/groups this informal setting,

• Provided the opportunity to discuss what the apostles said.

• And to pray generally but also to share more personally – share needs,

• So, these verses illustrate two completely different,

• But complementary ways of how Church was done.

• Quote: Someone has said,

• “The big group meeting conveys the notion God is most high.

• The small group conveys the notion God is most nigh. He is close at hand.”

Note:

• By necessity, the big group meeting is spectator oriented.

• By that I mean the people come and listened to someone.

• In these verses the people came to the Temple,

• To listen to what Peter or the apostles are saying.

• They primarily listened to a message.

• (They may well have sung and prayed but they met first for teaching).

• But the small group meeting is, by necessity, participation oriented.

• It allows for the discussion of those principles.

• Within the four walls of a home, there is the freedom to share,

• To contribute, to ask questions, to discover needs and for everyone to pray.

• So how was fellowship done? Two different ways mainly,

• Big group, small group, both important.

• o, please if you can join a small group – we need you and you need us!

Question #3: When did fellowship happen?

• Or to bring it up to date and make it present tense.

• When DOES fellowship happen?

• The answer might surprise you.

• It happens when you want it to happen!

• That answer is not rocket-science, but it is honest and true.

• If you don't want it to happen, it will never happen.

• And some Christians just don't want to let anyone get too close.

• So, fellowship happens when you want it to happen,

• But for Church to be more than a club we attend,

• We have to participate at a deeper level.

Notice: There are a few glaring facts in these verses.

Fact number one, this was a large church.

• They went from 120 people in an upper room,

• (Acts chapter 1 verse 15)

• And soon became what we would call a mega church,

• Acts chapter 2 verse 41, tells us that 3,000 people came to Christ in one day!

• So, there are 3,120.

• We read (Acts chapter 2 verse 47)

• “And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.”

• This one and only Church is exploding with growth,

• They are multiplying and multiplying.

• So, this Church is getting bigger, and bigger, and bigger.

Fact number two, they all enjoyed fellowship.

• Quote: Verse 44.

• “All the believers were together and had everything in common.”

• I think it is a fact, certainly a principle,

• That whether the church has 20 people or 20,000 people,

• Everybody involved can, if they want to, can still have close friendships/fellowship.

For this first Church fellowship happened on a regular basis.

• Look at verse 46 it says these folk met, ‘daily.’

• Question: Didn’t they have jobs? Answer: yes!

• Question: Didn’t they have families? Answer: yes!

• Question: Did they have hobbies & leisure activities?

• Answer: Who knows? But meeting together was important to them!

• They made time, they prioritised, they saw the importance of fellowship!

Note: The thing to note from verse 46 is simple,

• Meeting together should be more frequent than infrequent.

• It should be more regular than irregular.

• It should be more a planned routine than something random.

Ill:

• Later, in the book of Acts chapter 20 verse 7, we read,

• “On the first day of the week we came together to break bread. Paul spoke…”

• This Church in Troas in Asia Minor,

• Is not meeting everyday like the Church in Jerusalem,

• But they are meeting collectively every Sunday (the first day of the week”.

• That seems to have become the norm.

• They were doing collectively meeting at least once a week,

• I would suggest as well as other times.

Ill:

• You may well know the often-quoted verse in Hebrews chapter 10 verse 25,

• That says,

N.I.V.:

“not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another – and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”

T.L.B.:

“Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.”

• That sounds to me like a direct command of scripture.

• And not a helpful suggestion!

• And back in Acts chapter 2 verse 42 we read,

• “They devoted themselves to…”

• Those words remind us again that these Christians were committed to this.

• They were in it to win it.

• There was skin in the game.

Note:

• Jesus founded his Church,

• Jesus purchased his Church,

• And Jesus ever lives for his Church.

• Question: And what is Christ's focus at present?

• Answer: He is building His Church.

• If the Church is that important to him!

• It had better be or become very important to me!

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